My friend's are into druds, alcohol, smoking ,ans sex. I'm just not interested in any of that stuff at all! I think it's just wrong, but my friends say it'll make me look cool, but, i don't think it will. I think it'll make me look stupid. I'm afraid of giving in, what shoul i do?
Don't let them pressure you into doing things you don't want to do. They sound fake if they want to do that stuff, just to look cool. Yeah, it would make you look stupid. It's no where being cool.
If you do any of that. People will judge you. The losers will think you're cool but that would only last for a little while. It's not even worth it, since they probably do that all the time.. It's not even cool, it's overdone and stupid.
People will just judge your intelligence. I'm sure you're really smart. You don't need any drugs or sex to make you look cool.
It just makes you look like a stupid unaware person.
Half of my friends on drugs.. struggle with work and with their addictions. Alcohol is much worse when they're drunk actions take over. There's also a rick of alcohol poisoning. Smoking is not even better.
Just believe in what you want. If they were true friends, they wouldn't pressure you into doing things you don't want to.
Just say no or you just simply don't do that shit.
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i think i might be pregnant.... my guy friend just came back from nailing his girlfriend. we got drunk and he fingered me... i dont know if he had any juice on his hands... my last period was late august... and its now halfway through november... could i be pregnant?
I dont know how we are supposed to know.
We don't know if he had clean hands or anything about your period. You could be stressed and you haven't had it.
But sperm doesn't live when its out in the air.
so I wouldn't understand why you would get pregnant, unless you took it a bit further.
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13/f
If you read my questions before.. there was more to the story, i went to my friend's school to talk to him and to comfort him about his breakup w/ my other friend. and someone told me that they heard that people was hating on me.. and i asked them who.. they said it was susan... my "friend". and i told 'em that she needs to stop talking shit. and they said that she said that i was the one who was talking shit. and im like "........." and they also said susan told 'em this "story" whatever.. and it wasn't even true.. and she didn't even know what was even happening.. it was between me & some girl named michelle and we're not friends anymore now.. cause of this guy =.= and susan said that michelle asked me for some advice because she liked this guyy, and i told someone and it spreaded around... but
IT WASN'T TRUE !
michelle didn't like this guy and the guy liked her.. and i tried to help out.. but it didn't quite work out well.. i learned my lesson, and i tried to work it out with michelle but she wouldn't let me.. she js started assuming stuff.. and my bestfriend jenny.. shes mad at me and idk why.. im begining to think that susan must've told her some lies.. >.<
online jenny & michelle was talking in this chatroom.. and my sister made my screen name, and it had something viet or whatever jenny saw me come in and said "wth? tryin to be viet.. -_-" " and michelle was like "LOL WANNABES THESE DAYS." and they were talking in canto.. and out of nowhere michelle was like "DIE BITCH DIE!(:" and jenny was winking.. >.
I honestly think you should forget about them. I mean they aren't even good friends. They wouldn't believe what someone else said.
Don't try to get Jenny back though. If she was really your best friend she wouldn't be mad at you for what somebody said. If she were your best friend she would talk to you about it.
I would "stay out of society" too. Just don't hang out with them. You should try to hang out with some new people.
Those people aren't worth trying to be friends again. If "friends" are just going to talk shit about you.. they aren't real friends. They won't believe rumors or what someone else said, they would CONFRONT you about it.
Some people just have a way of words and making people believe their lies. They just want all the attention and everyone to like them. It's just how things are.
But if you really want Jenny back, then talk to her.
If you explain to her what happened and everything.. maybe it would change.. But sometimes people change.. and she might not be nice.
I think it's better off forgetting them.
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I didn't know what subject to put this under so yeah. I have to go to the ob-gyn and i shave already down there but I don't know if i should shave or not before I go to see her. I don't want to look stupid or for her to be like eww you're hairy or dang you shaved too much. I know she's mature about it and won't say anything, but I don't want her to be thinking this.
Just do what you want. If you like to be "clean" then don't shave. she's going think something anyway. Just don't think about it. She probably won't because you'll just be another person in her office, you know?
People always have opinions about others so there's not much you can do.
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this might sound dumb but im not from the US so dont know what a freshman or somophore is...can anyone help me out!!?? do you have any other names also?
many thanks
In high school..
A freshman is.. the name for 9th graders.
The other one is for 10 graders.
