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Ok, My friend is having Major issues. Like she goes with this boy and like, he is always at his cousins house. Well she was online talking to him but it really wasnt and she thought it was cuz she asked him out and he said yeah. Well she talked to him and he said he was never at his cousins house. But he tells her he likes her. But he doesnt tell her how he feels he just said because he does. And his friend said he thinks he is playing games. She needz help yall..Pleaz help cuz I dont know what to say to her?

-Stephanie

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Hopefully I'm getting this. She asked him out over the internet, but he said it wasn't him at his cousin's house, yet he's always at his cousin's house. And he's He said he likes her. His friend said he's just messing with her. Is his friend also her friend? You never can tell about people until it's too late. Is his friend trustworthy? If things don't add up about the guy she likes, I'd advise her to stay away. But if she feels he's someone she can trust, then I'd advise her to ask him out. It's clear that someone is messing with her, but I'm not sure who. If I were her I wouldn't trust them.


I wrote the poem which is in one of the previous posts entitled "Everytime" . I was feeling rather depressed today , and so i wrote another poem . Tell me what you think about it ....
Bt\ , to all those who asked ,
i'm 13 going on 14 .


You

I thought that I was contented
I thought I knew you
But that was just an illusion
You took me for a fool

All this pain that I went through
Did I ever mean anything to you ?
All those times I cried
Why weren’t you by my side?

So many nights I spent ,
Sitting by the phone
Just hoping you would call
I was so alone

You told me that you loved me
But why couldn't you look me in the eye ?
I guess this was what made me see
That i was living a lie ..


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good. Especially for your age. I used to write a lot of poems when I was your age. I write songs now for my band. Good poem though, I liked it.


YOU ASKED MY FRIENDS SIS HEIGHT AND her height is 4.8 so should she loose weight (link)
That's not too much. I don't think she needs to loose any.


We are advicenators, Elle and Lizzy, and we really like your collumn. Pleez, either email us by the collumn or Singer_4_life89@hotmail.com for lizzy or *******@fuse.com for elle. How old are you? (link)
Uhhhh? Thanks, I'm 19.


hopefully i can make this as short as possible, so here we go (by the way i am a male and am 15 years old, going to be a sophmore next year); the person i like to portray myself to be is a really nice and caring guy who is what some people would call not as much a guy as guys are, but anyways, there is this girl who is really really nice, and really really fun and energetic, she is always "bouncing off the walls" and also has a great sense of humor and is really fun to be around, i really enjoy being around her. here is some more information: i didnt know how to let her know how i felt about her, because i look up to her as a rolemodel as the person i want to be like, funny, smart, and just plain fun and not perverted or anything, like she never curses or says sick jokes or anything like that, so anyways, one day after school i stopped her and told her that i thought she was really cool and she in turn said the same thing to me, and i told her that i never thought i would meet anyone else like her. to finish off the information- i am moving in about 3 weeks, leaving state going off to somewhere else because of parent complications and what not, and now i just want to get to know her better; she did give me her email, but knowing her she doesnt check it except every month or so, so that it does not get deleted, because it is a hotmail account, so if i am lucky she will see the email i sent to her asking her if she would want to go for a walk and talk sometime so we can get to know each other better, but i dont think that will work. so anyways, here is my question- i want to find a way to ask her to do something with me (and by the way she doesn't want to date anyone or get into a relationship, that is why i want to ask her on a walk), but i dont know what to ask her to do, i thought of asking her for i walk, so we can talk more, because i want to get to know her better, so i dont know what to ask her, and second of all i dont know how to contact her, so far i have just been waiting to see if she will reply to my email, but i dont think she will, so i want another way to ask her, and i am not so sure about calling her house or knocking on her door and asking her that way, i only have 3 weeks left before i am gone and will not be able to see her again, so i just want some advice (and by the way she doesnt use chats either), so i would really appreciate it if someone could send me some advice, thanks a whole bunch if you do! (link)
Try not to get too attached considering your moving in a few weeks. It's always harder. But, give her a call, leave a message telling her to call you back if she's not home. Something simple.


this is kristi.. i wrote about ricky awhile ago... well i wrote him a letter and gave it to him on the last day of skool.. i know kinda lame but hey at least i gave it to him. well it said that i liked him and that we should hang out this summer then i put my number at the bottom... well he called me THAT NIGHT. we talked bout everything BUT the letter, but we found out that were going to hawaii... same island and everything at the same time so we r gonna meet up there to hang out.. how perfect huh? well does that mean anything that he called me that nite when i said call me this SUMMER?
luv kristi (link)
unless he's really bored or lonely, he likes you. If he didn't, he'd just throw away the letter and never call you. If he only like you for a friend, he probably wouldn't have called that night.


