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heart broken yet happy
i asked my guy best friend out like, 2 weeks ago. he said no. he said that our friendship is more important than a relationship and that it lasts longer. i agree, but i really think that our friendship could've survived it. but it's all over now. we didn't talk anytime in between me asking him out til the day he said no to me. that afternoon, at skool, [it was a friday], while we were waiting for our ride, he came up to me and started talking to me as if nothing had happened before that. i was happy that we got talking to each other again, but at times i feel like maybe he's just talking to me because he feels sorry that he hasn't been talking to me a while before that. but after that day, everything's been normal between us, even though i still feel the awkward-ness between us. don't get me wrong, i'm happy we're talking and hanging out again, but there's still times when i feel sad that he said no, and i really wanted to see if our relationship would work. i don't wanna feel like this, because i'm afraid i might blurt something out to him and make it more awkward. so i was wondering if yu had any advice on what i should do to just kinda keep all that in the back of my mind. because i don't wanna be talking to him and thinking about how much he broke my heart. please help!
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Tough one, normally it's the other way around. The best thing to do, in my opinion, is talking to him. Tell him that you're convinced the friendship would survive even if you two ever broke up. If it doesn't help changing his mind, you'll just have to accept it. You might want to take some distance for a little while to get over him a bit. If you do, you should tell him though, I'm sure he'll respect that.
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