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My name is Kimmy. I live in Parma, Ohio. I have black hair, brown eyes, glasses, I weigh 100, and I'm 5'3. I have my bellybutton pierced, my ears pierced 4 times each, my nose pierced, and my eyebrow pierced. I also have a tattoo on my lower back, and on my shoulder, but I'd like to get another one someday. I love helping people out, so if anyone ever has a question to ask, please feel free to leave a question in my inbox, or you can just IM me or email me if you'd like. I love meeting new people, so if anyone wants to, go ahead and IM me!!!! I'd love to talk. If you wanna know anything else just ask. I'm here to help people out!
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Well, I am scared to death of my mom for no apparent reason. I am scared to do school work while she is awake because she might get mad at me. I hate to ever get money from her. It is so bad that I fear to even get a ride from her because I have this big fear of guilt. Isn't that hopelessly pathetic? I don't know why but I feel that if I let her do anything for me, that I am being a shitty child. Please someone else tell me that I am not just crazy or weird or someone else tell me that they have this issue.
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Hi hunny,
I'm so sorry, I've never felt this way. If you have no reason to be scared of your mom then you shouldn't be. I'm sure she loves you to death because you are her son, and I am sure she loves doing stuff for you. You should really talk to her about this, because she might sense that something is wrong. Talk to her, it should help you feel better about everything.
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ok well I have this boyfriend and we've been together for a long time and i truly love him and all but lately i've been thikning and i've gotten really confused because i care so much for him but i keep thinking that i can't make him as happy as i could be making him and that there's so much that i'm doing wrong. also i've been having alot of doubts i mean i keep thinking of dumping him not for the sake of me but for him. it upsets me because i'm confused about my feelings for him. it upsets me that i'm even getting thoughts like this. he is the most important thing in my life and i don't want to lose him and i love him but i just don't "feel" it anymore. i'm just not as interested in him but typing this makes me cry and it's really complicating things for me and i know it shows, and that's why my boyfriend has been asking if i'm happy with this relationship lately. i love him i do but i don't know if i'm in love with him anymore like it's not interesting or if i'm moving on though i don't want to.
P.S if it helps any i have to take meds for depression.
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Hi hunny,
I'mm sure you make him the happiest person in the world. You seem like a really sweet person. If you're not feeling the same way about him, I think you should bring it up to him. Maybe he feels the sameway. Maybe he don't. Maybe he loves you just as much as you love him. Find out how he really feels. Maybe you just need to hear it from him. If you end up really feeling like he's not the one for you, it might be time for a break so you could think about everything and what you really want. I say find out how he really feels, tell him that you guys need a little break, because you're confused right now, and then after that break if you still want to be with him and he wants to be with you to, he should be waiting for you.
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I have a round, reddish-white bump on my inner labia. My labia that it is on is swelling up and it hurts A LOT. My mom said it might be a labial cyst but I'm so scared I might have an STD. I haven't had sex before, but haven't done anything sexual for like a month or so.
Please don't delete this.. I'm really scared and need to know what's going on. (link)
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Hi Hunny,
Chances are it could be an std. You should really go to a clinic or doctor to get checked. You can get an std though from oral sex, if he went down on you. It seems to me that you are ok with talking to your mom about everything, so I really think you should talk to her about this. If you don't feel comfortable talking to your mom about anything sexual, then you should go to a clinic that lets you get checked without a parent knowing. I really hope that you are ok! I hope I helped you in some way. x3
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how can you reduce the redness out of a pimple overnight?
