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I want to better myself
16/f
Thanks to anyone who answers or even reads this. I'll rate you
I think I'm a pretty good person, but I still want to be better/smarter. When it comes to everyday life, dating and guys, sex, friendship, pretty much anything. Can you give me some tips
or words of wisdom or anything basic or important to keep in mind when it comes to the above listed topics. Please try ... share your experiences or knowledge. It can be anything. Thank you!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Etiquette?
Don't worry, with experience you will slowly build up. Take it slow. You can ask your older friends for tips too and there are many books on these subjects (teen fiction/chick lit). For friendship you can ask your parents. Or just post your question to this site if problems arise. We are always here for you!
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ok i have some tips about it all
freindship:dont ever buy your fr
iends with your own money meaning dont always invite them out and be the one who pays and if your in an argument with them dont always buy them gifts as an apology because if you do, one day when you dont have any money your gonna realize your freinds arent there around you.your freinds should like you for your personality not for your money and if they ever do anything to piss you off you should always tell them right away dont wait for them to change or eles itll get bigger and you wont know what to do.
guys
guys are so annoying you never know what theyre thinking.you shouldnt go to a guy and tell him that you like him be4 he does or eles hell get all arrogant and go brag to his freinds and might even play around with you and have another chick on the side.guys might seem to like sluts...girls that dress and act slutty and will have sex when theyre asked but they would never actually marry her cuz in his point of veiw shes a slut she did it with me and could have done it with other guys...how do i know i can trust her?i myself as a girl never had a boyfriend and im happy i dont cuz in my opinion all guys at high school are just kids all they do is be with girls that are slutty then dump her for a sluttier one and once youve had sex with them they go around bragging...trust me ive seen this happen with my own eyes.
life
life has many ups and downs and is totally unpredictable you may think its going your way and the next moment you lose it.you should thrive to get what you want and reach the top but if theres something youve thrived to reach and you dont get it dont get all down and depressed just pick yourself up and try again you cant have it all....you should also seek religion...whatever your religion is learn more about it and learn about the other religions too to know if youre on the right path...there are really only 3 religions in life christianity,islam and jewish learn about the three the more you know the better but you should be religious because life is real short and when you die you will be judged for everything you have done
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im going to tell you the two mottos i live my life with and i think im a pretty decent person
1. You have to make scrafices to prosper in life.
2. Live for you and no one else cause in the end you have to live with the choices you make.
hope they work for you
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In your life you will meet many guys && remember not all of them can or will be the right guy for you. Guys will probly break your heart a few times. You will eventually find the right guy and there will be ups&downs of every relationship but that doesnt mean its not a good relationship.
Only you can know when you are ready for sex. You can't let someone tell you that you are ready for sex. Its your choice when&&who you want to have sex with. And alot of guys will want to. But not all of them.
Friends should always come first. Boyfriends are great but friends are forever. Remember that.
You should always have confidence in yourself no matter the situation. Life will put bumps in the road and you just have to figure out how to get around them.
Good luck and i hope i helped.
kimm-
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This is too general of a question but I can help by saying love yourself first. Be comfortable and confident and the rest will hoepefully come easily!
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obviously, this isn't a very specific question, but i can answer it with a few simple quotes::
♥ dance as if no one's watching ;; sing as if no one's listening && live every day as if it is your last ♥
♥ don't go through life frowning, because you never know who might be falling in love with your smile ♥
those are two quotes to live by sweetie. always & forever.
friendship:: always remember friends before guys. thats very important ;]
guys:: can be losers. suck it up && wait for the right one :]
well. i've gotta go.
good luck in everything you do. :]
♥ always,
annalee <3
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