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ok....my friend right now is suppose to help me hook up w/ this guy from our school...so far everything is good... he says im very attractive and he asked for my sn so i could talk to him some more and get to knw me. This always happens that when i finally get what i would like something goes wrong, like i get unsatisfied or he just says "i don't wanna gf right now" what can i do or say to make this time diffrent... anything i should do to catch his eye?

Be yourself, flirt with him and keep him interested. Just remember, you can't MAKE someone like you. Good luck. ;)








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My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :(

If he's really worth it, go for it. Follow your heart and good luck!!









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okay last night was my cousins baptism and it was fine until the party when his parents got durnk, and his parents are my uncle and my aunt and my aunts like a second mom to me and my aunt got stoned and sooo drunk and my uncel got drunk and they culdnt take the baby cuz they culdnt care for it so my mom had to fight with them to get it and it feels like my whole family is falling apart...im afraid of my aunt now wat do i do?

If she was crunk, what are the chances of her remembering. Just forget what happened that night and move on with your life, it was just a little mishap. You shouldn't be afraid of your aunt.








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This girl and I recently became really close, we used to be good friends and then spilt apart. What got us to be so friggen close again is she went through the same thing I went through. All the drama with other girls befriending you talking behind you back and all of that. We are so close now and can trust each other and throughout the whole summer are bascally each others only friends. Well I am going to college now, and shes still in highschool and on the cheerleading team, where all these girls are. Well a whole bunch of stuff went down and apperently she does talk to tthis one girl that I know of which I don't care because I am sorta ok too. But the thing is apperently shes telling her and these other girls stuff about me. Like the things this girl told me to do because I was about to fight them .. they fought out .. not like everyday things but like things about fighting with a key between your fingers and if worst comes to worse use mase. And apperently when I was talking to this one girl she said all that to me, which my good friend told me. Also work got out that I had talked to the cheerleading coach, only my good friend knows and these two other girls I just "reunited with" that I`ve known since I was 3 and been super close with in the past so I know it wasn't them. So now I just don`t know what to do with this good friend of mine, like to know how close we are its crazy. But then I wanna ask her all these things but don't want to be :ignorant: or like blaming her like how did these girls find out when you said this all to me? And why did this girl tell me to watch out who i say stuff too and that shes friends with my "good friend"

thankyou so sorry if its confusing!!

If she was such a good friend, you wouldn't be hearing the shit you are. When you go to college, you'll meet new people. But, if you still want to be her friend just talk to her about it and ask why she's telling people that, tell her that you know it's her because you only told her. Good luck.








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im asking this question for my friend ... a few months ago she wanted to be homeschooled ... then she found this really nice boarding school that she liked A LOT! so she requested information and things of that sort on teh internet and things like that...well she was sure her mom was going 2 say yes...well her mom said that it was A LOT of money 2 pay especially shes one of four kids...four girls...so it kinda sux for her! i feel really badly for her and she asked me 2 write this...she cant go to the boarding school or homeschooled and she doesn't want to go 2 public/private school because in her area...they judge you at pub. and private school...

PLEASE HELP THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT TO HER AND ME!!

AND AGAIN PLEASE HELP!!

It sucks that she can't go, but every where she goes she's going to be judged. That's life. There's nothing really anybody can do on this site that can help her. But, if she wants money tell her to start babysitting or get a job and pay for herself with maybe a little help from her parents. I think she should just go to the public schools. Good luck!!








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im a freshman and all the senior guys are all over me. its great but its kinda bad ya no. this really hott guy invited me to a party and there will b drinking drugs sex and everything there and i dont want any of the guys to expect sex or a hj or bj from me. do u think i should go to the party? thnx

If you want to yea. Just because there's going to be sex there, doesn't mean you have to be involved in it. Don't do anything you don't want to, it's that simple!! Have fun if you go =D








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Okay I am seriously about to go crazy! I posted a question about my moms b/f being a jerk before so this kind of continous sort of. But My moms b/f is name dale and he has a 13 yr old son. well his son and friend went to this club for 13-20 yr olds and i felt like sleeping in the basement tonight. I wake up at 2am and find these 2 chicks sleeping in my room! He let his son bring in 2 girls from the club! im about to go nuts cuz i dunno what they are going through in my room! Dale is only doing this cuz he knows im pissed! im freaking 16 yrs old and i have no say about who can sleep in my own freaking room! Do you think im overreacting

Ugh!! What assholes.I would talk to your mom about all of this. They have NO right to be in your room what-so-ever. Good luck--hope no other nasty girls go in your room. ;)








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everything's too late...i'v already gone out with him and now he's out of reach it's like he's almost there, almost in my grasp, but then...he's gone, i can't feel nething nemore

And how is that a question?









