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13/f
Ok well i've been really bored lately and i just got of restriction that lasted for ever and i just wanta do something fun with all my friends guys and girls. So i was thinking about throwing a party but like i need a theme and some good ideas like what to do so it wouldnt be so lame and just something we could do from 6:00 pm to 9:30 pm that would be fun and wouldnt get lame and stuff like that and that we could all have fun doin if this helps i have a nice pool in the backyard but its too cold to swim i also have a trampoline and i would want about 25 people at the most so give any good ideas and ill rate u a 5
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Well, first off, for a good party, you don't need a dj or anything. Hook up an i-pod with a whole bunch of good tunes into your CD player. That should get things started. The trampoline sounds like fun in itself. You should pick a cool theme such as: pirates, white and black, seventies, you know. You could give out party bags (not "so second grade") with things that relate to the theme. (For instance if you did the pirate, you could put in chocolate coins, an eyepatch, a skull ring, etc.) Make sure that there's plenty to munch on. You could also have a movie playing in the livingroom, and if you have a patio, turn it into a dance floor by clearing off space and decorating it flashy.
Good luck with that party
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well i was hanging out with some guys aboout 2 years older than me. i have only been friends with them for like a month, and i think one of them (Josh) is incredible hott. So i was with the guys and josh was there and he kept staring at me. so i was like why are u staring at me? and hes like your really pretty. and he started smiling... but idk if i believe him or not. is he only doing this as a joke since he knows i think hes hott? should i trust him, or is he just doing this to show off for his friends? (link)
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Baby. Of course he's playing a game with you. You want to know what the game is? Flirtation. He's digging you. You know that he's not showing off because he called you "pretty", not "hot". You can tell when a guy just wants your body when he calls you hot. Give him a chance. Get to know him a little better though before you date him.
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ok well i broke my wrist a coupple years ago like 2 or 3 and like the other day i was doing something and it started to hurt but now i have like a bump on my arm and i dont no what i did to make that happen but i think that i fractured my wrist but im not sure how can i tell...and i dont really feel pain in my arm when i break or hurt things.. example when i broke my wrist hella badly it didnt hurt at all and the doctors were freeking out and all tell me that it is odd that it didnt hurt at all..
how can u tell if you fracture you wrist without going to the doctor yet casuse i have to do a colorgaurd(twirling flags) thing tomorrow at 1/2 feild show for one of the biggest games that we have. and i cant go untill after that on friday.. so how can i tell? (link)
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Okay sweetie, the fact that there's a piece of your arm sticking out when it never has before......means there's something wrong. If you play with an injured arm or not, that's up to you, but keep in mind that you might hurt it even worse.
I suggest that you can twirl, but take it easy, then get to the doctor as soon as possible.
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is sex a verb or a noun? (link)
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It is considered both because sex is male or female. It can be considered a noun because it is a thing that occurs. It's considered verb because it's an action as well.
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My 8th grade prom is coming up(towards the end of the school yr.) and its not a problem to find a date for the prom the problem is that i get nervous dancing infront of people i dont know why though. Just to let you'll know i do know how to dance. If anyone has any tips on ways i could get over this please let me know! (link)
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You know you can dance, and this dance will only happen once. Dance your heart out like no one is watching. Pretend it's just you and your mirror. I used to be so scared to dance, and it turns out, everyone loved my dancing style. Don't be afraid honey. Show your spirit and dance your heart out.
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ok so this is kinda two categories so i picked the one that started the problem i slipped on some steps by my schools office and hurt my right foot and it really hurts. ive gone back to school but i thought that maybe i might get some extra attention from the guy i like weird thing is its like im getting less i mean hes being respectful not racing me to english bc my foot is hurt but its like he doesnt care what happened. i want him to care atleast a little he didnt even ask what happened or offer to help i may just be crazy but i think im making a big deal out of nothing am i? i thought he liked me and now im not so sure (link)
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Well sweetie. I'm going to have to agree with you. You're making a big deal out of nothing. You hurt your foot, and that's pretty obvious to him. He's probably not making a big deal out of it because he doesn't want you to feel bad about it. This doesn't mean that he likes you any less. He's just being courteous darling.
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I am a good writer and I LOVE writing shor stories. I am 13/f. I was looking for a new topic to write about but no one has any ideas. I like writing about reality... meaning I don't like to write fantasies. For example, I don't write about dwarfs, dragons, elves, etc. Anyways, I was wondering if anyone had a summary or something of something yall have heard or something so I can turn it into a story. Much appreciation.
