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will they ever change
13/f 8th grade
all the guy at my school go for looks in a girl....that's it! that is sooo wrong! as they get older will they change and start realizing that looks don't matter....or will they always be like that?
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eventually this should change. when going through highschool, all the boys want the "hott girlfriends." they mostly want them just for impressing people. when they get through high school though, they will begin to realize who their real loves are and who wont do anything for them!
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looks can matter. a lot of people do look for looks but there are some who dont. It depends. some guys amture and some guys dont. i personally hate guys who just look for looks. its stupid. Most smart guys, will look into your inner self and decide. Not just looks. Because looks will get you no where in a relationship but personality will. They should soon notice :]
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Some will change and some won't. Regardless of how attractive you are, you want the ones that change. There is something incredibly shallow about a man who dates on looks alone. Besides, looks fade. Wouldn't you rather be with someone who loves your sense of humor, intelligence, and spark - not just your face?
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It depends really, on the guy.
As guys do get older they do start to mature alot more and realize they shouldn't just like a girl for their looks and that they'll like them for more than that.
But sadly, some guys don't. They still are immature and find girls they only want and like for thier looks, and their looks only.
Don't worry, you're 13 and that's when alot of boys are still going to highly immature, so just wait around. Hopefully whenever they notice no girls are paying attention to them cause they're being annoying jerks, they'll catch the hint and try and mature up.
So like I said, I can't really tell you. It all depends on the person and how much they're willing to grow up. There's still alot of guys in my high school that are just so annoying and immature, but then there's some really great, nice, funny & mature guys that are really great pontential boyfriends. So don't worry, it'll happen!
I hope I hope I helped.
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High school is a bit different..
It is wrong but we can't change guys. People are shallow anyway.
Some guys do change and go for personality first (Looks are a plus)
because they don't want a "stupid blonde"
But some guys really don't change. They want a beautiful girl and sometimes they don't realize that everyone looks different
Some just really care about the body but in reality, no girl is that fit. The "woman of their dreams" won't come true until you're a lot older.
So don't take guys or relationships seriously.
Guys are immature.
You'll find a good guy some day though. They're so hard to find..
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Guys plus Looks equals immaturity.
Its a simple equation we are taught in life.
Guys feel the outside is a preview of whats
instore, a pretty girl is a pretty girl inside.
Essentualy, those guys who are actually worth your heart come along. Those guys do realize looks are not absolutley everything. Other guys will be jerks for life. Those guys are usually the popular jocks who get everything they want then one day end up broke, homeless, and without a spouse.
If you wish, enhance your look by "Sprucing"
it up. Try a new makeup, hairstyle, or clothing style. Keep `em guessing.
Other then that, wait for the boys to grow up.
*Sighs* if they ever do.
Good Luck <3
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looks do matter...but it shouldn't be what matters most. girls mature much faster than boys.boys are much easily influenced by the media. i can't tell you for a fact that all of the boys in your school will grow up and mature and realize the good qualities in a girl besides look. just be their friend and be patient.most of them should in maybe a couple more years.they won't always be like that.
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Well, there are always going to be guys like that, no matter what. But luckily, there are also lots of guys who look for more than just looks in a girl.
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