ok so my parents got a devoice 7 years ago. and last year my dad got married. my step mom WAS cool but now shes annoying. i get in trouble for the *dumbest* things when she asks me a question and i dont give her every single detail then she yells and cuses. and she spys on me and my step sister to see what where saying. and we cant shut our door they said they where gonna take it down.i dont get any privecy. HELP
I_am_Neo answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 3:41 pm: Wow. I would talk to your dad and honeslty she shouldn't be able to boss you around. She's just some mean old lady who feels like she needs more power. I know that privacy is important to people especially in their teens cuz I also enjoy my privacy and always have. I usually keep to myslef and your stepmother should respect that you need yours. The first person I would turn to is your father and have him help and if he refuses, then go to ur step mother and talk to her. Don't be mean about it, maybe a little strong but polite. [ I_am_Neo's advice column | Ask I_am_Neo A Question ]
adviceismylife2 answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 3:15 pm: Well apparently privacy is important 4 a girl especially a teen.Show her your responsiple.Get her trust.If that doesnt work have a talk with her.Tell her you need privacy that shes your stepmother she SHOULD trust you. [ adviceismylife2's advice column | Ask adviceismylife2 A Question ]
xMakeDamnSurex answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 2:07 pm: You should really talk to your dad about that. He may not be happy about it but you need your privacy. Or even just confront your step mom about it. Tell her you need your privacy.
DefinedEyes answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 1:17 pm: Tell your dad how you feel, or tell your real mom. Because your stepmom is totally violating your privacy, and your dad should know about that. You should also remind your step mom that she isnt your real mom. And that she doesnt need to know EVERYTHING, and that you need your privacy, like everyone.
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xostarbrightbaby answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 12:55 pm: I think that is so gay and rude. Seriously I hate when parents "lovers" try to take over. You should have your OWN privacy. Tell your dad how you feel. If your stepmom yells at you, then say something to her. You can also piss them off, if you get in trouble and your not allowed to go in you room with the door shut, go in the bathroom for awhile. Or go out to friends houses more. If you try talking to your dad first then hopefully you can get your stepmom convinced. ♥ [ xostarbrightbaby's advice column | Ask xostarbrightbaby A Question ]
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