HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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There are these kids on my bus and they talk about things that are just egregious like “hanging all of the n****r*”, “shooting all of the f*g*”, and lighting living animals on fire and watching them suffer. How can I let them know that this behavior/ talk is unacceptable? I don’t care where you come from, this behavior is insane. It makes me feel uncomfortable and upset. There is an African-American boy on my bus and it is just so terrible to watch all of this happen in front of him. These kids are about 12 to 14. I didn’t know that people could be so wicked at all, let alone so young. How can I handle this situation??
Thank you
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how sick! tell them that just becuz theyre helpless animal doesnt mean that they can harm them...there will come a day where they will find themselves being bullied cuz of what theyre doing God will judge them severly for what they are doing tell them that and if it dont work then consult an adult
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16/f
Thanks to anyone who answers or even reads this. I'll rate you
I think I'm a pretty good person, but I still want to be better/smarter. When it comes to everyday life, dating and guys, sex, friendship, pretty much anything. Can you give me some tips
or words of wisdom or anything basic or important to keep in mind when it comes to the above listed topics. Please try ... share your experiences or knowledge. It can be anything. Thank you!
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ok i have some tips about it all
freindship:dont ever buy your fr
iends with your own money meaning dont always invite them out and be the one who pays and if your in an argument with them dont always buy them gifts as an apology because if you do, one day when you dont have any money your gonna realize your freinds arent there around you.your freinds should like you for your personality not for your money and if they ever do anything to piss you off you should always tell them right away dont wait for them to change or eles itll get bigger and you wont know what to do.
guys
guys are so annoying you never know what theyre thinking.you shouldnt go to a guy and tell him that you like him be4 he does or eles hell get all arrogant and go brag to his freinds and might even play around with you and have another chick on the side.guys might seem to like sluts...girls that dress and act slutty and will have sex when theyre asked but they would never actually marry her cuz in his point of veiw shes a slut she did it with me and could have done it with other guys...how do i know i can trust her?i myself as a girl never had a boyfriend and im happy i dont cuz in my opinion all guys at high school are just kids all they do is be with girls that are slutty then dump her for a sluttier one and once youve had sex with them they go around bragging...trust me ive seen this happen with my own eyes.
life
life has many ups and downs and is totally unpredictable you may think its going your way and the next moment you lose it.you should thrive to get what you want and reach the top but if theres something youve thrived to reach and you dont get it dont get all down and depressed just pick yourself up and try again you cant have it all....you should also seek religion...whatever your religion is learn more about it and learn about the other religions too to know if youre on the right path...there are really only 3 religions in life christianity,islam and jewish learn about the three the more you know the better but you should be religious because life is real short and when you die you will be judged for everything you have done
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im worred about my friend shes in my grade 7th but shes only 11 im 13 so sometimes i think of her as a lil sister and im a little worred about her because she has a new boyfriend whos 16 in the 10th grade and she hangs out with him alone and im worred that somthing might happen how can i covinces her that this just isent right and dont say tell her mom because her mom dont care about her and i would like it if i didnt have to tell an adult because she wont listen to them (link)
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omg this guy is way too old for her hes obviously playin around with her.tell her the truth...tell her that you care about her and that it wont lead her anywhere but depression because theyre gonna end up breaking up anyway.tell her that something bad can happen to her if she hangs out alone with him too much and hes only using her to have a good time and hes got a lot of girls his age he could be with...he probably went to your freind cuz hes got bad intentions...good luck
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My best friend lives in Jersey and I live in Florida. Ive been crushing on him for a few years now and im not sure if I should tell him. He has a g/f and its like every time i get ready to tell him something like that comes up..should I just wait until he is single or until im ready or just go ahead and break the ice.... (but thing is I dont know if he likes more than a friend)
My age: 15 Female
His age: 17 Male (link)
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i dont think he likes you more than a freind since hes already got a girlfriend and i dont think you should break them up either because one day some girl will come outta noowhere breaking YOU guys up,what goes around comes around and if you tell him he can tell you that were just freinds and itll never be the same after and even IF you break him up with her .....how are you gonna see him?hes in FLORIDA
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i started my period july 3rd. and the past 2 days its been stopping and starting and the times its started again its been a heavy flow. idk whats happening. please help. thnks in advance. (link)
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is it your first time to ever get it?if it is then its normal because you just got it.it might come on the 3rd this month and next month you can get it in a totally different day or a lil blood can come out one day and the next day its a lot
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My question is ... how long after having sex should you wait to get a pregnacy test, to see if your preganet? See I think I might be preanet. Though the last time I had sex was last Wed. So I wanted to know how long to wait to get a pregnacy test. Or if it will show up right now if I go get one. Please help me out if you answere it so appreciated! (link)
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you should wait till your next pms time comes...if it doesnt come you might be pregnant
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i am a 45 year old woman and i have been with my husband for 10 years and married 3 of the 10. i have not been in love with my husband for a long time ( almost a year) and i meat a man that i am falling for but he told me last night that we are fuck buddies but i wantto know how i can get him to fall in love with me (link)
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i want to say that doing it with him isnt gonna make him fall in love with you.guys have two sides in them, their emotional side and their sexual side...your obviously trying to get him by getting to the wrong side and it aint gonna work like that.you have to get his emotional side by knowing whats on his mind most of the time,making him laugh,telling him how much he means to you and being there for him when the times get ruff for him.AND i think you should confess to your husband the truth cuz it aint gonna be pretty when he finds it out by himself
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this kid keeps horrasing me about somthing he shouldnt be because its nothing funny at all.i actually have an awsome sence of humor.but this isnt funny.he wasnt supposed to find out and its making me mad cuz like we were cool and all but like in phys. ed he will like pull my hair (not mean just so i would look at him)..and like when i walk to my bus he goes "haha you were rapped"(he does this wen i pass his bus and hes looking out of the window)..and i dunno what to do!! ps im not telling any authorities or anything
and im trying to get my friend to beat him up..but im not sure he wants to..so idk (link)
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omg that basterd.why dont you wanna tell the authorities?theyll put an end to his harrasment.if he says you got raped say something ruder to him like YEAH I DID BY YOUR MAMA or if you dont wanna do that then ask your friend to beat him up for ya tell him how much youd appreciate it or tell and older brother to help...why dont you just jump him and beat him up yourself yeah you might get hurt but at least youll feel better in the end
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I'm a sophomore in high school and I'm in love with my foreign language teacher.