Juniors-11 grade
Senior - 12 grade
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My boyfriend always gives me hickeys and always askes me why I don't give them to him. The truth is, I don't know how. So how do I give someone a hickey?
You can start off by kissing their neck then you suck onto it.
Try sucking onto your hand. Some skin could be pulled up or something.
You just do that, nibble and/or kiss..so he may feel other sensations. Sooner or later his neck will get red.
It's kind of hard to explain..
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is it normal that i am like DESPERATE for a bf? i mean i would take any guy that had a good personality. i just want something real and a commitment. Is this normal or no. If he ain't gonna give me the real deal though i'd rather have no one......what's your opinions on this?
Yeah.. almost every girl goes through that. But don't just pick any guy though. You should get to know him before. You may think he's nice but in a relationship things could change. Just think about it before getting with a guy.
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my crush found out i liked him today. (nobody likes him really...i like his personality) he says "he want's to stay single" What does this mean? does this mean he is telling me no....or that maybe later on???
Yeah it could mean he's not interested. But he's just saying he wants to stay single though.
Maybe he doesn't want a relationship. Maybe he's not ready ? You don't really know.
It could mean.. that he wants a relationship later but being single is what he wants now.
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ok this question might seem a bit weird. when i do my hair in the morning, i usually straighten it & wear it down. basically, by like 11 i have to put it up. it annoys me so much. i just can't write and have it down because my hair is thick and i have a lot of it. i put it up in one of those cute little messy buns but i dont know. for some reason i think its prettier to wear it down & if i wear it up i feel boyish. im basically just wondering what your opinion is. should girls just wear their hair down all the time?? or is it pretty to wear it up too??
thanks!!
No I don't think girls should wear their hair down allll the time. Some people ..it doesn't really flatter them.
If your hair bothers you. Maybe clip back some parts in the front and put it in a big clip behind. I'm not sure how to explain it.. It might get out of your way?
The messy buns look really cute! It's pretty to wear it up, if it isn't an ordinary ponytail, you know? Unless you have some ribbons in your hair maybe.
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13/f 8th grade
all the guy at my school go for looks in a girl....that's it! that is sooo wrong! as they get older will they change and start realizing that looks don't matter....or will they always be like that?
High school is a bit different..
It is wrong but we can't change guys. People are shallow anyway.
Some guys do change and go for personality first (Looks are a plus)
because they don't want a "stupid blonde"
But some guys really don't change. They want a beautiful girl and sometimes they don't realize that everyone looks different
Some just really care about the body but in reality, no girl is that fit. The "woman of their dreams" won't come true until you're a lot older.
So don't take guys or relationships seriously.
Guys are immature.
You'll find a good guy some day though. They're so hard to find..
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first of all i am a freshman and the guy is a senior. ok my frinds say that this guy likes me because they say that he always stares at me i am so confused please help!!!!!!!!!!!
Guys always stare though. It doesn't necessary mean he likes you.
But yeah, can't really give you advice.
You probably won't be able to judge his looks. Guys are just weird like that. A smile could mean anything.
If he likes you, he would make a move on you.
If he doesn't like you and your friends are just saying that.. and you try to make a move.. you might embarrass yourself. So yeah.
You can always go up to the guy and say hi or something.
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can someone please tell me where on the net I can find a diagram of how to do 69???? I've looked but can't find anything. Please don't give porn sites I'd just like a drawing/diagram, thanks.
Right here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/69_sex_position
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umm, i dont really understand what the
magna carta is. could someone describe
the scene of it, what happened, who was
a part of it, and what was said there??
i think that will help me understand more.
if you can only answer 1 or 2 of the questions
thats okay. i just really need it explained!
websites are only okay if they are extremely
easy to understand and you could sum them up for me
--thanks
The Magna Carta is an English charter(document).
An army of barons forced King John of England to sign the Magna Carta at Runnymede in 1215.
The king abused his power. He oppressed his subjects and angered the barons by increasing taxes and demanding many soldiers for his military campaigns abroad.
The document had 63 clauses [rule]
-It established the principle that the king OR queen must obey the law.
~The barons were tired of the king's military campaigns and heavy taxes.
-The purpose of the document was the LIMIT THE POWER OF MONARCH and to secure rights such as:
trial by jury
due process of law
and protection AGAINST people with power -
taking of life, liberty or property.
Some laws:
The king can't decide things on his own. He needs the GENERAL COUNCIL to have a meeting on a certain day. The king has to give them time to arrive so they all can be there to vote and keep laws passing.
