Question Posted Wednesday November 9 2005, 5:11 pm
before i start, i guess you should know that im a 14/f, and im so sorry if this turns out to be super long. =/
so...how exactly do you find out if a guy likes you without coming right out and saying 'so, what do you think of me' im getting sick of waiting, and there are many signs that he MIGHT like me, but you never know, cuz as the subject says, guys are confusing. so if it helps, heres a lil about the situation~
so, i have liked him for a year, when he moved here from texas. i got his sn from my brother, cuz he was sorta friends with him,and i was talking to him and my best friend on aim, and she asked for his sn, and so gave it to her. she told him who she was and all that, and then she asked him what he thought of me, saying my whole name, since there are just so many girls with my name out there, and he said that im good looking, but i dont talk much. and appartently as time went on he said differnent things about me to her that he liked about me, like that i have an interest in music, and i know a lot about it. and that after he started talking to me more, he realized that i am very nice, and ez to talk to and all that. i asked him to a dance type of thing, and he said he couldnt afford it, but he would like to go. about a week later, i offered to pay for his ticket, and he said he couldnt go this year, but theres a possibility for it for next year. and one more thing. he smiles at me, but never talks to me unless i talk to him. and last year he was on my bus, and i always caught him staring at me. hope all that helped! thanks a whole lot!!!
So your best choice of action to me, is to ask him somewhere. To the movies. You need to talk to him, flirt and hint that you like him. Just be extremley flirtations, NOT SLUTTY, and he'll get the hint.
You do that part, let him know that you're into him, and the rest will fall into place. But unless you take some kind of action to let him know, nothing will ever become of it.
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