I developed a crush on him at the end of my freshman year and since then, it's grown a lot and it's becoming unbearable. It's a blessing that this year is coming to an end because having his class every day has been miserable but I found out this week that I'm getting him again next year and I don't know what to do.
I've been told that it's just a phase that I'm going through but it's lasted way too long and I can't seem to get over it. I rarely speak to him, I can't look him in the eye, and I always feel so miserably awkward in his class and I don't know how I'm going to get through another year with him. And I'm miserable because I know nothing can ever happen.
I don't know what to do. I can't make myself comfortable in a situation like this and I'm thinking about dropping his class even though I'm so interested in it. Is this really just a phase I'm going through? Is it normal for teenage girls to totally fall in love with their teachers for no reason? How am I supposed to handle this? (link)
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omg having a crush on your teacher isnt gonna get you anywhere but depression.hes a lot older than you and teachers are teachers thats it.sit down and think it out is liking him actually gonna get me anywhere?you should go find someone your age that you desserve
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hey people
i have this problem: everyone hates me!! i have no friends at all! my crush once loved me and now...i dont know i've been mean and he ignores me...and i always say things i dont really want to say. like today my room was a little messy and my dad calls me an asshole just because i had a book lieing on the floor. he sais i'm a retard and that he never wanted a daughter like me , and my mom just stands there and laughs. and my dad is like a monster for me he runs after me in the house screaming and with spit in his mouth. i just dont know what to do anymore. and just because i had one book on the floor he said he's gonna control my room every day now...and i feel so bad right now..theres no1 to talk to and i dont have friends here because we just moved here. i feel terible and i also appologized to my crush and everything but first he gives me high five like i thought everything is fine again and the next day he ignores me again. i'm really confused....i feel really alone
what should i do? (link)
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why is that? there MUST be a reason to why these ppl dont like you.do you give them an atittude?are you mean to them?did you ever do anything to piss them off. about your parents talk to your mom or at least try tell her how your dad makes you feel its worth a try
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Does anyone know what the beginning stages of falling in love are like? Because I think I'm falling for a guy at work. These are my symptoms: constantly thinking about him with a smile on my face; friends asking me why I'm smiling (I'm not even aware of it it's because I'm thinking about him); getting butterflies when I see him; blushing when he looks at me. I also think he feels the same way about me. He works at the same store as me. About a month ago I went for drinks with him and some other co-workers. He was staring at me and smiling at me when I was dancing; and at work lately he's been staring at me and when I walked into the staffroom the other day as soon as I walked in he was staring at me and held my gaze. When he walks down my department he will look down the aisle to see if I'm working.
Do you think I'm in love with him? And more importantly do you think he's falling in love with me? When we look at each other I feel like I can't breathe. (link)
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hell yeah you are....symptoms of falling in love are...thinking bout him a lot as you smile and making up stories in your head of how to start up a convo with him and wondering what to wear tomorrow to get his attention but i think you should talk to him more cuz dont let looks fool ya personality is more important
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hey im 15/f and today this girl brooke shes a grade ahead of me. And today she was just talking and she said she had to write a story for english class. And before she talked about this kid named cody and i "hooking up" but i only like him as a friend. But she is trying to hook us up and she keeps on embarrasing us and saying that we want each other bad and crap like that. Which is really making me mad! SERIOUSLY! and i told them i didn't like him. But her english story was about this girl named ashley because thats who i am. And she said that i was madly in love with cody and stuff like that. And at the end i guess he ditched me and me and his new girlfriend got in a fight. Which is really stupid. I mean cody is the class clown i like him as a friend hes funny and yea. But im getting sick and tired everyday she says that we want each other and we know it blah blah bla is there anything i can say or anything to make her stop.. ANYTHING! and im not a nark i dont go and tell teachers or anything i'll rate 5s! Thanks alot (link)
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you need to talk to this biatch and have your girls behind you as backup tell her if she dont stop things are gonna get ruff...if she doenst stop then go tell a responsible teacher or something if that dont work then BEAT HER UP....youll make her never talk to you again and shell be too scared to look you in the face...trust me i tried it
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im supposed to think of 3 different types of songs for our 8th grade farewell dance (im on student council) and i need a "Rap/hip hop" song, a "slow" song and a "overall" song..by overall they mean how the year meant..and it was good and bad and i cannot think of ANY!
