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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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i have been looking online for a website that i can make my own layout. except i cant seem to find it. like i know there is a tom one but what is it called? thanks so much.

if there is any other ones i would appericate it if you give it to me.

http://www.mygen.co.uk/index.php?page=premade is an amazing site. ♥

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how many calories are in 1 pound?

It's 3500 calories per pound. ♥

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Alright. I am 17 and ive had sex alot. but the thing is...my parents think im still a virgin. and my brother found out about me and this guy last night. and now hes like holding it against me. i am pretty paranoid cause i mean. he usually doesnt tell on me but sometimes he does. what should i do? come clean or just see what happens?

You're 17, hun. What you're doing is your private life and it shouldn't be out there for everyone to know about, especially your parents. It's up to you and it shouldn't concern anyone else besides you and your partner. I wouldn't tell your parents and I'm sure your brother won't, either. If he respects you enough, he won't tell them. Just keep it to yourself, for now and if he does tell your parents, you'll have to have a talk with them. I'm sure you have nothing to worry about, as of right now, though. ♥

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i straighten my hair everyday, and i dont use any special conditioners or anything. Is that bad? i use garnier fructis shampoo & conditioner, if that helps. thanks xOx [♥]

No, it isn't bad, at all. I straighten my hair everyday. But, you should leave it rest once in a while and not straighten it, just so you don't damage it TOO much. ♥

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ok, so i think that i may like this guy who is about 2 years younger than me. i think he's a good guy and he's nice to me. i'm not sure if he likes me too. what are some signs that i should look for to see if he likes me, without asking him if he does?

-- He might start talking loudly in your presence or start treating you as one of the guys. (Yes, this is a weird way to show he likes you, but it's one of the most common and strongest signals!)
-- He might also become very shy and mumble when he speaks to you.
-- Then again, he could behave like a real Casanova, praising you for no apparent reason and straining hard to hold a sustained intelligent conversation (often ending in him asking for your phone number or for a date)
-- If he is acting more flirtatious toward you than toward other people at the same event
If his friends are paying attention to you when he isn't around (often a clue that this guy talked to his or her friends about you).
-- If he always seems to be around (especially if you get the "instinct" that he's there because of you)
-- If he is smiling while listening to you, and seems to be listening especially "actively"
If he seems to look into your eyes a little longer than normally.
-- If he remembers stuff you said before and brings it up again (asking questions about something you mentioned in the past ) - shows he's interested in you


Testing Your Suspicions: If you think a guy likes you (trust your gut instinct, girls) but you can't be totally sure, try this: Give him your best smile. If he smiles back, or his face suddenly lights up, tah dah! He likes you. If he starts sweating and looks all flustered, he likes you even more. If his smile is the polite kind, or if he frowns or looks away, that's a bad sign that maybe he isn't interested in you after all. (http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/doeshe.html) ♥

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i'm going back out with my boyfriend after he cheated on me. but i know he won't do it again! a lot of people tell me that i'm stupid.... "once a cheater always a cheater!" but i love him so much and know he won't do it again! WHAT DO I DO?!

I think you should give the relationship one more shot. Everyone should be able to have a second chance, no matter what they've done. Just make sure that he doesn't do this again. Become closer with one another so you're able to tell eachother anything. In that case if he DOES cheat on you again, he'll tell you and not keep it a secret. But, you said he won't. If you trust him and you're 100% sure he won't do it again, then that's great. ♥

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will it hurt the first time a girl gets fingered? or is that a bad sign if it hurts?

It's going to hurt a little; it all depends on how hard your partner goes, though. Make sure you're conformable with it and you aren't all scared. If you are, you'll tense up and it'll hurt more then it should.


Make sure he's not rough on you and he uses one finger first and tell him to go slow and easy. This way, it'll get you 'loosened' up. Once you're conformable with it, he can go harder and what not. ♥

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Is it possible for someone to stop growing breasts at 13? i started when I was 8, and I'm 32A

No, you don't stop growing until you're at least 18-21. ♥

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In between haircuts I often cut my own split ends off. Like if I happen to see one I'll just grab a pair of scissors and cut it off. Is this bad? All my friends tell me I shouldn't do this, butI thought cutting them off was a good thing.