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Hi Hunny,
I have read in magazines, that if you put a warm washcloth over it for a little while, it should lesson the redness. I'm sorry but that is all I can think of right now. I hope I helped you at least a little bit! x3
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do u think its ok for someone who is fourteen to hide a boyfriend from there parents i dont have one yet but in the futrue is it ok because i think my parents dont want me to have one but is it ok because its wut teenages do (link)
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Hi hunny,
I think you should really talk to your parents about this. Just tell them how you feel and ask them what they think. If they didn't want you to have one, maybe now that you talked to them, they might feel different about it. If they don't want you to have one, then yes, I think it would be ok for you to hide it for a little bit. But if the relationship goes on for a while, you might want to sit down with your parents and explain to them that you have a boyfriend that you would really like for them to meet. They would probably like that. I hope I helped at least a little! x3
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I have a good guy friend, and we are good friends. I like him more than just a friend now and I think he may feel the same way. But i am not certain. Should i tell him how i feel or keep it to myself. And if i should tell him..how should i break it to him..like where..when..how..all those. thanks (link)
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Hi Hunny,
I think you should really tell him. Tell him when you guys are either at his or your house and make sure it is only you two. Just say, I want to talk to you about something, and I really hope that whatever the answer is, that me and you will always stay good friends. I was wondering if you like me, because I like you, and if not it is ok. He will feel comfortable and know that if he doesn't like you, that it won't change the friendship between you guys. I hope I helped you in any way.
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ok well,just like..2 weeks ago i saw yellowish white faintly in my underwear,but im not sure if its dischagre or if i really had to go to the bath room..i cant feel anything come out so..how do i really for sure know? and also,my mom got it when she was 13,my sister 14..so will i get it at 15? how long does discharge last untill you actually get your period? (link)
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well hunny,
Don't worry about anything. It is discharge, and supposedly it lasts for about a year. When you get your period is hereditary. Since your mom got it when she was 13 and your sister when she was 14, you should get it sometime between 13-15, most likely between 13-14. I really hope I answered your question for you.
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I won't really be shocked of nobody answers this, because it feels so unanswerable. But, my sister had a friend in my grade, and the friend talked really bad about my sister. So I told her it was bugging me, and she was really rude to me about it and used profanity in front of people at school. I ended up crying in the hall, and the next day my sister talks to her again when she knew I stuck up for her in a crowd of people. In other words, she doesn't care, I saw her talking to the girl today and I just wanted to scream and cry. Theres really no ending to her selfishness. I can't tell anyone, because it's a very long story, my mom doesn't care, my dad has no control. I'm just wondering how I can deal with my sister and mom treating me like crap without just screaming at them like always. It hurts to know that someone you stuck up for never even cared. What is the best way I can cope with this? (link)
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I'm sorry for the trouble hunny,
Talk to your friends sweetie. That's the best thing you can do. As with your sister, don't bother telling her anymore. Sometimes, it takes more than just telling her. She might have to see on her own. Just let her do what she wants. She'll end up seeing it for herself. It may kill you to know all this, but don't worry about it. Just talk to your friends.
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My mother just recently died from lung cancer. She was just diagnosed on Sept. 15th of this year and she passed away on October 28th, 2005.
My boyfriend of several years had already told his spoiled rotten, self-centered, selfish daughter that she could have a Halloween party before the incident with my mother came up.
Instead of being here, supporting me, helping me make the needed arrangements and just being a shoulder to lean on, he decided it was more important to help out with his daughter's Halloween party, because everybody knows "Courtney" comes first....no matter what!
I think that's about as sorry as you can get. What do you think? (link)
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Hey Hunny,
I think that is so very wrong! If you and his daughter are fine with each other, he should have really been there for you. He could've had his daughter's Halloween party made for another time or just told her she couldn't have one. I am very sorry for your loss! Your mother's death should've been more important than a Halloween party. Once again, I am very sorry!
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well i was just wondering what do you do when you really have no one to turn to? when you grandmother don't care, your father is never their, you mom dosen't seem to understand and you sister just critizes you and you don't really have anyone to turn to? i just need some advice please help.. (link)
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Hi Hunny,
I know how you feel. The best people to go to are your friends. They shouldn't ever critize you. They should always be there to just listen to you. The best thing to do, is to get everything out and talk to people who you think would make you feel better. If you ever need to talk to anyone about anything you could im me anytime you'd like. I'll always listen and try to help you anyway I can.
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I am almost 15 and i have only had one real relashonship with a guy. it lasted about a year.
all of my friend have great boyfiend relashonships. but i don't, the only advice they can give me.(is to be the one to move first.) well i gess im a old fashion girl. i like the guy to ask first. (link)
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Hello hun,
Just be yourself. I like when a guy asks first also. Don't worry about any great relationships right now. Just have fun! Eventually you'll find someone who will be great for you. Just don't worry about it now. If you're not having any great relationships right now, I'm sure it's not because of you.
