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everyone hates me...
hey people
i have this problem: everyone hates me!! i have no friends at all! my crush once loved me and now...i dont know i've been mean and he ignores me...and i always say things i dont really want to say. like today my room was a little messy and my dad calls me an asshole just because i had a book lieing on the floor. he sais i'm a retard and that he never wanted a daughter like me , and my mom just stands there and laughs. and my dad is like a monster for me he runs after me in the house screaming and with spit in his mouth. i just dont know what to do anymore. and just because i had one book on the floor he said he's gonna control my room every day now...and i feel so bad right now..theres no1 to talk to and i dont have friends here because we just moved here. i feel terible and i also appologized to my crush and everything but first he gives me high five like i thought everything is fine again and the next day he ignores me again. i'm really confused....i feel really alone
what should i do?
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why is that? there MUST be a reason to why these ppl dont like you.do you give them an atittude?are you mean to them?did you ever do anything to piss them off. about your parents talk to your mom or at least try tell her how your dad makes you feel its worth a try
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Hi there, yes it does seem and feel like people hate us sometimes. But with got to tell ourselves that its not true. Yes alot of people might not like you, their loss, but you will be amazed how many people do like you. Just keep being positive and if you want to make friends or go on a date just join a group that your interested in. Such as a scouts club or book club things that interest YOU. Start a conversation with people, start by saying hi and if its a girl your looking for just say something like, hi, and talk about her and her interests. Girls like the attention seeked on her. Remember your not alone. Daniel.
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In the situation with your room. It's not your fault. Your dad probably just has a lot of stress and when he sees the slightest mistake, he takes out all his anger on you. Your mom and dad are being very rude and remeber, its not your fault. As for the problem with having no friends. Try greeting new people everyday. Or just try being funny or cute. That will also get your crushes attention. Hope my advice helps.
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I really doubt that everyone hates you, it just feels that way sometimes.
The way to stop saying things that you don't want to say..is to just stop doing it. No one controls what comes out of your mouth but you. When you are frustrated, stop and count to ten before you say anything. Apparently you are learning some bad habits from your Dad, he shouldn't say those things to you, but he hasn't learned how to control his mouth either. Parents get frustrated, in fact we all get frustrated, we must forgive and forget!...remember this Quote.
Speak when you're angry, and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret.
Lawrence J. Peter
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