Question Posted Wednesday November 9 2005, 4:16 pm
have a big problem...i'm 15 and i'm goin to be 16 soon, i have never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy...is something wrong with me? what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? solightninglove answered Friday April 13 2007, 12:44 am: hey. dont stress over it. i did for the longest time and its really no big deal. as i get told often, its not some life or death thing that is gonna really hurt you in the future. i'm seventeen (about to be 18 in june and i just got kissed for the first time yesterday. it was pretty amazing. but thats not the point here, there might be a reason you dont have a bf like are you shy? are you intimidating? are you like SUPER pretty and guys are afraid to talk to you lol or maybe it just hasnt happened yet. the point is its not that big a deal. there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. and you just have to let life happen to you. you really remind me of me when i was your age. and dont worry. things will get better.
and when it comes to boys to steal a line or so from my brilliant brother
"treat yourself right ... with respect and dignity. and make sure they do too."
"have fun! always with everything you pssibly can... thats part of my philosophy...
but you have to be responsible for what you do as well."
morbidministry13 answered Thursday November 10 2005, 5:34 pm: first off there is nothing wrong with you.
Mabey its just that you haven't found the right guy yet try just being your self or if you like someone let them know you never know that one person could be standing right in front of you
hope i helped
signed
Morbid [ morbidministry13's advice column | Ask morbidministry13 A Question ]
happy-helper answered Thursday November 10 2005, 1:35 pm: Nothing is wrong with you. If it makes you feel any better, I know someone who was EXTREMELY pretty who didn't kiss for the first time until she was 20! Just because others might have even lost their virginity now, doesn't mean you should follow in their footsteps...be yourself and a first kiss should be what you want, not what others want you to do.
Good luck and don't worry! :)
x Steph x [ happy-helper's advice column | Ask happy-helper A Question ]
thinkpink03 answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 8:00 pm: no nothing is wrong! everyone has their firsts at a different age...so nothing is wrong with you. dont rush or anything, just wait until the right guy with the right kiss comes to you! dont worry hun!
Mackenzie answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 7:50 pm: Aww, no - there is absolutely nothing "wrong" with you! Infact, if this helps you feel better: I have many friends who are 20+, and they still haven't ever held a relationship before. Honestly, there's no reason you should worrie about this. Just because some of your friends might have done certain things does NOT mean you should have already done them, too!! You're only 15 - you have PLENTY of time still. Truthfully, it's NOT as big of a deal as you might assume. Don't stress yourself out about this. It'll happen in time, and when it does it'll be unforgettable. Don't cheat yourself out of one of the best teenage memories by rushing it. =] [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 7:02 pm: nothings rong with you. some people just take more time. trust me. dont rush it. theres really nothing you can do. my friend was 18 and never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy and she was waayy pritty and everything. but she was just shy! so dont rush it. give it time. when its the right time youll get your boy. dont worry so much!
Melaur1001 answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 6:52 pm: absolutly NOTHING is wrong with you. I respect you for that! it seems like your waiting for a GOOD guy to come around.. because you know ANY girl could get a guy... boys will take anything that has boobs and a pussy :o) make sure your first time is with somebody special... i promise it is worth it! [ Melaur1001's advice column | Ask Melaur1001 A Question ]
RockStoleMySoul answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 5:59 pm: THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU SWEETIE! Don't you EVER think that. Your first kiss will come when it's supposed to. I recently dated this guy. He was a senior. Had never been kissed or had his first girlfriend. It wasn't that he was ugly either. He was pretty handsome. But he just didn't find the right girl. There are tons of gorgeous, perfectly normal girls who have never had their first kiss or boyfriend yet. Some are even 17 or 18 years old.
naimee answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 5:44 pm: Hey, i'm 15 too! almost 16.
And pretty much I've been in the same situation as you. Except I've kissed a boy. But, I haven't had a serious boyfriend girlfriend relationship! A lot of my friends haven't even kissed a boy yet and their like 17. So, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you.
My advice to you would be to just date around. Like, every girl can find a boyfriend, and I'm sure you're pretty enough! :) Just find a boy that you're really interested in & start hanging out with him. Then you'll have a boyfriend. It's not the easiest thing in the world, and it won't happen over night. So, don't worry about it seriously - our times will come (: [ naimee's advice column | Ask naimee A Question ]
jbdreamer answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 5:24 pm: There is nothing wrong with you. You are just waiting for the right guy! I think it's sweet, and a lot better than some girl that makes out with every boy she meets.
To make you feel better, I didn't have my first kiss until I was 20. And I am now happily married.
animalover658 answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 5:24 pm: hi, well thats pretty natural belive it or not! some women dont ever have a boyfriend, kiss a boy, or even get married! but, what you should do is just wait for the right guy to come along one day, and you'll know when it happens.
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