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has anyone heard that lemon juice will help ance? has anyone ever tryed it? does it work

No, but I'll try it ;)..








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well my n my bf have been going out for 3 years now...16/f btw...well weve gone too 3rd base...well once i was giving him head and he pulled down my pants we did 69 and the dorr knob was turning and his parents were there so we QUICKLY stopped and then pulled our pants up n sat there his mom was like hey guys...she said adam youre pants are unzipped! i was like oh crap she didnt think anything i hope...well i was wondering how do we prevent getting caught...should we do it in the car or got oo a ahotel maybe? MODS DONT DELETE!!! you dont understand i need help

Do it when they're not home or go some place like the woods.







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Whats like the maximum age difference thats considered normal??

I'd say 3 years.







-xXoBrianna

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for some reason guys always take me as a whore..is there anyway i can make them stop thinking that?! i realli need help! i'm so depressed n crying! i'll rate!

Don't act like one.








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Is it werid that i never want to be around my mom.. and i avoid everything about her? i mean everbody else likes to be with there moms and stuff? plz help
ill rate :)
thx.. vballdevil

It's not weird.








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omg my freind was on the fone to the guy i lk then she kept tellin him to ask me out then he asked her out and she said yes then they broke up but he wants her to go out with him again and then she wants to go out with him again but she nows i lk him alot wut should i do should i be mad at her cause i am help!!!!! i will rate u

Yea, if my friend went out with the person I really liked and she knew about it, I'd be mad too!! Just tell her straight up that you don't like what she's doing and that she knows how much you like the guy.








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What does 69 mean?? and what does it mean to be 'wet'?

69- when a girl and guy are on top of each other facing the opposite way pleasuring each other, eating the girl out and giving the guy a blow job
being "wet"- when a girl gets horny, her vagina gets wet








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my friend is going out with the guy i like i dont want to tell her that i like him cause then she will think oh u just like him cause i do ( she is like that ) what should i do?

Don't tell her. Easy as that!!









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I'm 16, and my dad still treats me like I'm a "little girl". My mom and I, we get along so well, because she treats me like a young adult, but my father raises hell whenever I ask him to do ANYTHING. We see a family psycologist, and not even that helps. He's just so effing stubborn. I tell him allll the time " dad I'm not a little girl anymore", but it just doesn't get through to him. I know he's going through this "phase", but isn't over 3 years a little much? I am an only child, and a model, and I know he hates to see me take pictures and wear clothes that expose my stomach and it's just a lot to take. He tells me I have no future because I failed one year of math with exelent effort, and that I'll never make it. He puts me down and makes me feel so effing shitty. It's like he wants my respect, but he doesn't give it back. Any advice at all pllease.

thank you

Ugh, tell him that the things he says hurts you and that your mom doesn't treat you like he does. Also, that you would really like it if he gave you more slack, I mean you are growing up. Good luck.








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hey well I really like this guy and he likes me too but we know it cant work out. (long story) But I asked him what he didnt like about me..and he said I was flakey..i didnt wanna seem dumb and be like what the heck is that so im like ohh ok and i changed the subject lol....so thats where you advice ppl come in..whats flakey? haha..

Lol.. it means your weird and different. Oddball. =P








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Hey everyone...I need some advice....

Well I met this guy almost 8 months ago. We started talkin and we went out for about a week but things were not workin out because he lived like 30 mins away and neither one of us could drive. So we broke up and didnt talk for a while then we started talkin again and we got really close. He told me he didnt want to go out right then cause we wouldnt ever see each other. He wanted to wait until he could drive. Well he will be able to drive on tuesday. We have had a really hard time the past month or so. He told me he loved me and the whole nine yards. But now he is sayin that he doesnt really want a relationship. And some ppl told me that he said he hated me and never liked me and i asked him and he said he didnt say that. I cant stop thinkin bout him and i really love him a lot. How do I get him to realize that. I have already talked to him and tried to explain. All i want is just to be with him....Please help

Sorry it was so long

Tell him that if he doesn't love you, then to stop telling you that. Tell him that you're really confused about what your hearing and you want the truth. Also, tell him that you really love him. But, remember, you can't make someone like you!! Good luck.








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I use to hate this girl at my school, i never said anything to her hurtful its just that she acts stuck-up but the problem is that my friend is friends with her and i cant stand being around her, I dont wanna tell my friend because i am scared she will stand up for the girl and stop talking to me.

You have to tell her that you don't like the girl and ask please not to hang out with her when she's around you. I'm sure she'll understand. If she doesn't, and gets mad at you, what kind of friend is that?








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