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symptoms of falling in love
Does anyone know what the beginning stages of falling in love are like? Because I think I'm falling for a guy at work. These are my symptoms: constantly thinking about him with a smile on my face; friends asking me why I'm smiling (I'm not even aware of it it's because I'm thinking about him); getting butterflies when I see him; blushing when he looks at me. I also think he feels the same way about me. He works at the same store as me. About a month ago I went for drinks with him and some other co-workers. He was staring at me and smiling at me when I was dancing; and at work lately he's been staring at me and when I walked into the staffroom the other day as soon as I walked in he was staring at me and held my gaze. When he walks down my department he will look down the aisle to see if I'm working.
Do you think I'm in love with him? And more importantly do you think he's falling in love with me? When we look at each other I feel like I can't breathe.
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hell yeah you are....symptoms of falling in love are...thinking bout him a lot as you smile and making up stories in your head of how to start up a convo with him and wondering what to wear tomorrow to get his attention but i think you should talk to him more cuz dont let looks fool ya personality is more important
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he prolly likes you too, you may wanna play hard to get a little bit more. also..maybe your not in love maybe you just have a massive crush but whatever it is it sounds serious..good luck to you xxx
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i was in the exact type of situation.. i think that i was falling in love with this guy.. and i think he was falling in love with me. when he died... i swear i have never had anything worse to go through in my entire life. especially since i hadnt told him how i felt. my advice to you is to talk to him, speak up. before you lose the chance... the pain of losing a loved one that you have never talked to is the worst thing that could ever happen... i am still not over it and he died january 19... so talk to him..
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I'm in the same situation with a guy I work with. I'm 22 and he makes me feel like a giddy teenager. I got it all too...the butterflies, smiling while thinking about him, and my guy also looks and me and seems to be interested. It's tough especially since it's someone at work and that can be awkward if he doesn't. Anyways you got a huge crush just like I do. I think the guy might feel the same way just as I think my guy likes me. Men are hard to figure out. I just can't believe someone is in the same situation as me. Oh also see how he treats others in the office and if he's different with them then with you it might even be more possible. Me and my guy act like a couple of little kids around each other. It's cute. Hope it works out for ya.
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I wouldn't say that you are falling in love. You have a big crush on this guy is what you've got.
Falling in love happens when you've actually been with someone for a while. Plus, there aren't really symptoms or signs of falling in love. You've got the signs of a huge crush, which I'm sure that is the answer you are looking for. There is no doubt in my mind that you don't feel something great for this guy.
When people ask questions if whether a guy likes them or not, it's really hard to answer because you have to see the way the guy interacts with you. It takes more than a description of what he says or does.
If you are noticing a change in the way he looks at you or is treating you nicer, then I'd say he's got his eye on you. I'm not sure if you are the kind of girl to be upfront with your feelings, but maybe you should let him know how you feel about him. And if not, then keep flirting and day-dreaming about him until he steps up and asks you out.
-TheTeenGirl
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hey! well this sounds like a major crush and you two deffinitely like each other a lot. but as far as symptoms of love... that's not really something you will know until you actually fall in love. and when that happens, you won't even ask because you will know it is love. it's unlike any other feeling in the world, and it will happen once you get to know someone really well, inside and out... when you get to know everything about them, and love them for who they are... good AND bad things about them. when you love someone, you would give up everything in the world to make them happy, and you put your own happiness on the line if it means making your loved one happy. seeing the other person happy is ALL you need to be happy, and seeing them sad makes you sad. it's so hard to explain what it is like... in my morality class last semester we read something in which love was summed up as the "desire to possess someone completely and be completely possessed by them." it is a very strong feeling that nothing in the world can get in teh way of. butterflies eventually wear off, and the blushing eventually stops, but love never goes away! :) hope that helped! let me know if you need a better answer haha
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