5s for anything.and i mean anything! (link)
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theres parrty starter for will smith and get right for JLO and now drop for fatman scoop and magoo and timberland(HOT SONG) and this is how we do for 50 cent and just a lil bit by 50 cent and shake that ass for eminem and nate dogg
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A couple days ago, on myspace, I was on my friends page, and I saw this guy [one of his skater friends] and I thought he was hott and he lives in my town, and he's my age, so I figured I'd add him as a friend because there are good chances of us already knowing each other. Well it turned out to be one of my ex-boyfriends from a few years ago. You know. We dated when we were young. I was like 13-14 or something. Now I am 17 & He's 18. Well when we were together he liked me a lot and he was really sweet and everything. Like a perfect boyfriend, but we were young, so it really didn't matter. Well now we found out who each other is, and we can't believe we are talking again after these years have gone by. Well the problem is, I have been talking to him again for a couple of days and we talk on the phone and stuff, but he tells me how cute I am, and he brags about me, and he TELLS ME HE LOVES ME. I don't know what to do. I don't want to ignore him anymore, I just want to be friends because I have my most recent ex boyfriend whom I love very much and he just got a job for me and everything. (link)
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tell him that that was a long time ago and that youre in love with someone eles and that you just want to stay freinds...you have to tell him if you dont then itll get bigger and youll be running away from a problem thatll lead you to a dead end in the end.
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i hate it when people talk about me behind my back but unfortunatly people do. and i dont know how to deal with it anymore. i used to ignore it but i cant anymore and im ready to snap. what should i do? (link)
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honey EVERYBODY talks about EVERYBODY.are you trying to say you dont talk about anyone?what goes around comes around.even if you dont talk about anyone they still will.you shouldnt give a damn they can say what they wanna say about you they have a right to and so so YOU you have a right to say whatever you want too. ppl talk about me a lot and i dont even bother
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umm.. i dont know what this goes under but...
you know how girls dance at parties like they move their hips around a lot so it looks like they're a wave or something?
like im the only one that can't dance at my school. at my school dances like the girls are like all back to back w/ each other and moving their hips but i don't know how 2 do that.
like my body's too stiff and it's not loose or whatever. can you tell me how to do it or give me a website that has a video of girls dancing at a party like that or something? plzzz i rate high!!! (link)
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hey ive made dances at my school for talent shows and taught them all how to booty dance...mabey your problem is that your a lil too skinny or your bootys a lil small look ...to move your butt right stand with all your weight on one leg and the other legs just normally on the ground....like one of your legs are bended in a way.thenjust have your back strait and puch your ass to the right then go back then make your way to the left in a circular way try...its not easy but practice makes perfect and to booty dance just pop your butt out back and your chest up...good luck
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okay today was the last day of school for my school. okay to keep it short, i like this guy and we are also friends. how can i stay in touch with him over the summer so he doesn't forget all about me? IMing him doesn't work because all he ever answers with is 'lol' or 'yeah'. and there is NO WAY i'd ever call him. that would be too weird, because we are more of like school friends. we talk in school and everything but not out of school.
thanks! i rate high =D (link)
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when you talk to him online try sking him questions that he can answer and talk a lot in not just reply by saying yes or no. tell him about a funny situation you were put in once and ask him if he was in one similar to it.try to find where he goes from your friends and bump into him and start hanging out
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i just graduated and im very worried about my old friends because im going
to high school next year and im scared that i not gonna see my old friends anymore..='( how do we keep in touch with ur old friendsand stay close to them? is it possible that if am lucky u get same class with my old friend? (link)
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what you talkin bout theyre your friends and ofcourse your gonna see them call them and go out with them and dont let you graduating get in the way of you guys being freinds and besides youll still talk to them AND make new freinds
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I like to play pranks on my brother but there all geting old do you know any real good ones? (link)
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alright thats ez.....send him a love note from a guy at his school LOL hell freak out.or pretend that you fainted or something.
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I've been dating my bf for almost 2 years. We get in fights easily. He has this thing where he is very immature and when people get mad, he still does it, acting like a 6 year old. I get tired of him quickly, but I know part of it is because I've been dating him for so long. I don't know what to do, because I love him to death. I don't know if I should keep dating him, and keep arguing.. or try someone else. What seems right here? (link)
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you love him so why not tell him that it bothers you when he acts immature?nuthings wrong with tellin him.you should be honest and tell him the truth
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