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im sara, and i'm smallll. dig it
im in love with tylor mutton
& have been since june 28th 2006
he's a better boyfriend than yours
i work at carrabbas as a hostess
it's pretty amazing if you ask me
i go to wilson hs.. ill be a junior
i do that softball thaaaanggggg.
oh and i have a screen namee..
you can IM me if ya wanttt=]
it's onexlove09. yuuuurrpppppp
this advice column is pretty ghetto
i hate it anymore haha. kbye

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Theres this boy, Brandon, he lives in foxboro mass. and i live in Westchester NY.

He days he loves me

Example on aim

"Brandon: I love ***** ***** [my name] more than anyone else in the world."

and he comments my myspace pictures/comments and facebook pics/ comments like

"now i see one gorgeous girl in this picturee "

"pshh can you say I see a gorgeous girl in the mirror?

well if you've never met in person, you basically have nothing. just because someone calls you pretty or gorgeous or leaves your myspace comments or whatnot saying that they love you and stuff, doesn't really mean all that much. if/when you meet him, see how things go from there. seeing each other in person and actually hanging out, could change everything. he could just think you're hot and wanna get in your pants, but you'll never truly know until you meet him in person. there are many disadvantages of dating/liking someone who lives sooo far away: you'll barely ever be able to see them, you'll never truly know what they're up to, and alot can change when someones so far, cause one of you can find someone closer that you also like, and the distance can really complicate things. just wait until you guys meet in person, and you'll know what to do ♥ good luck!! =)

Where can I get pictures on my xanga that are like this - http://i78.photobucket.com/albums/j114/laffytaffy_04/starfish.jpg

Like, not the ocean or anything. I mean like that type of picture, original, interesting pictures. Like there's another picture that says, "I don't need money, I just want CHANGE" (like change in the world, not coins, hah) So basically, what could I type in xanga to get pictures sorta like those?

http://www.whateverlife.com/expressyourselfimages.php

that site has alot of things =) they have other cool things for websites too... the main page is:

www.whateverlife.com

hope i helpedd ♥

I know this sounds stupid, but are their any foods that you can eat to get bigger boobs. Or anything besides boob job or sumthing else surgically. I really want to keep my stomache small but have bigger boobs.

Thanks

sorry to say, but there is nothing besides family genes that will increase your bust size. even if you do workouts to get a stronger chest, you'll end up losing your boobs, so if anyone suggests that, don't listen lol it has the opposite effect.. because it burns the fat off your boobs (which is your boobs) and yeah. so sorry hun, but there's not =\ just wear a push up bra or a wonder bra! they usually work pretty well =) and keep in mind, that breast size doesn't stop growing for most women til they're in their 20s! look at my mom for example, she had real small boobs all her life.. but when she was like 25 or so, they just popped up! so never give up lol ♥

Ok Well it's my grad this year but one day I was weairng a top to track and field and got tanned SO BAD! (Yeah I couldn't find a dolly site but thsi is the closest I could find in google, sorry. I coloured it, the red is supposed to be brown).

http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/body.jpg

How can I remove the tanned spots?! I tried exfoliating. I'm not sure about the lemon thing though, does it really work?

I odn't want to tan the rest of my body because it's unhealthy and it'll look really bad (if it isn't bad enough already), see how bad I'll look at my grad in a dress with that?!

well, whenever i get a hardcore tan is usually like, peels off.. so when you go to take a shower, scrub yourself where you're tan reallllyy hard.. and even scratch with your nails a little and the dead (tanned) skin will come off.. ir sounds weird but its not like it hurts or anything. just take a long shower and scrub your arms and tanned areas vigorously, and see if it peels.. thats what mine does, but i usually don't want it too lol. and in the meantime, since that won't work 100%, buy some bronzers and tanning lotion things so help even it out =) i'm sure you'll look fine ♥ good luck!!

there is this song stuck in my head it sounds jamacan (sp?) it might be by Bob Marley or Ziggy Marley...it goes like this
Don't Worry..
Not a thing
Every little thing is gonna be alright
PLEASE!! help i wanna download it to my ipod wats it called??

three little birds- bob marley =)

Hey... It's MW8305. Just wanted to say after I read your feedback...

