HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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is it true that if you drink while you eat it makes your stomach bigger? like more 'un-flat'? (link)
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does anyone have some good songs from linkin park? i just need the names of the songs
thx (link)
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breaking the habit,crawling,in the end,papercut
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i always feel so ugly my friends are gorgeous and have boyfriends no matter what i always feel left out or outta place what do i do to gain self respect and a more pretty appearance (link)
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we all have times when we feel ugly in a way but all we lack is a change. get a ToTaLl mAkEoVeR!!!do your eyebrows,shave,get a new haircut with highlights buy some hot new clothes and new makeup and youll feel like a million dollars!
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My 12 year old son has been bullied by a boy in our neighborhood for several years now. My son has a lot of friends, but of course all his friends are around his age and scared of the bully.
The bully (Gary) is 15. A few years ago my husband and I talked to Gary's parents, because he stole a toy from my son on the school bus. Gary claimed not to have the toy, and his parents protected him--and said we were in the wrong. This only child is perfect according to them. I have given up on going to the parents. The attitude of the police is "boys will be boys" (we live in a small town).
I caught Gary in the act a couple of weeks ago. He jumped on, and broke a ramp that my son and his friends built for their bikes. I told him he was acting like a 6 year old, and that someday someone bigger and meaner will come along and "take him out". He rode off on his bike in a hurry! However now he harasses my son about telling "Mommy". Last night he threw big rocks at my son's bike, causing some damage to paint. Apparently it even makes things worse if I interfear. Usually I do leave it to my son to settle disagreements, but this boy has crossed the line.
My 21 year old son, is 6'4, 240 lbs but If I use him to intimidate the 15 year old, this would be no different than a 15 year old picking on a 12 year old. Although...I doubt Gary has paid much attention to big brother. He'd probably be scared of him, we all know Gary is a coward in disguise.
My son does not want to walk away, because this means he would have to leave his other friends behind, plus he wants to "look tough" Any tips on dealing with a neighborhood bully? (link)
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i think you should either let your son and his freinds gang up on this dude and beat him up(and when his parents ask deny it like they did) or let your older son beat him up although hes older what goes around comes around and since he bullys someone younger then him then he needs a taste of his own medicine when my lil bro gets bullied or anyone as much as BOTHERS him i go beat them up or bully them hope i helped
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i have this really embaressing problem with underarm sweating. i've always had this problem ever since i started puberty and my sweat glands started, for lack of a better word at the moment, working. now, it seems like i start sweating at random times. heat isn't even a factor, somtimes i sweat after i come out of the shower or a few minutes after i wake up, even if i haven't done anything physical. what's happening to me? and how can i get rid of this problem? please don't tell me to buy those expensive sweat reducing chemical things because i can't afford it. thank you (link)
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simply just SHAVE your armpit hair its probably whats causing you to sweat
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i have to get into shape.....this guy i loke is so cute and i want him..and i just wanna make sure my belly is flat...cuz i am not fat i just wanna get nice so he will notice me...but i am 115 lbs. and i am like 5 feet 1 inch
but please help me find ways to get him...cuz he likes me and i like him....and if this helps i go to water polo and swim training everday
and i play soccer and cross country
so i am fit!!
thanks
meghan (link)
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if you want a flat stomache do a lot of sit ups each day(like 150) its hard but youll get great results and never drink while your eating itll make your stomache big.well to get this guy alwauys look your best (make sure you shave,and get rid of extra eyebrow hairs and moustache if u have one) and dont have on too much makeup or hell think youre fake!!dress nice but not TOO exposed(keep him guessing!)good luck i hope this helps
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my best friend just told me shes bi. i always kind of thought that because she always tries stuff with me and our friends. it makes us uncomfortable and we always tell her to stop. but now she told me that me and another one of our friends turned her bi...and its creeping me out. i dont want to be a bad friend and stop talking to her, especially because we have to spend the next week together at camp, but after that i'm probably going to hang out with her less. i'm not trying to be rude and judge her, but that just really freaks me out. please dont tell me i am being a bad friend, because thats not what im asking. i need to no how i can make it seem less weird when im around her for the next week at camp, and how i can not talk to her as much after camp without it being obvious that the reason is because she is bi. and also my whole family thinks shes annoying and i do too, and although she is one of my best friends i have always thought about maybe trying to make more friends in high school next year and not really talking to her that much anymore. so it wouldnt be a big deal if we werent as great of friends i think. sorry if that sounds mean. but please help me!!! thanks. btw im 14/f (link)
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just play it cool and chill unless she does anythiing you dont like you need to tell her if she wants to be bi she can be bi but not to try to convince you into doing anything you dont wanna do
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ok my friend and her boyfriend have on & off for about a year, and they both lost ther verginity to each other. But after they started having sex he only talk to her when he wants to have sex. And when she tells him that she loves him he never say it back. Hdoesn't even call her his girlfriend and everytime she brings up love or anything like that he gets pissed at her. the only time he is not mad at her is when she is not around or when there having sex. I don't have the heart to tell her this but I think he might be useing ehr for sex. What do you think, any help i would really love!