I don't know how this is possible, a while ago, i was crazy for pinapples. I'm still in a while ago though, so i'm still addicted. A cop caught me for eating and driving with pineapples and he recommended me to go to pineapple rehab, i don't know why he said that, is there really a pineapple rehabilitation center.
Piney Woman (link)
Nope, but you really should stop eating pine apples and driving. And eating too much of one thing is never good. Then again, I don't see how pine apples can ever damage your health.


my friends sis is 11 and she weighs 102lbs she want to know if she should loose weight or if she is good for her age. (link)
How tall is she. That weight is just fine, she doesn't need to lose any.


Everytime

Everytime you ignore me , my heart shatters
Everytime I see you with Her , I break inside
Everytime you treat me just like a little girl , I feel disappointed in you
You treat me like a game

I’ve sacrificed so much just to be seen worthy in your eyes
Why can’t you do the same ?

I can’t take it anymore ,
I try to break away ,
But I stay firmly bonded to you ,
You’re torturing me more and more each day

Everytime I smile you you ,
You just turn away ,
If you never loved me ,
Why did you have to play ?

Did you ever consider what I thought
Can’t you tell you just threw my heart away
What do you have to say for yourself
Because it’s your fault

I can’t take it anymore ,
I try to break away ,
But I stay firmly bonded to you ,
You’re torturing me more and more each day


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How old are you? It would help my criticism. Based on what I've read here, it's pretty good.


There's this guy i have a huge crush on ,
and reccently , he has been sending me vibes that he isn't interested in me , which is the opposite of what he was sending me a week ago . He basically ignored me !
To tell the truth , i feel hurt . I suppose i was exaggerating a little , but i have written this poem which is in the topic "Education-Writing" Called Everytime . Read it and i guess you will understand how i feel now .
What should i do ?
Please help .
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I'm going though something similar. I'm trying to get over a girl who is dating someone else. It's very complicated,so I won't bore you with details. All you need to know is that I've had a crush on her for around 15 years, and she's been telling me that she never dates anyone, but then she turns around and starts dating this younger guy (Younger than her) and broke my heart. I'm assuming her telling me she never dates was her way of letting me down gently, eventhough it felt worse in the end. This isn't the first time I've felt this way either. What I normally do is try to spend as less time with her as possible. I go through 5 stages every time I get over someone. Similar to the stages of death.


stage 1: Denial. I convince myself that she may feel differently later, or she may feel differently now, she's just too nervous to tell me.

Stage 2: Depression. I feel miserable for weeks thinking about her while at the same time lowering my self esteem.

Stage 3: Anger. I start to get frustrated with her because she either doesn't feel the same way, or dates someone else.

Stage 4: Acceptance. i accect the fact that we will never be together, and I start to move on.

Stage 5: I fall for someone else.


Personally, I think you should ask him how he feels. If he says he doesn't feel the same way, then you can start to get over him.

Nice poem. I also write poems, and I have written several about the girls I love but can't have


i was with this guy and he broke up with me and i still have feelings for him and im in summer school so is he in class he is always starring at me and talk to me a whole lot more than he did when we were together how do i find out if he still has fellings for me if im to shy to ask. i am 15and a half (link)
He does. He stares at you and talks to you more than ever. I wouldn't bring up getting back together though, he should be the one considering he's the one who ended the relationship.


ok im bisex and so is my girl/f ((ima girl)) and we were at the movies and when ppl ask if were together we always say yes well this guy asked us if we were bi or sumpin and i was bout to say yes and shes like ha no this is just my friend and she sat by him and made out wit him and i dont no what to do!! (link)
She doesn't sound like she cares for you too much if she would just make out with some guy whom you two have just met. Tell her how much this bothers you.


what do u do when ur best/f wants to kill herself and u cant do anything about it bc u dont live any where near her any more?


