Hi. Ok, I have this little problem! See, I really like this guy & all but he's throwin me mixed signals! Like.. I've only known him for like 4 months & we became good friends fast. I was the first one to go and talk to him & he's new at our school this year. All my friends were to chicken to go & talk to him because they were like, "He's soo hot what if I say something stupid?" Ok.. well, I'm an outgoing person so that was easy for me! Anyways.. he'll say stuff like, Stephanie's gay!, so the whole class hears it but I dont care because I'm not gay & he's just kidding & he's always asking me about my boyfriends and how far I've gone with a guy. When I dont talk to him at all, he gets all sad like, "You broke my heart", but then he starts laughin. I dunno if he likes me likes me or if we're just good friends. What do you think?
-LyL-RyAh- answered Tuesday December 7 2004, 3:44 pm: Aww. Well it does seem like he has some interest in you. He might just be kind of trying to figure out if you like him. He wouldn't say that stuff randomly just for no reason so it kind of seems to me that he does like you and maybe just isn't sure. I would just throw him some signals that maybe your interested too, but you don't know if he is either. Hope I helped and good luck! <3 Ryah [ -LyL-RyAh-'s advice column | Ask -LyL-RyAh- A Question ]
FunnyCide answered Tuesday December 7 2004, 12:44 pm: you might have something there, but it might be just a friendship thats close. if you really want to know, you will have to ask him; it will probly be kinda scary or make you nervous, but since you said that you were outgoing, it shouldnt be hard. i guess i am kinda biased cause i am a Christian, and i dont think that girls should ask guys out, but thats me. i dont advise you to go ask him out, if he hears from you that like him, he may ask you out. if he doesnt like you, just go on with your life. it may be a little uncomferatable for the first few days after you tell him that you like him if he doesnt like you, but if hes outgoing too it should be fine. if hes a little nervous acting and shy after that, its probly cause you told him something that was new. hope it all goes well!
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ChArMeDnUt answered Monday December 6 2004, 11:26 pm: I think you might be well on your way to getting another boy friend. Try to flirt a little if you like him too, to let him know you like him, but dont go overboard, you dont want to scare him away. It sounds like he just likes you as a friend though, but wants to be a close one, but dont rule out the possibiblity that he likes you. [ ChArMeDnUt's advice column | Ask ChArMeDnUt A Question ]
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