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i am a 45 year old woman and i have been with my husband for 10 years and married 3 of the 10. i have not been in love with my husband for a long time ( almost a year) and i meat a man that i am falling for but he told me last night that we are fuck buddies but i wantto know how i can get him to fall in love with me
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If there is no feelings for your husband by all means end the relationship. Don't make yourself and him miserable.
However, I doubt the fuck buddy will ever be more than that. You may see him as a means to escape a loveless marriage but he isn't going to be the answer either. Sorry & good luck with whatever you decide. :)
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Hi, I wouldn't go for this guy. He sounds as though he's after sex. Im quite suprised that your asking this kind of question at your age to mainly teenagers. If you don't love your husband then why don't you? If you don't love your husband then why are you still married? You need to tell your husband how you feel and some how have a really big talk. If it comes to the stage were you would sooner be with another man than your husband then really you might as well get a divorce. There is no point being with your husband if you don't love him. The question is why don't you love him? The best thing you could get out of this is being single again and starting fresh. Talk to your husband and see how things go. I would reccomend that you go and see a relationship counsellor and he/she can discuss this with you or the pair of you together. You must have some feelings towards your husband otherwise you wouldn't have married him in the first place. This question would have been alot easier to answer if you could have told us why you don't love your husband. Would you throw away 10 years over this. Talk to a relationship counsellor or your husband or both. Try and figure out why you don't love your husband. Otherwise if you simply don't love him then get a divorce. But don't stay married to him and think about making another guy love you. You can't make a guy love you, it's up to him to feel the emotion. Daniel.
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okay...omg...first of all your 45 years old you should kno when ur being used..how can you go so low? what about ur kids? do you even love them ? think about them stop being SO SELLFISH if you think this wont effect them then i know your children better then you do...your a sad excuse for a mom and a sad excuse for a wife...the man is telling you that your his sex buddy..hmmm what does tht mean oh yeah he must defiantly be in love with you OR he thinks your easy and decide "shes old and saggy but i havent got some for a while" tell the man if he wanted a slut to go find a hooker ok because you shouldnt be treated like one..your not in love with him you want some action in your life ..go back to your husband and spice up your relation ship and cry about what your doing i hope you relize tht its wrong
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If you dont love your husband, why are you with him? that isnt fair to you or him.
Im sorry, but you cannot make anyone fall in love with you. If its there, thats great, but if its not...then you have to move on. Fuck buddies? How did that make you feel? Im sure he doesnt think much of you, for him to call you that. You are in a great deal of mess, and you need to get out of it. You cant be unfaithful like this anymore. Its wrong, and its unfair.
Good luck. Make the right decision
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if your not in love w/ur husband, then you shouldnt be married to him.
you should tell him your sry but your not in love w/him anymore, and you want a divorce.
you cant force anyone to fall in love w/you, so just get to know him more and go on a lota dates w/him so after a while he MIGHT fall in love w/you.
but even while you date him, be open to all guys that you think would be good for you, so that you can get remarried quick.
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i want to say that doing it with him isnt gonna make him fall in love with you.guys have two sides in them, their emotional side and their sexual side...your obviously trying to get him by getting to the wrong side and it aint gonna work like that.you have to get his emotional side by knowing whats on his mind most of the time,making him laugh,telling him how much he means to you and being there for him when the times get ruff for him.AND i think you should confess to your husband the truth cuz it aint gonna be pretty when he finds it out by himself
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