It's fine to do that, I do this to because I hate spilt ends. If you want, you could go to the hairdresser at least once a month for a trim; it'll help with the spilt ends and you won't get them as often. ♥

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I have stains on my teeth is there any way I can get rid of them? If possible any way without using a dentist? Or is it possible at all with or without a dentist?

I've always used baking soda. I'd brush my teeth with regular toothpaste, then after, I'd brush them with a little bit of baking soda and salt. -- You just put 1/4 of salt in a little bottle, then the rest is baking soda. It works really well and your teeth will start to become really white. ♥

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is it odd to date somebody a year younger then you, and he's a little bit shorter then you?
Im a female.

Nope, not at all. It doesn't matter how tall the person is, what the person looks like or how old they are. All that matters is you like that person and that person likes you. ♥

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My friend is really angry at me cause im friends with other people now and she gets really moody! The other day she told me i was up my self and all this really mean stuff. What can i do??

Your friend is mad at you because you're friends with other people? That's pretty dumb. I suggest you talking to her about this and tell her how she's being mean to you. Explain to her that you should be able to have other friends, it's not just her. She doesn't have to be mean to you and say hateful things to you, just because you have other friends. Talk to her about this and explain how you're feeling. If she doesn't understand and she still doesn't want you having other friends, maybe you should think about your friendship with her and if you want to keep it or not. ♥

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What are websites to places similar to Myspace? Like places where you can make a site and have people look at it and have their own?

-- http://www.xanga.com
-- http://www.livejournal.com
-- http://www.blogspot.com
-- http://www.blogdrive.com
-- http://www.facebook.com
-- http://www.tagged.com
-- http://www.bebo.com
-- http://www.nexopia.com


These's are just a few. I'm sure there's TONS more out there. ♥

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whats the song that has the lyrics
lets get these teen hearts beating faster?

The song is called 'Lying Is The Most Fun A Girl Can Have Without Taking Her Clothes Off' and it's by Panic! At The Disco. ♥


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Ok,a few questions here,my and my kinda sorta boyfriend are going to see a horror movie proably the hills have eyes,in a few weeks,and he wants to make out during the movie,instead of watching it,but one problem.........i've never made out,just kissed,so what do guys like when oyu make out with a girl,and how do you know if your doing it right,please help me i just need tips for making out,!!!!!!!!! please help!!

I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.


I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.


Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing ♥

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15/f

okay my nipples are like really sore.

i already have c cup breasts but could they be growing again?

or is there something else it could be

Yes, that is why they could be sore. You don't stop growing until you're at least 18. So, you could be going through some changes right now with your breast.


Also, it could be a sign that your period is around the corner, or you're pregnant. ♥

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I want to download music but i have tried limeiwre and it doesnt work on my computer and i hate bearshre cause it crashed my computer. I have heard of somthing called aries or sumthing. If you could tell me your opinions on it that would be great. and what do i go to to get it?

It's Ares :) and it is a really great downloader. I have had it for about a year+, now. I haven't had any problems with it. You can usually find all the songs you want. It doesn't give of viruses and it goes really fast. It's super! I highly suggest it. ♥

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my friend didnt know how to make out n like use her tongue n stuff......so she like did it with her dog i guess

is it just me or is that a lil weird?


she told me she did it tho so she wouldnt look stupid when she does it with a guy fer the 1st time

I totally agree with you, that is right out weird. ♥

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Should guys who aren't that "muscular" shave their chest/stomach? How about their arms? Thanks!

I guess it depends on the guy and what he is most comfortable with. I don't like guys chest to be too hair, but it's alright if there is a little bit of hair. I love a happy trail; it's totally sexy. Other then that, I think arms and leg shouldn't be shaved. ♥

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16/f. my boobs feel a little sore. does this mean they are growing?

Yes, that is why they could be sore. You don't stop growing until you're at least 18. It could also be a sign that you're pregnant or your period is coming. ♥

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