ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :(
Let me tell ya this...Girls talk for a fact, Really do know this. And if you dont tell him before they do them he is gonna feel hurt and if you do end up breakin up he is gonna always throw it up in your face about you not being honest and stuff if you were to actually wanna go out with him. So tell him before stuff gets bad!! Just to be on the safe side!! Just be like Baby I kno this may hurt you as much as it hurts for me and for me having to tell you this but the other night I went on a Bonifire with Ryan and we kissed. Then see what he says if he gets pissed tell him that u didnt mean to hurt him and you care about his feelings soo much and that you dont wanna lose him and exsplain to him how much he means to you!! If that doesnt work then your pretty much screwed!! But if you like ryan and you and your bf breka up you could possibly go out with him!! Hope I helped!!! Best of Lucck!!!
-steph
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yes.. ok so i poked my mom's eye with a clothing hanger.. it was by accident. we were taking about how she sits at home and does nothing while my grandparents hafta take care of my brother and sister who is 2 and 5... ya she started hitting me and then i was all like "stop hitting me" and then i accidently poked her in the eye and then i said sorry and then she started crying really loudly like how she does when my dad and her start fighting and they make eachother bleed and bruise all over.. yes.. screwed up.. neway ya.. after she called my dad to gimme crap about poking her she started dragging me across the floor and hitting me and crap and then i told her to go to hell.. ehh.. ya.. so wut am i supose to do now? i'm not calling child helpline or w/e..
Well Sweetie you need to get yourself out of that predicament. Consider living with an Aunt,Uncle, Older Siblings or something. But if the cops found out she beat you then she can go to jail. Thats child abuse hunny. And you should really consider gettin some help!!
-stephanie-
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i am in two classes that has people that make fun of me so should i just ask my mom to talk to the principal so they can put me in a new classes? or should i stay there?
ignore them...dont switch classes because then they will know that they are gettin to you! you should just consider playin it off like laugh with them or just be like dang howd u kno...just play round and they wil see its pointless messin with you..my friend hope did that and they dont even bother her anymore!!
-steph
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I've noticed a lot of people have fairly big pictures on their advice columns.. how can I get a bigger picture on mine? I dont have a website that hosts my images.. is there any other way?
Just like post it somewhere like make an Xanga or something and then like copy n paste the URL into your Picture part of ur profile settings!!
-steph
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Hey! Okay...really gross problem (and I only want you to answer if u have had the same problem and had it fixed) well i sweat really bad. Even without doing physical activity...it's really gross and I'm sure people notice it cause you can see it through my clothes (under my arms). I've tried lots of deoderant and baby power and it doesn't work...what should I do?
Anti-Persperent helps the smell and sweat!!
-steph
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respected advicenators,
well i am from india, and currently doing my master of science in life sciences- biotechnology.
but after completing the course this year i would like to for mba. well how is my decision? secondly, should i do a job first gain an experience and then go for an mba or just start preparing for mba entrance without and job experience.
i have taken this decision since i am not interested in research jobs. please to provide me a proper advice. i am really very confused.
thanking you.
You can talk to people about it or just go to google.com or something and search!! hope i helped!!
-steph
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I really needed condoms, my boyfriend didn't have any. I didn't feel like going to the store to get some, so I took some from my brother's room. I think he noticed because he asked me about it, what do I do?
Tell em the truth at least he you used a condom!!
-steph
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well i have had many boyfriends in the past but they all have been behind my parents back because if i tell them they r gonna begin with (this is them)"ur gonna get pregnent mess up ur future not get a job!!!" and so on but im not cause i respect myself and know when things go to far and i dont like the idea of being with a boi behind my parents back anymore and i wanna tell them now but i dont know how without them acting all mad and crazy.so any ideas ppl?
Heyy Be'Be Girl, Thats really good that your not wanting to hide it anymore. My mom gives me that same speach but the wierd thing is she accepts the fact that I have a bf. She met him and everything and likes him alot. But I went out with this boy like last year and all I did was kiss hug..you kno and my mom loved him as much as I did..And like I started spendin alot of time with him, And I swear I kept the house clean my room everything, so that way if I wanted to do stuff everything was always clean, and she got into an argument with me one night and told me I never do anything im always with my bf and Im probably gonna end up gettin pregnent messin up my dreams of becomin a soccer played ill drop outa school wont get a job, everything you could think of. And I told my aunt how I felt cause we are reaaally close and she told me that if my mom really cares about me and stuff and I told her that you kno I respect my body more then anything and I am not gonna go do that because I have alot of respect for my parents to..And she told me that if they ever brought it up again to tell them, I told my mom exactly how I felt and never again has she said anything like that to me. I feel ya I used to cry and everything when they told me that because it hurt alot. So I understand best bet is to tell your mom next time she says anything that u respect her and ur body and you would never do anything to hurt the family by bringing another life into the world!!
