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I've been dating my bf for almost 2 years. We get in fights easily. He has this thing where he is very immature and when people get mad, he still does it, acting like a 6 year old. I get tired of him quickly, but I know part of it is because I've been dating him for so long. I don't know what to do, because I love him to death. I don't know if I should keep dating him, and keep arguing.. or try someone else. What seems right here?
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you love him so why not tell him that it bothers you when he acts immature?nuthings wrong with tellin him.you should be honest and tell him the truth
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sometimes people make themselves believe they are still in love because they've been together so long.if you're not having fun anymore, it's not worth it.
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I would see other people because it seems to me that this is not gonna work out much longer because you have dated him so long you will get tired of him and mayb he is tired of u to that could b y he is acting like a 6 year old because mayb he wants you to break up w/ him so he dnt hurt your feelings and you wont hurt his.
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tell him that if he's going to be immature, then you're going to need some time off for him to get his act together. because no one deserves to be treated like how it sounds he's treating you. you might love him alot, and it really sounds like you do, but i say tell him that you need him to get his act together, take some time off, and then see if he's acting less immature. if he is, things should go well, if he's not, then i say break it off because if you're not happy with him, then he's not worth it.
but, it's your choice, and with that i say follow your heart, it'll show you the way.
hope i helped!!
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Just a question: have you talked to him about this stuff already? Because if you haven't, I advice you talk to him first before REALLY taking some action.
But if you've already talked to him about this, and he still acts like a child, read on....
If you're no longer happy, then I think it's time for you to gather your thoughts and think really hard if you still want to be with him or not. Remember that if you're in a relationship, you're supposed to feel HAPPY, not Bothered or something like that....
Also, if you already Can't stand his immaturity and if you think that you deserve better(well, we all deserve the Best,don't we?), THINK.
But it's all up to you if you still want to keep your relationship w/ this guy and stand his childishness OR break up with him and find someone who REALLY deserves your love.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit!
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What really frustrates me about answers on here is that just because someone is having relationship problems with a lot of fights, it doesnt mean you should break-up with them. You will have fights in relationships people!
Anyway, if these fights are to a point where he isn't respecting your feelings or you feel that he's not hearing you, then that's something you have to let him know. The next time you guys get in a fight, just let him know what's bothering you, and if nothing is bothering you, ask him what's bothering him and listen. If you feel like you've already done whatever you could to get him to understand, then you should consider taking some time off from him or ending the relationship.
I wouldn't suggest trying someone else right away because two years is a very long time and I think you won't realize how much he's in your life until you actually let go of him and taking a break might help that. The thing is that if you feel that you're the only one working at this, then consider a break-up.
Sometimes when you are out of answers, you have to be alone and listen to that voice inside that's not in love with this guy. The part that tells you the right thing. If you know you shouldn't be with this guy, you'll probably notice that voice peeking out. I know it may sound crazy, but sometimes when you're in a situation that you know deep down isn't right, something will tell you inside.
-TheTeenGirl
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Well I'm not what you would call an expert but if you get into fights often and sometimes can find him almost unbearable, I think it may be time for someone else. But thats my opinion, Hope I helped
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