I rate high! (link)
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Wow. Now I know you might not find this appealing, but writing about an everyday highschool girl's life could be highly entertaining. The drama of the problem with the friends, her attempt to tell her crush that she's madly in love with him, the family life.
Use your imagination. It could be terribly awesome. =D
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When my husband and I were first married, he promised me that if we ever had children, he would get out of the army. Two children later, he still hasn't gotten out.
The army has ended up being his life. He loves his job and has informed me that he is never getting out. He feels like his country needs him. I think this is very selfish of him to break his promise to me. The children barely know who their own father is. I feel like a single mother.
While he was in Iraq the second time, I wrote him a letter telling him I couldn't take it anymore and I was filing for divorce. I told him when he got back that I did not mean what I had said and that I was just going through a hard time with the pregnancy. Now three months after the birth of our second child, he is going back to Iraq.
I really do not want to leave this man. I love him dearly; he is my husband and the father of my children. My parents went through a divorce when I was a little girl, so I know how traumatic it is for a child.
It's hard for me to fight with him over this. The precious time he is here, I do not want to fight with him and bring up this issue. I want us to be happy with our time together and act like a family when he is here. I do not want him leaving to go to Iraq thinking that his wife might leave him. But sometimes, I feel like this relationship is just too difficult to take anymore.
What should I do? How do I cope with this? (link)
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I'm not going to say that I understand what you're going through, because I've never been in this situation, but I am going to tell you one thing: if you truly love this man with your heart, you will try to work this out. It is obvious that he is very content with his job in the military, and you are uneasy with this, for the fact that your children are growing up without knowing their father as well as you would like.
One thing that I dont' really think is a good idea is threatening to file for divorce while he is over fighting in Iraq. Putting that on his mind might cause something to happen. It could distract him, put stress on him, and cause him to be unfocused on his job.
You need to wait until he comes home and talk this out rationally. Since he loves his job, is there any other job field that he is interested in and could possibly obtain a job in? If so, then this change is reasonable.
I also think that you should go to a counselor. The counselor might bring to light different options that are available to you and your spouse.
Don't end this relationship with the man you love if there is any way to possibly work this out. I wish you the best of luck darling.
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have a big problem...i'm 15 and i'm goin to be 16 soon, i have never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy...is something wrong with me? what should i do?
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THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU SWEETIE! Don't you EVER think that. Your first kiss will come when it's supposed to. I recently dated this guy. He was a senior. Had never been kissed or had his first girlfriend. It wasn't that he was ugly either. He was pretty handsome. But he just didn't find the right girl. There are tons of gorgeous, perfectly normal girls who have never had their first kiss or boyfriend yet. Some are even 17 or 18 years old.
When the time comes, you'll know.
There's nothing wrong with that darling.
xoxo karissa
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ok so my moms going into operation tomorrow. and its not a big one. but im just scared cause she told me you can die over the littlest ones too. and im really worried.. what can i do to get my mind off of everything? (link)
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First off darling: With EVERY operation, even a root canal, their is always a chance of dying. Getting too much anethesia could kill you. Yes, you know that fact, but how often does that happen? RARELY. Really darling, stop worrying yourself over this. Listen to some music, write stuff, pray if you need to.
Pray for peace and serenity, and if you don't believe in god. Try a nice bath.
Your mother is going to be fine.
Don't worry yourself over it.
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before i start, i guess you should know that im a 14/f, and im so sorry if this turns out to be super long. =/
so...how exactly do you find out if a guy likes you without coming right out and saying 'so, what do you think of me' im getting sick of waiting, and there are many signs that he MIGHT like me, but you never know, cuz as the subject says, guys are confusing. so if it helps, heres a lil about the situation~
so, i have liked him for a year, when he moved here from texas. i got his sn from my brother, cuz he was sorta friends with him,and i was talking to him and my best friend on aim, and she asked for his sn, and so gave it to her. she told him who she was and all that, and then she asked him what he thought of me, saying my whole name, since there are just so many girls with my name out there, and he said that im good looking, but i dont talk much. and appartently as time went on he said differnent things about me to her that he liked about me, like that i have an interest in music, and i know a lot about it. and that after he started talking to me more, he realized that i am very nice, and ez to talk to and all that. i asked him to a dance type of thing, and he said he couldnt afford it, but he would like to go. about a week later, i offered to pay for his ticket, and he said he couldnt go this year, but theres a possibility for it for next year. and one more thing. he smiles at me, but never talks to me unless i talk to him. and last year he was on my bus, and i always caught him staring at me. hope all that helped! thanks a whole lot!!! (link)
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Awww. This is so sweet. Okay. It is completley and utterly obvious that this guy is totally into you. He's just waaay too shy to say so.
