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I need your help. I am really close to this girl and we knew each other for a long time. We are best friends and she's like a sister to me. The problem is that she is starting to get on my nerves. She is always talking about guys all the time and she's all obssesed with them. It really annoys me because she doesn't know the guy and she is inlove with him! It's so annoying! And if the guy flirts with someone she gets really mad to that girl and I think the guy she likes can't get a girl anymore because all the girls know that if they flirt with him, she will get mad at her! She will also be really sad because of that. Don't tell me to just talk to my friend because I'm sure that if I talked to her about this, she will be so mad at me and our friendship will be over! Please help me! Should I just stop being friends with her because she just gets on my nerves. And she gets mad really fast!
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Either way confront her this girl may take it pretty hard. Guys were made for girls, but i understand where you're coming from when you want help with your friend. I know it's hard to see her get so attached to one guy that she prob. hardley even knows,but that's life. You may get her to back off a little by wanting to spend more time with her. Yeah guys are gonna be around but they'll come and go. Try talking about a certain guy to her and see how it makes her feel. Then give an example of another girl you might both know and say she's all into guys and it's getting annoying. See what advice she has to give to you and then switch it around and put that advice with her case. I would advise you to talk to her but I'd hate for you to lose a friendship too. You may end up putting y'alls friendship on a break for awhile, but y'all will come back around and she'll see she missed you and hopefully get over all the guys she was once into... maybe not for good but well enough that it won't get to be so nerve racking. If neither of these approaches work and you still want to be as close as yall are then it might just be that you'll have to deal with it until maybe one day she can hear herself and see how she gets so hooked on guys and cure her habits on her own. :)
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