I think that what you're doing for your boyfriend's mother is really beautiful. (And I'm sure she does too.) Please keep being the amazing person that you are, no matter what her siblings say to you. (From what it sounds like, they probably feel guilty because you make more of an effort to cheer her up than they do. Maybe that accounts for the snotty behavior.) Please don't get discouraged. You're a wonderful person and you're doing a womderful thing.

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. ;)

Melissa

aww hunny thanks so much =) ♥

My boyfriend of 7 months is really close to his mom. Yesterday he ended up telling her what we've done physically. [up to finger/handjob]. His mom was cool with it...but I am not. I'm absolutely shocked that he would tell her this. I'm glad they have a good relationship but telling her personal things like that is just too much. I'm gonna feel like a slut the next time I see her. He argues that they are close (his mom told him it was wrong today).. in my family, we're don't ask, don't tell. My parents just tell me to wait & be careful but don't ask for details because they know it's between 2 people only. I tried putting it behind me but it came up before & I'm pissed at him again. Any help? Am I wrong for being angry?

no, you're not wrong for being upset. because i know how you feel. sometimes my boyfrined would tell my mom what we've done (his dad's gone, and his mom lives in a nursing home, so he has no one else to talk to really about anything) and he feels sort of a closeness to her, and i can tell her loves her like his own mother. at first it annoyed me, and he didn't undetstand. jsut tell him flat out, that it embarrasses you. he will then realize that he shouldn't say things if you don't want them said. and if he continues, just don't do anything anymore. tell him that you don't want the whole world to know, and you don't want to. but don't be too angry that he told her, because he did tell you he told her, so maybe he didn't realize it. just try talking to him about it, and tell him that it's embarrassing and you just want those things kept between the two of you. tell him that you respect him and his wishes, and he should do the same for you =) hope i helped hun! i know how you feel. but just do what i said above- that's what i did, and it worked. it turned out that he didn't even realize that it bothered me, until i told him that it embarrasses me and makes me feel awkward. like, i tell my mom what i've done and stuff, and she's ok with it... but it just bothered me when HE would tell her, lol. so good luck! ♥

can you report a parent to child services, if a kid is geting verbaly abused.?

yes; but only if you feel that it's ABSOLUTELYYYY necessary. because if it really isn't terrible, you could end up destroying a family. cause alot of times, they just split up the entire family, and it makes things worse than they were to begin with. so first, talk to the kid and the rest of the family and see if you can help. or first, talk to a school guidance counselor! but if you feel that you need to, go right ahead and tell the police ♥

16/F.
Alright, I like this boy but I'm not sure if he likes me. I asked him to my prom & he said yes. & all his friends were like "yeah are you gonna hook up with him" and stuff like that. & we would talk all the time and we'd flirt and whatnot. But for the past few days we haven't talked that much. So, I asked his friend if he knew why he wasn't talking to me & stuff like that & he told me that he's shy when it comes to girls that he might like. I think he might of found out that I liked him from one of his friends & I don't know if that could be the reason why we haven't talked that much.
& then the other day I was leaving the store & I saw him and he said Hey and smiled and then came over and we talked for a few minutes. But then we haven't talked since then.

I'm sorry if this is confusing & not really understandable, if you get what I mean.
I'd really appreciate it if you could help me.

alright, well i'm not completely sure of what you're asking me... but i think you want to know if he likes you.

well since you're 16, i'm assuming he's around your same age... which means that he's mature enough not to base his love life decisions on whether or not the other person likes him... but it sounds like he's just shy, so if i were you, i'd keep talking to him, but don't overwhelm him. just be calm, cool, and casual. no pressure on him at all, and that's a sure-fire way to get him to open up to you =) and maybe one day if you guys get close enough, you can just come out and tell him how you feel, and see if he feels the same way. but only do that if you feel it's right... because you're really the only person who knows what's right for you =) good luck with everything doll ♥

