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is it normal?
is it normal that i am like DESPERATE for a bf? i mean i would take any guy that had a good personality. i just want something real and a commitment. Is this normal or no. If he ain't gonna give me the real deal though i'd rather have no one......what's your opinions on this?
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Usaully desperation is caused by a lot of peer pressure. Maybe all of your friends are going on double dates, and you feel left out? But mostly its caused by peer pressure. Don't act desperate though, because then the boys will be like..." she's just gonna use me" , or "she doesnt really like me". also, desperation can be caused by insecuraties, about your life, family, etc. but i doubt that is the case. so just be yourself and have fun!
hope i helped!
-Woahhh
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Desperation attracts a different sort than interest. Honest opinion? You arent going to attract the kind of guy you want if you are desperate, and it shows.
Also, desperation means things get rushed. Anyone who rushes into a committed relationship is a fool, and things like that only work out if the two people just happen to be amazingly compatible.
The usual result is one of you feeling suffocated by the other and leaving.
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This is perfectly normal. Almost every single girl goes through this, I have several times at one point, and I've seen my friends go through this, and some of them still are.
Girls are always wanting a nice relationship and wanting that caring feeling whereas it takes awhile longer for boys to get the hint and take action and become romnatic like that, so it DOES get tiring waiting around, doesn't it? Haha. I too at times have just felt like,"Ugh, seriously. The next guy who pays me a compliment, I'll marry."
That's good though that you're wanting the real deal and a good healthy commitment, but I wouldn't just turn them down if that's not what they're looking for. Have some fun, meet differnet types of guys and see what types you prefer so whenever you do meet a really great guy, you'll know it's for him and his personality, not for desperateness. And with some guys he may just want a little casual dating at first, but it can develop into wanting a real time relationship, you never know, so give some other guys a shot and go out on some dates, and like I said, have a great time. You deserve it. And trust me, the real deal will come along, and it'll be great and worth the wait.
I hope I helped.
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Yeah.. almost every girl goes through that. But don't just pick any guy though. You should get to know him before. You may think he's nice but in a relationship things could change. Just think about it before getting with a guy.
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Yeah, it's definitely normal to feel that way, especially as teenager. However, don't let your feelings control your actions. If you feel desperate for a boyfriend you will be more driven to make dumb, hasty choices. Keep a level head and you'll be just fine. Good luck. :)
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