A person can't be imprisoned or banished/killed UNLESS by the lawful judgement of his peers (JURY) or by the law of the land
No bribing to get out of court.
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The goal was to limit the King's power and give rights and more freedom for the people.
IF YOU NEED MORE HELP ON SOMETHING SPECIFIC. JUST ASK. :] I can go through my notebook.
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I recently posted a question about:My friend is Pregnant and I have feelings for her??? If i tell her can it damage the relationship or should i just take a chance and tell her? She is a really nice person and I don't want her to get the wrong ideas. Like i am helping her only for a relationship. I am nervous but I feel she has a right to know.
You should tell her.. over the time you have known her.. you have developed feelings for her. I'm sure she likes you too.
You should also mention that.. you're not helping her just for a relationship or anything, because she seems really nice and you want to help her.
But be prepared if things don't go the way you want.
If you think she has a right to know, then go tell her over lunch or something.
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This may sound really dumb but I get really nervous just before I see my boyfriend. Like I start shivering and not feeling hungry or sick and I get a weird feeling in my stomach. I usually have to pretend to my bf that I'm cold so I'm shivering. If someone asks my a question my voice trembles ans I have to swallow about 3 times during the time I'm talking. I hate it, it feels awful and I really want to be able to see him without feeling so nervous and edgy all the time. Please, does anyone know what this is and how I can fix it???
Thanks
You must really like this guy. You're just nervous. I got that feeling too, it went away after a few days/weeks. You need some time to get used to him.
But remember, the whole "I'm cold" excuse isn't going to work for long.
Just tell him that you're nervous or shy around him. I'm sure he would understand.
Just take a few breaths and try to relax, before you know it.. you'll feel a bit more comfortable around him.
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14/F
please help! okay so 2 nights ago i masturbated for the second time and again felt absolutley nothing. i mean i felt it but it didnt feel good or bad it didnt feel like anything. i stuck my finger up there and nothing happened. whats wrong with me!!
my way of masturbating really taht feels good is making a fist and doing a hitting pounding motion on my bladder lower area. it feels really good.
whats wrong with me. any ideas why i cant feel anything and why the "hitting pounding" feels good!!!!!
Well you just don't get turned on by that way. I think later when you have sex you probably will. Some girls just don't feel anything by doing that and sadly, it's normal. You just have to find some other way.
I'm sure the pounding thing you're doing.. is hitting your clitoris.
So just masturbate that way.
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If you can't go to someone's birthday party, should you still give them a small gift? The girl that invited me to her party is a classmate.
It really depends if you want to or not. I think it would be nice but if she's really not a friend (just a classmate) you dont HAVE to.
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I AM LIKE FREAKING OUT RIGHT NOW! Last week I was 120 exactly, and all of the sudden I weighed myself and I am 129! I am on my period so I dont know if that affects anything, but I am about to go on an exteme diet. Does anyone know why this happened all of the sudden? 14/f, Im not pregnant or anything like that..
It's just 9 little pounds. No big deal!
You gain water on your period.
Extreme diet might make you gain more weight.
You should continue eating whatever you eat. Some foods make you gain more weight.
And yeah
weigh yourself in the morning. that's your real weight.
don't weigh yourself at night. you weigh more at night then at morning.
don't weigh yourself every other day. you will just get upset over slight weight gains.. when it's perfectly normal.
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i decided i want to makeout with someone before 8th grade. but i need some pointer on how to. like do you open and close you mouth? and do you put your hands? i am so confusedd. thanks in advance!
Yeah don't rush into it. If you do that, the guy might take it the wrong way and that you would be willing to go much further.
It should just happen. You just kiss, it comes naturally.. If you don't think so, you just wait and see.
If you're nervous.. of course you're going to think about every move you make and you might freeze up. Just be comfortable and follow what the guy is doing. Don't let him do something that you don't want him to do.
Just kiss, press your lips against his and open and kiss back.
You'll know where to put your hands. You can keep them by your sides.. even though that's not really good.
You could put them around his neck or run your fingers through his hair.
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no guy has ever really seen my boobs, even though many have asked. i'm afraid guys will think 'ew that girl has ugly boobs' or something. i dont know-i'm very self concious. like is therea a certain way boobs should look? thanks.
There's really no certain look. They are all different for everyone and even in color. If you don't feel comfortable with it, then I don't see why you have to let them see. Just wait until you feel better about it.
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