So your best choice of action to me, is to ask him somewhere. To the movies. You need to talk to him, flirt and hint that you like him. Just be extremley flirtations, NOT SLUTTY, and he'll get the hint.
You do that part, let him know that you're into him, and the rest will fall into place. But unless you take some kind of action to let him know, nothing will ever become of it.
good luck darling
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Hey! I seriously need fashion help!! I'm 4"9 so its sooo hard to find clothes that fit me from abercrombie and stuff!! (yes im 13..its a small family thing..) I have medium-brown layerd hair,black eyebrows long eyelashes,small upper body frame,flat chested...and yellowy/light skinned. I basically need a head-to-toe make over of what you think would be the right style,fashion,or even an out-fit for me that matches and looks soo cute!Also,maybe a little guild on how to find your own,hot origonal style? im sort of looking for that ghetto-city edge cause thats were i am.Please help thanks lots,and please girls answer this lol!
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Okay, well, the whole fashion thing...I think that you should find something that's both comfortable and fashionable. And you're probably not going to find things your size at a brand name store like that. My suggestion: Check out thrift stores. Yeah, I know you're thinking "ewww that is totally gross", but really, they have some amazing things in there, even for smaller people.
And here's a tip about how to dress after reading your body description. I don't think you should aim for tight fitting tops if you're flat chested. Try some of those cute logo t-shirts with sayings on them or something like that, with tight fitting pants and an awesome belt. This way it draws attention to your accessories, not the fact that you're "flat chested".
xoxo
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15/sophmore/female.
I have been with my boyfriend since feb. 2nd 2004. yes, 2004, not a typo. He has always gotten, uneasy (i guess thats the word) when i talk to or hang out with other guys. Me and my boyfriend go to different schools. Well I talk to this guy from my summer job, and he is 21, and in college. My boyfriend is 17, and i am 15. And my boyfriend is on drumline, and so I am so used to him not getting home until 6:00. I get home around 3:30. well, he doesnt have drumline anymore, so he was home today. and i didnt call him. so when I did, he didnt sounded, not mad, but upset, i cant describe it. and he asked if i was online, and i said yes. and then he asked if i was "talking to that twenty year old " and i said yes, and i was talking to Elise too. And he said "I'll call you later" and i asked why. and then i cant remeber the rest, it was really short, and then he hung up. and didnt say bye. so i called back, no answer. i called his cell, no answer, so i texted him saying that im sorry and that he cant get mad at me for talking with my friends and that i love him (being my boyfriend) in a way that i could never love anyone else.
My boyfriend and i do have silly fights alot. but this one is stupid, i mean, this guy is 6years older than me. I would never date him. He is a good friend,sorta like a brother to me.
did i do anything wrong?
My boyfriend and i just got over the whole "cant hug the opposite sex" thing. he used to get upset when i did that. keep that in mind.
What should I do? What should i say? should i call my boyfriend? text him?
any advice is welcome.
if you need more info, just ask for it. thank you.
-Kelsey- (link)
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Okay. I know that your first impulse is to keep on calling and calling and texting and texting until he answers. Don't do that sweetie. You should text him, say "You need to realize that I love you, and only you".
nothing else. and send it. If he responds, so be it. You don't have to explain to him what you explained to me. You have a right to talk to whomever you choose. If he keeps on with this controlling manner, then Im sorry to say, even though you've been going out so long, it's only going to get worse. He may get physical.
I know that you're thinking "oh he would never hurt me" but honey, some guys can get extremley jealous. If this persistent act of jealousy keeps up, you need to say goodbye.
Good luck honey.
PS. I've been in this exact situation before, so I know how to approach it. Send me a message if you need anymore help darling .
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I really like this kid and i don't really know him that well but my friends have told him that i like him and stuff so he knows i have his screen name and everything but im too shy to talk to him about liking him or anyhtingg help
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Okay, well... If you instantly tell him "I LIKE YOU". that's not really a good thing to do from the get-go. You should talk to him first. See if you do in fact like who he is. You should try to get to know him, and then, if you still like him, ask him if he wants to hang out. If you do indeed find that you enjoy his company, be flirtatious, and he will get the signal. Don't start off telling him that you like him, because he might think he's got you. Make him work for you babe, because you're so worth it! ;P
xoxo
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i was wondering if excessive vaginal discharge and smellier discharge could be a sign of pregnancy..im 3 days late on my period, thanks! (link)
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No. Pregnancy is not it. You might have a yeast infection. You should check it out if it continues longer then 5 days hun.