15/f [sry but this is gonna be long]
okay, so i was at the mall on saturday with 3 of my friends. we were reallyy bored so we decided to sit down on a bench and say hi to every single person that walked by. there were these 2 guys that kept coming back and forth, so we'd be like "okay, now come back... okay turn around now." it was kinda like a little fun game. about an hour later we were sitting at a table by a snack stand and the 2 guys saw us and came to sit down at our table. we started talking, and exchanged numbers/screenames/myspace URLs. one of the guys is in 7th grade, and his name is *billy*. the other one is in 9th and his name is *bob*. *billy* is extremeeellyy cute/hot. so my friend asked him if he maybe wanted to hook up with me [nothing sexual just kissing/making out]. he said that he wanted to talk to me more and he'd think about it. they left after about 10 minutes of walking around the mall. when i got home, i signed onto AIM and we started talking. i started liking him. aloottt. then yesterday i found out that he likes me. at first i was sooo happy! butt, he just turned 13 like in January. so i felt kinda awkward about this whole thing. he doesnt look 13 at alll though. he could easily pass for a freshman or even a sophmore. so my question to you is: do you think that he's too young for me? thanks so muchh ♥

haha i know what you mean about the age thing... but it really isn't a big deal... if you like him, and as long as he doesn't act like he's 13 years old, then i say go for it =) don't sweat it hun- life's too short to worry about what other people think... so if anyone says anything, i bet they don't have a boyfriend, and if they do he's probably ugly =) lol so go for it! good luck with everything and i hope it all works outtt ♥

f/15

Well as you notice the summer is so close
I got a new boyfriend at the end of June last year
We are still together
Last summer i wansnt really comfortable with him
Until maybe November 2006
So we've never seen each other in bathing suits
But we've seen each other naked
Now im super self conscious about my tummy
Its not huge!
But its not super tiny either
He loves my stomach and doesn't think im fat
And people always tell me im not
But i always suck in my tummy
So it looks smaller
But i can't really do that with a bathing suit
Cuz its looks gross
Now i cant wear shirts or a bathing suit that covers my tummy
Because my boyfriends a pain in the ass
It has to look really good
Its not huge its not even that big
I'm 5'6 weigh 153 i believe or 160
I work out
By doing sit ups
I do 10 then stopp then 10 more
I do that about 5 times
I need something else
I have till the end of june around the 25th
Anyone have anything
No pills and i can't join a gym
Im not running
Or trying out for sports teams
Anything???

Sorry it was so longg :|

To reach any sort of physical goal, you need to have determination- and when you want to do something such as flattening your stomach, I could already see you're going to have a problem- you said that you're not running. Just by saying that, it shows that you won't be willing to do thing that you don't like to get what you want.do what you're doing, but maybe add in some cardio- such as running, or pilates or something else. Check out www.toneteen.com they have a lot of good health tips and other things that will be very helpful to you =) Keep on doing your crunches, but make sure you're doing them right (Bending at your lower abdomen, and not your neck or shoulders.) Or do some lower ab exercises- try laying flat on the ground, with your hands flat at your sides. keeping your legs together and straight, lift them up off the ground slowly so they're about 6 inches. There are alot of things you can do here- you can hold them there for 5 seconds, lower, and repeat a number of times... or raise them from 6 inches off of the ground, to 12 inches. Don't think that going higher will be better, because it will only hurt you by working the wrong muscles and not showing you any results... just stick to 6-12 inches =) Also, you can try googling "Abdominal Exercises" and I'm sure you'll get a lot of hits! Good luckkk! ♥ and if you need anything else, just ask! =)

also thsi qusetion isn't weird but like i couldn't find a catagory to go with it: But has anyone seen the first season of flavor of love because everyone keeps talking about this hoops girl and i don't know how she looks so if anyone can send me a picture at kaptaurus108@aol.com, that would be nice. i mean maybe it is weird that I don't know here but whatever.

http://www.mydarlingnikki.com/

that's her... her name on the show was 'Hoops' but in real life it's Nikki Darling =)

***ps: i also emailed it to you like you asked ♥

wen you give a guy a hj..do you want them to cum or not? how long do you do it for..not "whatever feels right" just maybe an estimate? thanks =]

if you want him to ejaculate then just keep on going until he does... and if you don't, just keep going until you wanna stop or until he wants you to stop... and as far as time goes, it just depends. but if it takes a half an hour like the person below me says, then um somethings wrong haha.

