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What should i do ?
There's this guy i have a huge crush on ,
and reccently , he has been sending me vibes that he isn't interested in me , which is the opposite of what he was sending me a week ago . He basically ignored me !
To tell the truth , i feel hurt . I suppose i was exaggerating a little , but i have written this poem which is in the topic "Education-Writing" Called Everytime . Read it and i guess you will understand how i feel now .
What should i do ?
Please help .
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well these may feel like good signals but in truth they can be mixed and that really isnt a good feeling so next time u see him have a talk with him nothing to stressful just something that will get his attention but careful there could be tricks to what u think is a treat. For more advice got to my advice column its lana07
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All guys do this he may have a change of heart for a long time! just go with the flow and move on
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Your poem could be a song on the top 10 charts. I wouldn't send this to him, as it seems too desperate for this stage in a NONrelationship. You've indicated that you both were checking each other out and hadn't gotten together yet. In this case, this is the type of soulful poem that is sent AFTER the breakup of a serious relationship.
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I'm going though something similar. I'm trying to get over a girl who is dating someone else. It's very complicated,so I won't bore you with details. All you need to know is that I've had a crush on her for around 15 years, and she's been telling me that she never dates anyone, but then she turns around and starts dating this younger guy (Younger than her) and broke my heart. I'm assuming her telling me she never dates was her way of letting me down gently, eventhough it felt worse in the end. This isn't the first time I've felt this way either. What I normally do is try to spend as less time with her as possible. I go through 5 stages every time I get over someone. Similar to the stages of death.
stage 1: Denial. I convince myself that she may feel differently later, or she may feel differently now, she's just too nervous to tell me.
Stage 2: Depression. I feel miserable for weeks thinking about her while at the same time lowering my self esteem.
Stage 3: Anger. I start to get frustrated with her because she either doesn't feel the same way, or dates someone else.
Stage 4: Acceptance. i accect the fact that we will never be together, and I start to move on.
Stage 5: I fall for someone else.
Personally, I think you should ask him how he feels. If he says he doesn't feel the same way, then you can start to get over him.
Nice poem. I also write poems, and I have written several about the girls I love but can't have
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