-Steph
MY AOL SCREENNAME:STTEEPPHHAANNIIE
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hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?
thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY
If ya want the relationship with you and your bf to be strong, I think if you tell him the truth he will truly understand and that will kinda put a change in his mind and he will respect you alot more as a person!!
-steph
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I have a friend that ive known for several years. She lives a very long distance away from me and theres nothing i can do physcially for her. Her father makes her have sex with him on a nightly basis. Is there any way i can help her get help. Shes afraid of going against him, because he is paying for her college and everything. I love her to death. What can i do?
Hunny thats considered rape. You should tell her that the next time he does it im guessing tonight if you say regularly night basis you should tell her to not take a shower and tell her to wait until he leaves her alone goes to sleep or whatever to go call the police. That way she still has proof that he raped her. Same thing happened to my friend and she didnt take a shower after and called on him and then they went and did DNA tests and found out she was raped. You should really tell her to tel someone or else it can or will get worse!!
-steph
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ok this has been really hard for the last couple weeks with boys well there was this one boy ive liekd all summer did everythign with and then jus dumped me one day and been wit a a new grl since.. and then one kid i liked i mean really leiked well he leikes sum other grl but jus keep leading me on and now he has a gf and then recently i got wit a boy and i really leiked him also but now he has a gf who is one of my bff'z and it seems its a pattern.. im left empty everytime .. WHATS RONG! plz help
I think if I put myself in your position I would stop with the whole dating thing. I mean you dont ALWAYS need a bf. You should take time and meet people and get to know them first before you jump into a relationship!!
-steph
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ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time! and hes the sweetest guy ever and i love him to death but neways when we go out to places or we watch movies he makes fun of gay people! and it kinda pisses me off but i don't say anything i just laugh cuz i don't wanna lose him! but the reason why it makes me mad is cuz my step brother is gay! and i don't know how to tell him that he is and that it bothers me! HELP
Tell ur bf how you feel about it, because thats the only way he will ever understand!!
-steph
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My friend is acting all weird now because she started to be able to shop at abercrombie and fitch. She acts all like preppy and tries to now hang out with the popular kids. I miss the old her what should i do
Ask her questions and stuff, dont be round the bush just let her know!!
-stephanie
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whenever i get a zit, i get everything out of it, but then the next day its bigger than it was when i popped it! help!
-JeNNi
Ha I did the same thing..Just use umm Clearisol the face cleansor pads then use the cream to go on it and believe me it works...*stephanie*
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Ok, i have really big boobs, i mean they r pretty big. well i have dated like 3-4 guys in the past mounth, and had sex wit them all. it turns out they only dated me cuz i liked havin sex and my boobs. i feel so used. i really need help. what should i do? o yea im 15.
Thats kinda crazay but if they did that like thats wrong using a girl for that..But sometimes it takes the girl to be the one to step up and tell them that if they are going to use you for sex n physical features then thats wrong and not right and they should accept you for who you are and if they cant then they dont deserve you at all sweetie!! *Hope I Helped* ~Stephanie~
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Hey, i'm a freshmen, and i'm looking to join in the best buddies program. i'm just wondering if theres anyone out there who've done this program before, and if its any good, if you have any tips on it because i've never worked with kids with intellectual disabilties before. i'm really excited about it, but i'm also kind of nervous. Any tips?
My friend does it and she actually thinks its a good way of communicating with people with different problems and kinda makes you stop and think about all the kids being picked on. I think it would be really awsome if you did soemthing like that you must be really caring...Good Job Hope it goes well...*Stephanie*
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Why do peoples breasts get sore sometimes?
If they are sore hun, then mayb your going through Puberty I had the same problem..And my mom tells me its puberty but if you have like swelling and stuff you should talk to your parents then consult a doctor..If you have aol my screenname is STTEEPPHHAANNIIE...Good lux...*STEPHANIE
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i just burned myself on the oven rack in my oven. its blistering now, will i have a scar? it was 450 degrees to let you know...any advice?
Ha I did that makin Brownies..It will make a scar hun but use Neosporin and it will help make the scar un-noticiable! *Stephanie*
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what are termination and repeating numbers?
Terminating is repeating Numbers like...0.444444444
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OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me!
TELL HIM IF HE IS REALLY REALLY IN THE MOOD TO BEAT HIS MEAT HISSELF, BECAUSE YOU ARENT HIS LIL KITTY AND AINT GUNNA DO NOTHING JUSS BECAUSE HE NEEDS TO SCRATCH YO KITTEN DONT MEAN HE CAN SCRATCH IT WHENEVA HE WANT TO CUZ THATS JUST MESSED UP! AND IF HE STIL DOES IT..THEN YOU MIGHT WANT TO BREAK UP WIT HIM..BUT THATS UP TO YOU..CUZ YOU CANT CONTROL LOVE!
-STEPHANIE
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