well ok well i broke up with my bf b/c he two timed me and so i broke up with him of corse but now i still like him and he is going out with one of my bestfriends but i know he dosent like her because he told my other bestfreind and i still like him and my bestfreind said he still loved me but should i trust him if we do get back together?
karenR answered Tuesday April 26 2005, 12:41 am: Don't go back with him if you can't trust him. If you think you can, then give it one more chance. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ad0rkable answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:58 pm: You can threaten him. No, just kidding. You can say that you'll break up with him if you find out that he is cheating on you again. If he really cares about you he won't cheat on you again because you'll break up with him if he does.
LinDsx3 answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:47 pm: i think you should give him a second chance, but its scummy he went out with your bestfriend.. so talk about it with him before anything serious happenss <3 [ LinDsx3's advice column | Ask LinDsx3 A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Monday April 25 2005, 7:49 pm: Did you ever tell your friend you weren't over him? You should of told him and she would have been respectful enough to not date him. As for getting back together with him, did he apologize and have sympathy for cheating on you at all? If he didn't, hes not worth it and hes not sorry for what hes done. Also, after the break-up with you guys, did it end with the other girl right afterwards? Try to think about if its worth it if you answered no to these questions, if you answered yes to both, hes worth one more try. If you answered no, hes not worth it and you shouldn't even just do it even though you really still love him. But, I'm starting to think its not really worth it, because it sounds like he was dating your best friend to get to you, and that just makes him a jerk. So, try to think with the part of your brain that isn't in love and do the right thing.
iWALKintoWALLS answered Monday April 25 2005, 7:38 pm: heck no...he did a wrong thing by breaking up with you and going out with your best friend...im surprised your not pisses at your best friend...you must be closee..thats good, but for this dude...dont mess with him...he may do it again and how do you think youd feel if he goes and cheats with you with the school slut? not good...so just dont mess with him...keep him as a friend...and if he ends up asking you out...tell him that hes lost your trust..and if he ever wants it back he will have to prove it to ...if he asks why..tell him that hes gonna have to find out himself or else its just not gonna happen...be strong! dont get hurt...
...remember you only live once...
xox hope i helped...please rate [ iWALKintoWALLS's advice column | Ask iWALKintoWALLS A Question ]
dancergirl0611 answered Monday April 25 2005, 7:18 pm: hey
maybe you should talk to him and tell him how you feel!! explain that you dont want to be hurt again but you do still have feelings for him! just make sure that your friend doesn't get hurt either! well i say you go for it and go out w/ him again if he makes you happy but be carefull!! hope i could help! ~kaitlyn [ dancergirl0611's advice column | Ask dancergirl0611 A Question ]
mylinhthan answered Monday April 25 2005, 7:09 pm: anonymous -
I wouldn't recommend getting back with him so quickly. From the looks of it, the guy doesn't know what he wants; one minute he's with you, the next minute he cheats, and then he likes you again! Just move on, if he really "loves" you, he's going to have to prove it to you. [ mylinhthan's advice column | Ask mylinhthan A Question ]
piinkdiiamondsz_17 answered Monday April 25 2005, 7:08 pm: guys like this can seem so charming, but in the end it's not all worth it. first off, you need to tell your best friend he doesnt like her, or she'll end up getting hurt. i would get a friend that she might not know as well to tell her, that way she doesn't think you're just doing it because you dont want them going out. second off, this guy may say he likes you, but who knows how many other people he likes! i think if he breaks it off with everyone and comes for you, then he really likes you. otherwise, it just isnt worth it. you dont deserve to get hurt again.
i hope this helps!
yesiliketobeme answered Monday April 25 2005, 6:59 pm: hmm thats very complicated. i personaly would try my hardest to get over him. i dont think i could ever trust im again. if he liked you as much as he says i dont think he would have cheated on you. and really wouldnt have went out with one of your bestfriends. this guys sounds like a real ass. i say forget him. you can do way better then him. i bet theres plenty of guys who would like to date you and will be faithful.
hope i could help. [ yesiliketobeme's advice column | Ask yesiliketobeme A Question ]
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