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i think this dude is playing with your freind here he doesnt love her obviously and never even said it.hes totally using her for sex because he KNOWS she loves him and will do anything to please him and this is not making him love her!you need to tell your freind to break up with this guy because hell only get her to a heartbreak
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Well my dad died a few years back, and my mom has been depressed and lonely ever since. She tells me all the time that it's hopeless for her to find a single guy her age anymore (45, but she doesn't near look it). Just last night she said to me, 'Honey, I'm lonely,'. And it broke my heart, because she loved my dad, but she hasn't found anyone. She has tried online dating and that wasn't her thing. What are some of your ideas for my mom to meet men? Thank you so much for your help! (link)
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why doesnt she conseder going to a sports club or something like that? im sure there shell meet new ppl
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ok so my parents got a devoice 7 years ago. and last year my dad got married. my step mom WAS cool but now shes annoying. i get in trouble for the *dumbest* things when she asks me a question and i dont give her every single detail then she yells and cuses. and she spys on me and my step sister to see what where saying. and we cant shut our door they said they where gonna take it down.i dont get any privecy. HELP (link)
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i think you should try to tell your dad how you feel and make him talk to her or you can talk to her yourself tell her that SHES the one thats new to this family and SHES the one who should be repecting you not her and ask her to treat you the way she wants to be treated
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hey everyone... well i need help... well my mom doesn't trust me at all anymore!!! its because i lie to her alot!!! i've tried to stop!!! but its rea;;y hard... && i do things behind her back like talk to guys... and she doesn't want me doing that either!!! so how should i get her trust back? (link)
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you shouldnt have betrayed her trust in the first place to get her trust back i think you should make her happy by not doing the things she asks you not to do
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i dont know but i alwayz wantt 2 hav sex its lk i cant controll myself or somethin i think & talk abuot it all da time even when i know i shouldnt lk wit guy friends or somethin do u think i hav problem? (link)
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its ok to talk and think about it but i think you should wait till you really ARE ready and dont do anything you are gonna regret later on in your future and i think its a lil inapropriate to talk to guys about it because they can get it the wrong way
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I don't want to offend anyone with my questions but theres just so much that doesnt make sense about god and religion. i really do want to believe but i dont understand somethings and it makes me think god cant exist becaus of these things that dont add up.
firstly evolution. humans evolved from apes, there's been loads of scienctific evidence and documentries about it and you learn about it in science. But the bible says adam and eve were the first man and woman, so according to religion evolution cant have existed, well not in humans anyway.
If god is so great and loves us all, why does he make people suffer? i mean even highly religion people. the pope sufferd loads before he died and he's about as religios as people get, so why would god make him suffer?
Also, if god is so great and loves us all, why does he send people to hell? i know some deserve it but surely he wouldnt want anyone to be sent to hell for eternity?