So, my friend's boyfriend and she were making pubic hair shake and she drank it and now she's afraid she's going to get crabs b/c her bf has crabs. Can she still get crabs from drinking this after it's been in the blender

wow um i don't know much about pubic hair shakes and/or crabs... but jesus christmas, i hope she gets it. whattt a dumbass hahahaa. she probably wont though since its just hair... but you never know... lol omg sorry i can't even answer this seriously what a weirdo haha if she's drinking pubic hair shakes, i think that getting crabs is actually the least of her worries. grossss

I'm 15/f and a freshman in high school.

I know it's almost the end of the year but I've had a crush (god I hate that word) on on of the junior guys for the longest time. He's a really sweet guy and we only talk from time to time but I couldn't stop the "school-girl crush" from happening. Is it even possible for a junior to like a freshman? Or am I totally out of my league?

Thanks in advance,
Little Freshie

yes it's entirely possible! i know like 9 thousand freshman who are dating people older than they are. just go for it! try to make plans to hang out, or get his number and call him... but if you do, don't call him until you've had his number for at least a day or two... and just do what feels right... then you'll know =) good luck with everythingggg ♥

What is a website that lets me edit my pictures without having to download anything?

http://www.creatingonline.com/Online_Image_Editor/

http://online-image-editor.com/

http://www.imageeditor.net/

http://www.gifworks.com/

well i just typed "free online picture editor" and those were the best ones i got... if you want more, go to google and browse around =) you should also try asking this question to whats called "the pool" which is where you can ask it so that anyone who wants to can answer it... here's where you go to do so:

http://www.advicenators.com/question.php

just go there, choose a category and make a subject... and ask the same question you asked me... you'll get lots of answers =) good luck!! ♥

ohhkay hiii
iv been going out with my boyfriend for uhmm about 3 weeks, and we already had sex. It was really good the second time, but then then next day i went to his house and we did it again and it hurt REALLY bad, like not when i pee afterwards i get a really bad pain. Then last night he was acting weird and all like, i dont see how you can love me, weve only been talking for 2 months and it started over a myspace messgae. im like well everytime im with you and talk to you i fall more, but now it seems like he doesnt want me to love him... or want to love me.. he normally tells me he loves me during the day in school and hes not now, he just kisses me and walks away. i dont know what to do. im really in love with him and dont wanna lose him. He just acts sometimes like he doesnt wanna be with him. today i wanted him to come to my locker with me and then walk to class with me becuase his class was right next to mine, but he didnt want to. i basically pushed him down the hallway and when he got to my locker he stayed there with me, but i had to force him to be with me ? i dont know what to do... ugh boys are dumb. help, pleaseee =)

alright loveyyy, welll believe we talked about this in study hall the other day... and i helped you out thennnn, so yeah =) lol love ya byeee ♥

ok wll i am 5'2 and weigh 90 pounds do u think thats underweight overweight or average ?? (truthfully because i need to know)
if u could tell me that would help A LOT !!

i think it is underweight... cause i weigh 90 pounds and i'm 4'11 and i'm considered underweight.. soo yeah, i'd say soo. but it's not like horribly underweight.. it's nothing to be alarmed about =) just check with your doctor =) hope i helped!! ♥

what happened on the hill season two finale?

Heidi gave in to Spencer, and moved into this really cool apartment with him... Lauren was pretty bummed, and needed to find a new roommate... so Audrina moves in with her! And that's all I think... OH YEAHHH- Whitney went on that job thing in New York... and she did a good job at the interview, but I don't know if she got it or not... I don't think they said so? But oh well... We'll find out next season I guess =)

You can look at all kinds of clips here =)

http://www.mtv.com/ontv/dyn/the_hills/series.jhtml

Hope I helped! ♥

OKay, Hi.. I;m thirteen yearrs old + im a girl. i weigh like 100 pounds. I am getting a little big in the tummy area and i want to lose weight!!!! all of my friends are skinny. I used to be but this year got really stressful and i started gettin some acne [ it cleared up tho] but now it's just the weight. I mean; im not fat but im not skinny eitherrr. My butt is getting big too :[ do uknow any websites, or just any advice fo weight lossss?! thank youuuu =] ♥

www.toneteen.com is a fantastic website =) it will answer basically all of your questions ♥ i would say just do crunches and watch what you eat! hope i helpedd ♥

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