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Find some way of getting to her or talking to her. If she told you, it sounds like a cry for attention or help. If I REALLY wanted to kill myself, I wouldn't burden anyone by telling them. That's not to say that she won't get depressed enough to actually follow through. She's calling for help, try to help her.


okay i am a 14 year old male. i met this girl over the internet and i think she likes me because she drops little hints like calls me babe, or calls me sexy, or said she has a dream about me. from what she says she seemed really nice.well we talk about three hours a day. today she asked me out. i like her but that seems a little wierd to go out on the internet. what do i say if i really like her (link)
Well, your only 14, so chances of ever seeing her are slim. There's no way the relationship would work, so I wouldn't lead her on if you really like her. Just tell her something like,"I like you a lot, but there's no way I could stand dating you and never seeing you." Or something like that.


i like haven sex wit kids is that bad?!? liek 10 to 13 year olds and im 60 (link)
lol. Who do you think you're fooling?


Hey
I'm 16 years and a female.
My boyfriend and I had been together for 3 months, then last wk we broke up b/c he thought it was to much drama and we were fighting to much (which we were) but anyways the nite after that he told me he still wanted to be really close friends and always hang out and I told him I understand that but i need some time away from him so i can get over him, but i made him cry. Then a couple days ago he came over wit some of his friends and we made out (and i dont know what i was thinking )and he asked me what I wanted and i told him i wanted to b with him. Then he says well i think i wanna be with you to i just need come time to think about it. Then before he left he kissed me again and said the same thing. I dont know weather I should wait for him to make up his mind b/c i like him a lot but hes also messing wit my head and i've gotten to a point where i dont know what to do anymore. If you could give me some advice that would b great!! (link)
Yeah, wait. But don't wait for too long.


Okay .. my boyfriend and I just broke up .. but we still say I love you to eachother and stuff. As I was on the phone with one of my guy friends(he likes me) .. my cell phone rang. When me n my ex got off the phone, we said I love you to eachother and the guy friend overheard .. now he's mad at me .. what should I do? (link)
Your guy friend is being unreasonable if your just friends. Whether he likes you or not, he shouldn't get mad at you over it. If there's no chance of you and your guy friend getting together, explain how you still love your ex. If he is still mad, then he's obviously only in this friendship to date you.


ok well i have this friend and shes awesome i love her soooooooo much and like one day i was gonna IM this guy that screwed her over and mess with him and i ended up calling him and i bitched him out for a while then like somehow i started to really like talking to him and i knew if she knew she would be soooo pissed and well i told her that i had talked to him and that i wanted to keep talking to him and she got really mad and said she hated me and wouldnt talk to me for a few days then i told her id never talk to him again but i have, i talk to him on the phone every once in a while and he wants me to meet him in person but i no i shouldnt but i still like to talk to him on the phone, only if she knew i still talk to him shed prolly never talk to me again and i dunno what to do, I REALLY LIKE HIM, i know its sick, and i know i shouldnt like him cuz he really hurt my best friend but i still do and i cant help it :( what should i do????? (link)
What did he do to screw your friend over? I would stear clear of him. He screwed your friend over. He probably did the same thing to your friend that he's doing to you. Being really nice, looking for an opportunity. Setting you up just to screw you over. It sounds like he can't be trusted. I would stick by your friend. But if you really, really, really like him, you should date him. Personally, I think your risking too much if you continue to see him.


I'm a female, sexually active in about 2 days.
Ok, are you like supposed to shave it ALL off down there? Or leave a tiny bit?
I'm a bit too squeamish for a brazilian wax, so any help? (link)
Most guys don't care. I know I don't. So it's totally up to you.


Ok, my boyfriend and i just broke up .. and the thing is, I still love him to death but i have this "thing" for this other guy that i've been talking to.. I'm a freshman and the other guy is a senior .. He likes me or so he says and he's not that type of guy that wants "action" .. he's stilla virgin.. but .. what should I do? I can I handle this? (link)
I agree. If he's still a virgin, his hormones are probably driving him crazy. But it's up to you whether or not you can trust him. A lot of the time people miss their girl/boyfriend. It usually has to do with people missing the closeness. But a lot of the time, if they get back together, their relationship is doomed to end in a similar if not the exact same way.




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