well i kinda liked this guy-but ofcourse something has to go WRONG! well anyways he only talks to me if he wants something(like a cd or like some other stuff) gosh its frusteratinggg and i want to be nice-but its getting to the point when i cant take it anymore. it kinda hurts my feelings that he is just using me and he never liked me... like next time he trys to talk to me what should i say? should i just quit talking to him
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BrillntBrunettes answered Monday December 20 2004, 5:01 pm: Oh gosh guys are so hateful sometimes. It's like they have no feelings at all. Let him know that he's basically using you and you do not like it. Don't let him do that to you and especially don't let him think he can keep on acting like this and still get what he wants in return. Since it's gotten to the point that you can't take it anymore just tell him no next time and see how he reacts. If he still trys asking for something more on another occasion go on explaing to him that it's not worth it anymore. Tell him what's bothering you and if he takes it well then hopefully that'll be the end of that and he'll show that he cares about you. If it turns out that he doesn't understand where you're coming from then he's not worth your time and it may be time to cut off all connections you had with him and just let him go and let another girl live with his antics. I'm sorry he acts like that towards you and I hope I could be some help and everything turns out for the best! :) [ BrillntBrunettes's advice column | Ask BrillntBrunettes A Question ]
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