last night..i went to the homecomming game with my friends. i hung out with a group of my really close guy friends for a while. i recientally broke up with my boyfriend..and my close friend (( im just going to use letters )) D asked me to take a walk with him. so i said alright, and we talked about y i broke up with my bf E. after a few min..he held my hand and he told me that he respectes my decision about what i did. also that night..i hung out with my friend C..we were fooling around..he said something random or stupid, and i'd kick him cause it was so annoying..but thats the way we are...anyways...today, my friend D imed me and told me that i shuld go out with C...i found this totally random and asked him y he thought i should. he told me that me and C look good together...which..i dont really kno for sure.....my other friend ( a guy ) told me that he thinks D likes me and tried using the whole " C && me makes a good couple" to distract me....
my question is....is it ture that he could be saying that i look good with someone else to hide his feelings for me?
unseen_depression answered Monday November 7 2005, 5:12 pm: yes it is very true! guys and girls do this often. in a guys case, they feel that if they tell you that you'd look good with someone else, it will give you respect for them because 'they want you to be happy'. it happens often, but its not always to be considered 'reverse pshycology' although thats what it really is. guys often do this because they are too shy or emberrassed to actually tell you that they like you, in fear that you might not feel the same way. well, i hope that helped, if it didnt, im sorry. :) [ unseen_depression's advice column | Ask unseen_depression A Question ]
Jessica13 answered Saturday November 5 2005, 5:18 pm: yes I think he is just hideing his feelings I think you should ask him how he feels about you and ask him if he would ever go out with you if you like D go out with him I think he likes you.
Lyfe8allbad answered Saturday November 5 2005, 4:55 pm: Of course. He likes you alot and i mean alot. You should of notice the first sign when ya'll started holding hands. He is trying to cover up his feelings by sayin someone else likes hoping that you would say that your not in to him like that. Then he would prolly ask if you like him. Now thats the question do you? [ Lyfe8allbad's advice column | Ask Lyfe8allbad A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Saturday November 5 2005, 4:45 pm: i think it is true he is trying to test you and see if you like him back without him actully telling you that. if you like D then go out with him. if you like C then go out with him. the best thing to say in your situation is to follow your heart. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Saturday November 5 2005, 4:02 pm: D might like you er maybe he juss really likes you as a friend. i think you should ask D & talk to him about why he asked you to go out with C & all that. it sounds like alphabet soup i know haha =) juss ask him to be honest with him & let him know how you feel about it. if he truly doesn't like you, then go for it with C if you like him er what not.
RockStoleMySoul answered Saturday November 5 2005, 3:47 pm: Wow. I've seen this used so much. "D" wants to see how much you like him. He wants to see if you're going to pick him over "C". Come on girl, if you like "D", now's your chance to tell him!!!!!!!!! [ RockStoleMySoul's advice column | Ask RockStoleMySoul A Question ]
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