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If you read my questions before.. there was more to the story, i went to my friend's school to talk to him and to comfort him about his breakup w/ my other friend. and someone told me that they heard that people was hating on me.. and i asked them who.. they said it was susan... my "friend". and i told 'em that she needs to stop talking shit. and they said that she said that i was the one who was talking shit. and im like "........." and they also said susan told 'em this "story" whatever.. and it wasn't even true.. and she didn't even know what was even happening.. it was between me & some girl named michelle and we're not friends anymore now.. cause of this guy =.= and susan said that michelle asked me for some advice because she liked this guyy, and i told someone and it spreaded around... but
IT WASN'T TRUE !
michelle didn't like this guy and the guy liked her.. and i tried to help out.. but it didn't quite work out well.. i learned my lesson, and i tried to work it out with michelle but she wouldn't let me.. she js started assuming stuff.. and my bestfriend jenny.. shes mad at me and idk why.. im begining to think that susan must've told her some lies.. >.<
online jenny & michelle was talking in this chatroom.. and my sister made my screen name, and it had something viet or whatever jenny saw me come in and said "wth? tryin to be viet.. -_-" " and michelle was like "LOL WANNABES THESE DAYS." and they were talking in canto.. and out of nowhere michelle was like "DIE BITCH DIE!(:" and jenny was winking.. >.<"
idk what i did to deserve this from susan..
1. i was probably her first friend cause michelle used her when she was little and told me to tell her that she couldn't hang out with us anymore, and she ran off crying and i was the only one who ran after her.
2. i didn't talk behind her back
3. i bought he stuff and tried to be nice
4. i supported her and did all i can to be a good friend..
she didn't do anything good for me.. but she js ran off saying stuff.. does she want to destroy my life ? im being hated on now.. all i did was try to help and work things out.. with michelle and susan doesn't even know the story js started assuming stuff.
what susan did:
1. she talked shit since we were little.
2. she went out w/ my ex.. and i really liked him that why i didn't want anyone going out with him.. but she js did it.. without talking to me about it, and i had to find out by myself.
3. she doesn't appreciate anything i did for her.
etc. a whole lot more.
i really want all my friends backk.. js not susan .. susan was probably never my friend, and michelle theres probably no way to go backk.i js want jenny back.. shes one of the people that keeps me happy. =\ shes my bestfriend..♥
my sister says that i should stay out of society for a while, but im not sure how is that gonna work out..
SOMEBODYY HELP ME.. TELL ME WHAT TO DO, SOMETHING ! my life is falling apart.. <|3
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I don't think you should be friends with Susan or Michelle. After everything cools down, you'll probably be able to tolerate each other, but you can spend your time hanging out with better people than them. Which friend was the guy dating? One of the names you mentioned or another friend? I'm not sure I entirely understand the situation, so sorry if I am wrong with my assumptions. If I am, correct me in your feedback and I will change my answer to better fit what actually happened. That said, if the guy had been dating any of the three you mentioned by name, you should have thought twice about going to comfort him. Since you did, your female friend probably feels like you are on his side, not hers. Like you betrayed her or something. Even though you didn't pick a side and were just being a good friend, that is how she might see it. So then of course rumors and insults will be passed all around because she would feel hurt and would want to lash out at you. As much as this whole thing is not your fault in any way, I think that if you apologize to them it may help a little. Tell them why you did what you did and that you support them and are their friend just as much as anyone. Say sorry for not asking them if it was ok if you could go and talk to him. Try to do it one at a time instead of when they are all together, they could team up on you if you didn't. Talk to Jenny first. If you can get her to be civil maybe she will help you out with the other two. If they won't be convinced, then it really doesn't matter. They are real witches. Put your focus on Jenny for now. If nothing works, take your sister's advice and wait it out. Things will get better with a little time. It's not going to be like this forever. They will calm down and hopefully everything will go back to normal. Good luck! :)
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I honestly think you should forget about them. I mean they aren't even good friends. They wouldn't believe what someone else said.
Don't try to get Jenny back though. If she was really your best friend she wouldn't be mad at you for what somebody said. If she were your best friend she would talk to you about it.
I would "stay out of society" too. Just don't hang out with them. You should try to hang out with some new people.
Those people aren't worth trying to be friends again. If "friends" are just going to talk shit about you.. they aren't real friends. They won't believe rumors or what someone else said, they would CONFRONT you about it.
Some people just have a way of words and making people believe their lies. They just want all the attention and everyone to like them. It's just how things are.
But if you really want Jenny back, then talk to her.
If you explain to her what happened and everything.. maybe it would change.. But sometimes people change.. and she might not be nice.
I think it's better off forgetting them.
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