This last point is not something i thought of, it's something that was talked about on the radio but it makes you think. There are lots of religions, but if any, only 1 must be true and the rest of them are lies. people must have made some religions up because some say theres only 1 god, some religions have many gods and all different types of beliefs, so they cant all be true. i hope someone can help me, because its so confusing and i honestly do want to believe.
sorry, if i offended anyone, i really dont want to. its just so confusing.
thank you x (link)
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i just hope you get to read this there was this story i knew about an example to religion there was this hair salon and a guy in it getting his hair cutt and was talking to the hair stylest when the hair stylest said you know what after all of the problems in this world i dont believe in god if he loved us why is there so much corruption throughout this world? the guy replied by this world is corrupted because we donot seek god or come closer to him we are always lying,stealing,cheating we are the ones who made this world corrupted and its still gonna get worse.the guy finished and was about to leave the hair salon when he saw a old man sitting in front of the salon in a corner far away and had an idea.he asked the hair stylest why are there so much hairy ppl in the street??arent you the hair stylest?your suppoesd to help him look good!the hair stlyest was like but he does not look for me!!i would help him if he asked me for it!! the man was like you see?its the same thing!!we donot look for god and that is why he doenst help us!! and the religion i belive in is islam and its about ...Islam(muslims) is a religion that says that there is only one god and he is the creator of heavens and earth and that noone helped him creat this and that he has no sons no wife or anything like that and prophet mohamed(ppbuh) is his messenger, islma has five pillars,which are things you have to do to become a muslim...1) is bearing witness that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah(god)and that mohamed is the messenger of Allah.2)prayer....this is a very important one if you want to be muslim,muslims pray 5 times a day thanking God for all of the things he has bestowed upon them.3) is giving money to the poor in the month of ramadan.4) is fasting in the holy month of ramadan....ramadan is a month that comes each year and muslims dont eat from like 4 am till 5 pm and god made them do this so they can thank him and be happy that they have food and to feel the hunger of most ppl that dont have any food.5) last thing(this isnt a must if you dont have money) is going to hajj(pilgrimage) its a place you go to to pray and go walk around the ka'bah to ask god for anything you want and to be forgiven....thoes who go there are forgiven from all their sins......muslims are very decent people that shouldnt curse stuff like that(and NO islam is not a terrorist religion....osama bin laden can be a terrorrist but muslims arent...they dont even agree to whats been hapening in iraq and all)muslims also believe in the day of judgment which is a day where everyone will come alive from the dead to be judged about their doings and only Allah creator of this world will judge them.from that day there will be either going to heaven or hell depending on your doings.Allah is very merciful and forgiving like for example if you done something like REALLY bad and you regret it and ask Allah for forgivness he will forgive you,muslims also have signs that prove that the day of judgment is coming closer and that they should start becoming better muslims and scary thing is that most of them have already happened...all i want you to do is visit this website about the miracles of islam the word allah is written in arabic in most places ....http://www.miraclesofislam.com/ and another thing is that muslims are NOT allowed to make fun of christianity or jewish religion its totally sinfull because God said in the holy quran that muslims should have respect for others....even muslim girls....if you have seen that most of them cover their hair it is because Allah wants the muslim woman to be protected by not exposing her body to other men and being a prey of sexuall stuff.well please visit the website i told you about by just cliking on it and on that website you might not get the miracle of the mosque....a mosque is a place where muslims pray....please visit it and if you have any other questions about islam my email is written in my profile marilyn_monroe_4_arabs@hotmail.com (thats also my msn)........
