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OK, so theres this guy that i REALLY REALLY love. he likes this other girl, but he has no chance with her. someone told me that they were tlaking to him, and he said he might ask me out or that other girl. i REALLY like him and i might have a chance with him, but the thing is i dont know how to get him over the other girl and start to have more feelings for me. in the hall when i walked past him i saw him blush. what should i do?!?!?!? (link)
push him kinda playfully if you guys are friends and smile alot. definetly say hi whenever you get the chance and basically throw all of your interests out to him so he'll realize ur the shit haha hope i helped


Hey ya'll. Thanks for looking at my question.

I like this guy, Danny. Well, I don't really like him, but you know that crazy feeling that you get when you sort of like someone yet you sort of don't? (Confusing I know..)

Well I'm 17 and anyways, I kind of have the hotts for him and we talk alot on the AIM. I've know him for all my life, and we've just sort of gotten attracted to each other.

I think I could like him more than just attraction and fooling around.

The bad part about it is he lives in another state, and he's my best friend's brother. But I go out there frequently.

But I have no idea how to present the idea of liking each other to him. He is nineteen and of course its not that bad, I'll be of age soon.

I'm really bad with words and want to ask him if he feels anything for me and would like to have a relationship with me. In a nut shell. I don't want to freak him out, or make him think that I just sit around thinking about him all day.

Help please, thanks :)

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ask your friend if shed care first. then just tell him that your feelings are growing for him more than getting with eachother and your wondering how he feels


Well.. i have 2 friends.. names Erin and Arielle.. they've been best friends since about 3rd grade and this year, me and my best friend meg have gotten really close with them. We also have another friend who is not exactly as close. Well anyways Erin asked Arielle to go to the mall with her... but Arielle said she cant. then later she called back confessing that she lied and that she didnt want to go because she was with the other girl whos not as tite (Britt). THEN even later she called erin again saying she actually wasnt just hangin out with Britt they were goin out then stayin at Britt's house... this made Erin very upset because lately her and Arielle have been drifting apart... i feel her pain, but i dont know what to do. Erin thinks this is the end of their friendship... Arielle has Taken it 2 far now.. theyve been getting into ALOT of fites lately and this is just the bigger of the many. I dont want to lose Arielle as my friend, but i'm here for Erin and i feel her pain and i also think that it was pretty low of Arielle and Britt to do that. Are we overreacting or not? What should i do to save this friendship that they've had forever?

xoxo thanks --- i rate high! (link)
talk about it to them and tell them itd be so much cooler if you all hungout and were a big group!


can someone help me. its finally raining here after not raining in about 2 weeks and now that its raining..its heavy raining! I can't go outside..nothing on TV..nothing good to do on-line..i can't go to the mall or the movies..and I doubt I'll be allowed to have anyone over..can someone help me? btw im a 15/f (link)
listen to music! thats always fun, have any good movies? call your friends, mayeb you can go to there house!


Hey i my girlfriend broke up with me becasue i have something like bio polar anger problems and we got in a fight and i fought back 4 once and she dumped me me and my friend thought she kinda liked me a little but i just found out she doesnt me but i really really still love her and i didnt mean to scream and theres no hope to get her back but i love her still and cant get her out of my mind
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if she wont give you another chance because you got mad once who cares she should give u another chance.. talk to her tell her you lost it and you need her, most girls would crawl right back to you! good luck!


Ok, I like one my best guy friends and my BFF and I think he likes me as well..but he is too shy. I want to kiss him, without doing it outta no where and freaking him out. Are there are some suggestions of signals that I could send to show that I would like to be kissed?- thx (link)
aww thats cute.. hangout with him alone and look into his eyes alot and let him notice your lips , try to lean close too!


ok sry this is long
here it goes...at the beginning of junior high (7th grade) there was five in our group lets call them k,j,b,a,and s (a is me) lol
that year we were unseperable i was the crazy stupid blonde k was the smart one j was the hyper one b was the one who kept us out of trouble and s was the drama queen we sometimes fought (mostly s fault) but it never tore us appart (we were the second most popular group) but in 8th grade things started to suck see k has a twin sis who is like the most popular girl in school (well almost).... me j and b started to hang out by ourselves because s and k started to hang out with the popular girls they left us out of a ton of stuff like parties.. we barley do things with them...now j and b have been kind of leaving me out and i dont know what to do it makes me feel really bad (they always make fun of me) i know if they make me feel bad they really arnt my friends but they are and if i didnt have them there would be no one else to hang out with theyve just been rude lately and i feel if i tell them they will make fun of me so what im asking is do you think there going to ditch me like s and k did us? (link)
talk to them and say i dont want us to go down hill like we all did before, and if they continue then find new friends!


Okay...I am having a birthday party in a couple of weeks and I need some activites to do while I am there. I am inviting about 15 girls...no boys and would like things to do to entertain the guests. Thank-you very much!!! 15/f (link)
hmm you need food! haha rent some movies, make up dancess, i dont know if you drink haha but that could be fun, makeovers, prank calls haha!