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How bad do they hurt? I'm thinking about getting one, but I'm kind of scared of the pain. (link)
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Hey hun!
I have my bellybutton done! I love it! It didn't hurt me a lot at all. It just depends on the person,and how much you can take pain. The only part of getting it pierced that really hurt a lot was when they clamped down on the skin above my bellybutton so they could get the needle in easily. They clamped it so tight on me to where when they stuck the needle in, I didn't even feel it. You shouldn't be scared at all. It just hurts for a second. You should be able to handle it :-) Make sure you get it pierced soon! You'll love it! I love shopping for bellybutton rings, cuz there's so many to choose from. I just ordered a bellybutton ring off of the internet on Bodysparkle.com Good luck hun! It'll look really good!
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well all of my friends wear special underwear, thongs, and i dont like them ,but i dont wanna tell them that, they'll call me granny, but im also not allowed to wear them, and when i do i feel uncomfortable and guilty thinking wut would my parents think if they know im wearing them, HELP ME! (link)
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Hey hun!
You don't have to tell your friends that you don't like thongs. If you tell them you don't like them, and they call you granny then their not true friends. True friends wouldn't make fun of you for not liking thongs. People have different opinions. If you tell them you don't like thongs, and they call you granny, then you should definitely find some new friends. Your friends seem very immature, if they'd make fun of you cuz of that. As for your parents, you shouldn't feel uncomfortable and guilty just because they don't know your wearing them. If your parents find out, you should tell them it's your body so you should be able to choose what kind of underwear you want to wear. It is just underwear. The only thing your parents should think if they ever find out is that their daughter likes a different style of underwear. It's not a big deal! I, myself, prefer thongs, because their comfortable. You can't even feel them. It's better to wear thongs, cuz you can't see a pantyline. You can buy tons of different thongs with different colors, styles, and you get a big variety! At first, they'll be uncomfortable but once you start to wear them more you'll get used to them. I hope I helped you out hun! Good luck! If I didn't help you I'm sorry. :-) If you have anymore questions, feel free to leave em in my inbox. Sorry this is so long!
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what should i name my dog?
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Hey hun!!!!!!!!
My dogs names are Boots, Kibbles, FooFoo, and Rocky. If you like one of those names, you can use it. I hope I helped you out! If not, I'm so sorry. :-) What kind of dog did you get? Let me know what kind of dog it is, and whether or not you used one of the names I suggested! Thanks!
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hi i need some advice i cant seem to find a girl that likes me i ask and everyone says im a good guy and anygirl would be happy to have me but i just cant find one that does i feel so depressed and sad that i cant get one
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Hey hun! I'm sure your a really great guy! Don't ever change the way you are if you feel like you need to be different in order to get a girlfriend. You'll find someone in no time! You just have to take your time! Don't rush things! It might take a while to find someone, but someday you'll end up meeting someone you like so much and as you talk more and more you guys will realize you have feelings for each other and go out. Keep being the good guy that you are, and you'll have no problem finding someone! You have plenty of time!!!! If your a little shy, maybe you should start opening up a little more to girls and flirt a little with them. You could meet people when your at the mall, school, the movies, just about anywhere! Strike up a conversation with someone if you ever start to like someone! Don't worry, you sound like a really great guy. You'll find someone! :-) I feel the same way. I want a boyfriend so bad, but I can't seem to get a boyfriend. I feel like I'll never get a boyfriend again, and that I'm too ugly and shy. If you ever need anymore help, or just wanna talk you can email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com or KxIxMxMxY51890@aol.com. I'll be sure to email you back! You can also IM me anytime on that second screenname I gave. Alright, well good luck hun! Everything will be fine! You'll find someone, and when you do you'll be so happy! There are many girls out there!
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If there are any cat experts out there, I need your help! My cat has constantly been throwing up her food twice a day for almost a week! (She's not bulimic!LOL)What's wrong??? I rate 5's! (link)
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Hey hun!