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Can anyone tell me a little bit about all the religions they know and what they are about? I don't know which to pursue. Thank you very much. I am agnostic as of now. I thought I was atheist. I'm not so sure anymore. (link)
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...Islam(muslims) is a religion that says that there is only one god and he is the creator of heavens and earth and that noone helped him creat this and that he has no sons no wife or anything like that and prophet mohamed(ppbuh) is his messenger, islma has five pillars,which are things you have to do to become a muslim...1) is bearing witness that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah(god)and that mohamed is the messenger of Allah.2)prayer....this is a very important one if you want to be muslim,muslims pray 5 times a day thanking God for all of the things he has bestowed upon them.3) is giving money to the poor in the month of ramadan.4) is fasting in the holy month of ramadan....ramadan is a month that comes each year and muslims dont eat from like 4 am till 5 pm and god made them do this so they can thank him and be happy that they have food and to feel the hunger of most ppl that dont have any food.5) last thing(this isnt a must if you dont have money) is going to hajj(pilgrimage) its a place you go to to pray and go walk around the ka'bah to ask god for anything you want and to be forgiven....thoes who go there are forgiven from all their sins......muslims are very decent people that shouldnt curse stuff like that(and NO islam is not a terrorist religion....osama bin laden can be a terrorrist but muslims arent...they dont even agree to whats been hapening in iraq and all)muslims also believe in the day of judgment which is a day where everyone will come alive from the dead to be judged about their doings and only Allah creator of this world will judge them.from that day there will be either going to heaven or hell depending on your doings.Allah is very merciful and forgiving like for example if you done something like REALLY bad and you regret it and ask Allah for forgivness he will forgive you,muslims also have signs that prove that the day of judgment is coming closer and that they should start becoming better muslims and scary thing is that most of them have already happened...all i want you to do is visit this website about the miracles of islam the word allah is written in arabic in most places ....http://www.miraclesofislam.com/ and another thing is that muslims are NOT allowed to make fun of christianity or jewish religion its totally sinfull because God said in the holy quran that muslims should have respect for others....even muslim girls....if you have seen that most of them cover their hair it is because Allah wants the muslim woman to be protected by not exposing her body to other men and being a prey of sexuall stuff.well please visit the website i told you about by just cliking on it and on that website you might not get the miracle of the mosque....a mosque is a place where muslims pray....please visit it and if you have any other questions about islam my ask me
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I need help about religion. I currently attend a unitarion Universalist church and I am taking the class and all that. Oh yeah and im 13/f. I really do not know what I beleive in. I guess you could call me agnostic, but I do believe that there is a higher power out there. I just dont know what. The thing is, no offense to anybody, I just dont believe that God sends people to hl for sinning and stuff. I really dont know about christianiy all that much, but Im from the south where alot of people are really mean but they think they are such good chrisians because they read the bible. My question is is this normal? I just dont know what to believe and its anoying becuase some people are like "Why dont you believe in god?!" and its really embarrising. (link)
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well i am 15f muslim and im very happyw ith my religion and will share my knowledge with you...who knows mabey its what you are looking for !!!like i said to other converts and ppl
Islam(muslims) is a religion that says that there is only one god and he is the creator of heavens and earth and that noone helped him creat this and that he has no sons no wife or anything like that and prophet mohamed(ppbuh) is his messenger, islma has five pillars,which are things you have to do to become a muslim...1) is bearing witness that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah(god)and that mohamed is the messenger of Allah.2)prayer....this is a very important one if you want to be muslim,muslims pray 5 times a day thanking God for all of the things he has bestowed upon them.3) is giving money to the poor in the month of ramadan.4) is fasting in the holy month of ramadan....ramadan is a month that comes each year and muslims dont eat from like 4 am till 5 pm and god made them do this so they can thank him and be happy that they have food and to feel the hunger of most ppl that dont have any food.5) last thing(this isnt a must if you dont have money) is going to hajj(pilgrimage) its a place you go to to pray and go walk around the ka'bah to ask god for anything you want and to be forgiven....thoes who go there are forgiven from all their sins. and NO islam is not a terrorist religion....osama bin laden can be a terrorrist but muslims arent...they dont even agree to whats been hapening in iraq and all)muslims also believe in the day of judgment which is a day where everyone will come alive from the dead to be judged about their doings and only Allah creator of this world will judge them.from that day there will be either going to heaven or hell depending on your doings.Allah is very merciful and forgiving like for example if you done something like REALLY bad and you regret it and ask Allah for forgivness he will forgive you,muslims also have signs that prove that the day of judgment is coming closer and that they should start becoming better muslims and scary thing is that most of them have already happened...all i want you to do is visit this website about the miracles of islam the word allah is written in arabic in most places ....http://www.miraclesofislam.com/ and another thing is that muslims are NOT allowed to make fun of christianity or jewish religion its totally sinfull because God said in the holy quran that muslims should have respect for others....even muslim girls....if you have seen that most of them cover their hair it is because Allah wants the muslim woman to be protected by not exposing her body to other men and being a prey of sexuall stuff.well please visit the website i told you about by just cliking on it and on that website you might not get the miracle of the mosque....a mosque is a place where muslims pray....please visit it and if you have any other questions about islam ask me