Okay so theres this guy that I really, really like, and I know he likes me too.. The only problem is, I know he's going to ask me out soon, but every time I get a boyfriend, I freak out and think that they don't like me and I get convinced that they're only staying with me to be nice, and I really don't want that to happen with this one.. Any ideas on how to stop freaking out and just let things happen?? thanks so much! (link)
just talk to him alot and get to know him and listen to the nice things he says to you, and you'll probably think he lieks u, hope i helped!xox


well ok well i broke up with my bf b/c he two timed me and so i broke up with him of corse but now i still like him and he is going out with one of my bestfriends but i know he dosent like her because he told my other bestfreind and i still like him and my bestfreind said he still loved me but should i trust him if we do get back together?

i rate high!
thanx! (link)
i think you should give him a second chance, but its scummy he went out with your bestfriend.. so talk about it with him before anything serious happenss


this girl just turned 16.. her name is Olivia.. we met b/c she goes to my school and we've been good friends and we made each other laugh and had a pretty fun and good relationship but then she broke up w/ her freshman b/f.. and we started talking.. and we had late conversations on the phone and talked on AIM alot. The problem is.. i can't say I'm in love w/ her truly if she doesn't talk to me in person.. she treats me like ne other friend when I'm around her but on the phone.. we're good.. and i asked her about it and she told me we just need to get to know each other better. Her best friend is giving me feed back on how she likes to flirt... and she went on a one on one "go out"... it wasn't supposedly a "date".. should i give this girl a try or just stop it?
-Hewitt, 14, TN (link)
i think you just try and talk about it with her more and flirt, goodluck!


I'm a bit overweight and so I've always been a little bit embarassed to exercise in front of people. It seems to just make things worse for me, because then I don't feel like I get enough exercise in the day, but I hate running because I'm slower and always afraid somebody will see me, and I don't even like doing stuff at home because my mom and dad might see me. Any good tips for conquering my fear or ways to exercise alone? (link)
your mom and dad wold be proud im surE! But i definetly know how you feel, do crunches for 2 minutes in your room before bed everynight, and do squats for 5 minutes and keep your back straight, run at night its usually okay, or if you have a pond near by walk it twice.. hope i helpedd xoxo


ok, so i am/was really good friends with this girl. she was new to our school nd just because she was new and not totally ugly, every guy fell in love with her, and is in love with her. but, she really isnt that pretty at all , she has big boobs, but i have the same size, she is no skinnier than me, she is a size larger, and im a better cheerleader than her, but they still like her only because she is new. its not her personality cause she is kinda annoying. and she is leaving our school next year but for some reason they think they still have a chance with her. but, i still dont get why everyone likes her better? please help me understand. i rate 5 for not bad advise.
-jazelle (link)
someones jealouss haha im kidding.. well maybe they see a better person in her than in you... who cares she wont be there long? just be friends with her and i bet theyll notice how how you aree


okay so i am 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend before. Many times i have come close like this year but then something always gets in the way and ruins it. What i want to know is what is wrong with me i mean i have alot of friends and i am active and athletic and people tell me i am beautiful but i never have had a boyfriend and i dont know if i am doing something wrong. If there is anyone that could help me with trying to fix something that maybe i am doing wrong that would be great!
thanks!~ (link)
hey hun well your still young, dont worry.. but sometimes i worry about that. theres nothing wrong with you unless your too shy around guys, they usually hate that.. hope i helped xox


hi im Jess for some may know but when i run i get tired very easily and i get a cramp fast how can i avoid these problems thx i rate high.
Love Jess (link)
dont eat much before you run or dont drink soda or some juices get you sick. and also dont run as fast at first


Hi. Well, next year I'll be in the 8th grade, and I want to start a new club for females. I want to have leadership and be a good role model fo other people, and I feel that this is the perfect school year and grade to do this and this is the right opportunity to do that. Anyways, do any of you guys have names for this female club and things we should do. I would appreciate it if you guys give me some good ideas so that the club will be fun and a lot of females will want to join. Thanks for your time! (link)
well maybe a club for advice , like if two girls dont get along you could talk about it with them because no one wants to talk to a guidance counselor, or like to organize dances


Dudes

How can I get my mom to let me get my ears pierced? She says I have to wait until I'm fsxking 16! I just turned 15 two days ago!!! She says people would say I look like a sissy. Ok. Well, only the shallow asshats would actually say that out loud, and even then I don't care. They can bite me. But she says I have to wait until the age even SHE got them! 1) I am not a woman 2) I am not my mother.

M/15. I'm just /curious/ as to how I would look in them! If I dont like them I could just let it cover up. I seriously don't see her logic in this other than the usual parent crap 'I want you to be just like me and grow up the same way.'
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tell her its not a big deal and atleast u dont wanna get ur dick pierced like other dudes


theres this guy at school that all my friends are friends with, but i havent really liked him from the start... maybe its b/c i hear all these bad things he says behind one of my best friends back... anyways what should i do...
i've tried being nice to him and talking to him more but, he just obviously doesn't like me eigher...if i could learn to be friends with him... that would be great, but he doesn't really want to be... or at least thats what i heard from one of my friends
One more thing... should i try to forget all of these mean things that he has said behind my friends back??
-confused
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if hes mean why would u want to be friends with him? if you hear the mean stuff he says about your friends screw him! but if you feel the need to kiss his ass and be his friend then just dont disagree with him and be nice.


I am African-American/Japanese and the guys that I am normally into are white skater types. Nobody I've ever really liked has liked me back, and I've been told it's because I'm too shy. Is it really because I'm too shy or is it because of race? Do guys really think about race? (link)
i think its true that you are too shy, just be yourself and have confidence, guys love that


I am friends with the most popular girls in school but sometimes it seems like they dont want me around. I dont know what im doing wrong. I have always wanted to be friends with them. My best friend doesnt talk to me when they're around and i dont know why.How can i be better friends with them? (link)
dont ditch your best friend to be popular.. friends are forever and trust me the popular girls arent gunna be forever.. but if you want to be friends with them then get their screennames and IM them and ask to hangout and stuff.. hope i helpedd




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