I'm sure there's nothing that's seriously wrong with your cat. My older sister's cat used to always throw up her food, so she had to buy a different brand of food. Try buying something else for your cat to eat, and see if she is still throwing up. I think that's all she wants is new food. If she still keeps throwing up, then I think you should take your cat to the vet. I love cats, and I would never want something to happen to mine! My cats eat Fancy Feast, or Friskies food just to give you an idea of what you can maybe get. Hopefully that's not what your giving your kitty already! Alright, well I hope I helped ya out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Email me if you have anymore questions that I can help you out with. I hope your kitty gets better! I'm sure she will. Don't worry. :-)
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i moved like a year ago, and everytime i try to get together with my old friends they come up with some lame excuse. i dont know what to think. (link)
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Hey hun! I think that you should try talking to your friends, and asking them about it. Tell them that you feel their always making up excuses so they don't have to do anything with them. You shouldn't just assume that their making up excuses. They could really be busy when you ask them, so maybe they can't do anything. Or like you said, they could be making up excuses. I don't think your friends would just make up excuses though so they don't have to do anything with you. I'm sure they miss you! I know I would miss my friends if they moved, and I would definitely wanna do stuff with them. Before you get mad at them for anything, I would suggest that you talk to them about it. Find out why they can't do anything. Ask them if their making up excuses, or if they really can't go anywhere. I'm sure they have good reasons. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Good luck! I'm sure everything will turn out great for u! :) Let me know how it goes ok?
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i want to have sex for the first time. what are some procosions to take. and does it hurt? i also heard that you bleed your first time is this true? thank you i rate well. (link)
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Hey hun,
There are alot of precautions you need to take if you're planning on having sex for the first time. First of all you need to make sure that you are old enough and ready to do this. It is a very serious thing and you need to be careful. You could end up getting really hurt in the end if something goes wrong like a breakup. Now you also need to make sure you use protection. You should get put on birth control now. Also use a condom, because birth control isn't a hundred percent effective and neither are condoms. So try using both if u can. I'm sure you're not ready for a baby yet or any std's.
Ok, now it depends on who you are for whether or not it will hurt and how bad. Sex for the first for most people will hurt, but don't worry because the hurting won't last very long and it's not that very bad of a hurting either.
Depending on whether or not you use tampons depends on whether or not you'll bleed. Sometimes the balloon type thing will pop if a tampon hits it. Don't worry because it's not filled with that much blood. Please be careful on whatever choice you decide to make!
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okay... my dog died about a couple months ago.. and i'm getting a new dog this summer.... but don't know what kind of dog to get..if anyone knows a good dog to get... can you tell me??
also... i kinda want a small dog* thanks
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Hey hun! I'm so sorry about your dog that died :( That's not good at all. If I were you I would get a Chihuahua, or a Bichon Frise, cuz their really playful and lovable! They also don't shed either, which is really good. If you get a Bichon and it's a boy you can get bandanas on him, or if it's a girl you can get bows in her ears! You have to get a Bichon Frise groomed once in a while. I have 2 Chihuahua's and a Bichon Frise, and they are the best! Their names are Foofoo, Kibbles, and Rocky. If you want you can use one of those names for your new dog! I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Good luck! :)
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What kind of dog would you reccomend that is small and you don't have to worry much about its hair? (link)
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Hey hun!!!! I have 4 dogs right now, and I hate em! I have 2 Chihuahua's, a Bichon Frise (it's just like a poodle), and a Cocker Spaniel that's mixed with American Eskimo and a whole bunch of other things. My 2 Chihuahua's are really small, and their very playful! They don't shed at all. Their good dogs to have. My Bichon Frise also doesn't shed, but my parents have to take him to get groomed alot. It's really cute when he gets groomed, cuz they always put a bandana on him for us, or we could get bows in his ears if we wanted but that would look weird since he's a boy lol. We don't have to worry about his hair though at all. If you were to get a dog, I would say get a Chihuahua or a Bichon. Their playful dogs, and you would love one of em if you got it! My dogs names are Boots, Rocky, Foofoo, and kibbles. Just thought I would let you know! You could name your dog after one of mine if you wanted to! Well I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry! You'd be very happy with one of the dogs I mentioned though! Good luck! :)
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