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Volleyball is the one sport I love with a passion. I connect with it so well and I've played it for 5 years. This year, alot of conflicts came up that make me miss many practices, games, and tournaments. So, I talked to my coach about becoming team manager and helping out in practices and keeping score for the team during some games. Things like that. But, last year I sat out at every game because I was a freshman, and this year would be my time to play in games. It's hard for me, but I'm deciding to go with the team manager or actually try out and have the concequence of my coach really getting mad at me for missing so many pracitces... which one sounds better? (link)
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Okay, here's the mature thing to you. You should schuedule a time witn your coach and explain all of this to him and give him an estimate of how many practices and/or games you might miss each month. If you explain this and talk to him and tell how much the team means to you, he might be okay with you missing that.
Basically, you need to talk to your coach about these two options and decide together which would be best for you and the team.
Good luck honey!
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HELP PLEASE..WILL RATE HIGH
here's the background information:::
last night..i went to the homecomming game with my friends. i hung out with a group of my really close guy friends for a while. i recientally broke up with my boyfriend..and my close friend (( im just going to use letters )) D asked me to take a walk with him. so i said alright, and we talked about y i broke up with my bf E. after a few min..he held my hand and he told me that he respectes my decision about what i did. also that night..i hung out with my friend C..we were fooling around..he said something random or stupid, and i'd kick him cause it was so annoying..but thats the way we are...anyways...today, my friend D imed me and told me that i shuld go out with C...i found this totally random and asked him y he thought i should. he told me that me and C look good together...which..i dont really kno for sure.....my other friend ( a guy ) told me that he thinks D likes me and tried using the whole " C && me makes a good couple" to distract me....
my question is....is it ture that he could be saying that i look good with someone else to hide his feelings for me? (link)
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Wow. I've seen this used so much. "D" wants to see how much you like him. He wants to see if you're going to pick him over "C". Come on girl, if you like "D", now's your chance to tell him!!!!!!!!!
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sorry its long
I like this guy, he is 3 years older than me. but i dont want to liek him. we are really good friends and we hooked up and we started tlaking, he told me stuff about him and i told him thing we were really close we would kiss when we saw eachother wich was alot, but one night he got really drunk and hooked up with this girl. i found out and got really really really upset because i really liked him. even that night he called me up asking me where i live when he knows where i live cuz hes been to my house a million times. the next day he aske dif i was mad at him and i said why did you have to lead me on and then treat me like that and he said i told you it wouldnt work out for us because of our age. so i got upset, then homecoming happend and shit happend so he imed me and he asked me if i was feeling alright and we were actullay talking and he came over that monday after and we hungout but after taht things changed. we would still talk but not romanticly and it was because he met this girl and it turned out they like eachother now, and im upset, i say im over him and stuff but im not. and i even talk to him about how i want someone serious and he says he wants to settle down and not hookup with so many girls and i thinkhe wants somethign with this girl. ANYWAYS, i dont want to have feelings for him, and i want to be his friend. (link)
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Wow. I know exactly how you feel. I've been in this position. I'm sorry to say, but you're going to have to try to cut him out of your life, at least for a little time. Don't call him, don't arrange to "hang out" or anything like that. I'm not saying to completley ignore him. I mean, if you see him around, acknowledge his presence with a hi, but seriously honey, if you call him and hang out with him. You're going to find yourself yearning for him.
I did this and soon I realized "wow, I really don't need this guy anymore".
Good luck honey!
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can you get any STD's from being fingerd....i didnt cum or anything like that ...but i was fingerd and it was my first time and i worried (link)
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The only way you could get an STD from being fingered is if the guy came and it was on his hand as he fingered you. But I'm sure that's not the case, and even if that happened, it would be extremley rare. Don't worry about it babe. You're not going to get one. Stop worrying.
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This isnt a real love life kinda question but like ive heard that chewing gum actually makes your breathe stink? is that true? (link)
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Like some of the girls stated, it does depend on how much sugar is in it. Sugar and even breath mints just hide the scent, but if the sugar stays on your tongue long enough, it can cause your breath to stink, so just as long as you brush, don't worry about it. Chew as much as you like
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