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I'm a Christian. Lately, I've been worried about something. I've been thinking things like "What if Christianity isn't the true religion and Islam/Buddhism is?" Basically I'm scared that Christianity may not be the true religion. I believe in Jesus, but what if Islam is the true religion? Then I would go to Hell forever because of one decision, you know? It makes me scared =(. What do you think..? (link)
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hey im muslim....well anyways the only way for you to know what religion you really want to believe in is to learn about the other main religion....islam and christianity and jewish religion Islam(muslims) is a religion that says that there is only one god and he is the creator of heavens and earth and that noone helped him creat this and that he has no sons no wife or anything like that and prophet mohamed(ppbuh) is his messenger, islma has five pillars,which are things you have to do to become a muslim...1) is bearing witness that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah(god)and that mohamed is the messenger of Allah.2)prayer....this is a very important one if you want to be muslim,muslims pray 5 times a day thanking God for all of the things he has bestowed upon them.3) is giving money to the poor in the month of ramadan.4) is fasting in the holy month of ramadan....ramadan is a month that comes each year and muslims dont eat from like 4 am till 5 pm and god made them do this so they can thank him and be happy that they have food and to feel the hunger of most ppl that dont have any food.5) last thing(this isnt a must if you dont have money) is going to hajj(pilgrimage) its a place you go to to pray and go walk around the ka'bah to ask god for anything you want and to be forgiven....thoes who go there are forgiven from all their sins.. WELL learn more about the 3 main religions and you decide for yourself im just giving you a clue about what i know
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Salam. i am a newer convert to Islam. my problem is i don't have any good influences near me. i go to Masjid when i can but it's in another city. i am trying to teach myself. but it's not going as well as i would have wished. Inshallah, i will find my way. but i live in a small town that's very racist. im not afraid to wear the hijab, but i don't want anyone i know to get hurt because of it. well i want to know of any sites that can help me in my learning. and maybe some people to contact. thank you very much. allah hafiz (link)
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alaykom el salam.congratulations on converting.well ya it is hard to wear the hijab in your case because of your surroundings and influences that are....not so good.but think of it like this these ppl are doing the wrong thing does it mean that you should be like them?you can wear the hijab if you want to no one can tell you not to.....when you see all these girls dressed in exposed clothes noone can DARE say anything to them!they yell back and say its a free country i can wear whatever i want to wear!and so can you!well hijab was kinda hard for me too!i was surrounded by my friends and most of them dont wear it and i was obssessed with myself and how i looked like.but then i was like is what they say or think really that important?when God sends me to hell what they say isnt really gonna matter.....and if you need my help ask me
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hello. i am a newer convert to Islam. and no one has ever explained to me what sect i am. how do you find out?
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ok check my advice column like 1st or secong page and it has a lot written about sunnis just look for "caramella"
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Reading yore answer 2 a question regarding are all guys out for sex at the age of 15 16.
U sed there werent any guys out there who stil enjoyed simple romance.
I have to; however. Disagree with you on this topic as i am one of these guys. Im not smart im not a geek and im not that popular. However im with a girl who ive been with a year and we slept with each other within 2 months of first meeting.
It was an enjoyable experience that we both were happy to have and to cherish and it was pre-planned and it was safe.
However going by youre outlook this means im worhtless and only in it for my girlfriends body and not her love as you say me all want the same thing.
Ok so yes i do want sex; but not all the time! I happily enjoy going 2 the movies with my girl and going walks and sitting and just holding each other and i could go without sex if i wanted to.
But the things is sex is a part of a relationship as much is talkiin for two maturing adults.
So i am offended by this remark thsat you made so much so thst i have to write via this and express my disbelief.
I am one of themost soppy romantics youre likely to speak to who isnt gay or who isnt a geek or whatever. Yet on the same hand i still can enjoy an active sex life to go with the romance..
please reply youre thought
anthony (link)
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ok well SORRY if i offended you but i was saying my opinion in my point of view from what i have seen so far.mabey there are guys like you but i was referring to what i have seen cuz i really never saw any guys that want that and only that!but srry anywayz no hard feelings k?
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Is anyone on here Muslim? I have a very important question that I want to ask and talk about. I'd like it to be someone older, but anyone that is religous will do. Thanks. (link)
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ya im muslim need any help just ask me
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