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OMG I soo totally Love hard rock!..my favorite band in the whole world is Dirturbed and I love every one of their songs and i know the words to all of them and i listen to them 24/7...but i am a christian i like other music too but hard rocks my favorite....is listening to it a sin?? and do they worship the devil??? thnx for any help

No it isnt a sin, if your a christian worships the devil is obiously a sin! because its the oposite of god! You can still like your music everyone likes different stuff.

luv roxie

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the guy i like broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago because he liked me, but then he started going out with another girl. they just broke up. he knows i like him and he told his friend that i'm cool and hott but he needs to get to know me more. and i'm not sure what to do because i talk to him like everyday. any suggestions? is this a lost cause?

I think you should ask him out go on you only live once. You never know it might work out.

luv roxie

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how do u add favorite columnists to your column?

When you click on there advice colunm just go to add as favourite columnist or add as friend.

its easy
luv roxie

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like this guy, like SOO much and no matter who i date or how much i try he's the ONLY guy on my mind. The thing is he's a popular sophmore, and im a not so popular freshman. but he's different from all the popular guys i've known though, like hes really caring and REALLY easy to talk to ..
I told him i liked him a long time ago but he said he didn't really no me well enough to like me.. so its been like a month and half and hes started to act different towards me like in gym we had to carry really really heavy boxes because we were doing reconditioning, and he offered to take my box, but nobody elses. and just like it came up in convorsation who he liked but he wouldn't say like it was a HUGE secret (my friends said its beacuse they think he likes me, but i dunno).
And yesterday when we were gettin out of school he was behind me, and he threw a nickel and it hit my back pack, but i didnt even realize anyone threw it so i kept walking. and three other times he threw pennys and i didnt do anything. and after he threw the last one he's like "Hey" and i turend around and "he's like im trying to get ur attention here and" and im like so why r u throwing stuff at me like kidding around and hes like b/c i can. then he asked how i was and then got on his bus .. but i dunno its just weird .. maybe im being to hopeful or could this possibly mean something? ... how do i tell if he might possibly like me .. or if he's just friendly ..

I think he likes you, when guys like you they often act idiots and do stuff which makes them seem good and sometimes they show of!
Ask him if he would like to go out some time, you dont have to rush into it take it slow. Just because hes popular doesnt mean hes not gonna like you because your not popular, he seems like a really nice guy and funny to! dont waste your time with other guys go for it and have a good time, if he says no to the date just act normal just "oh right i was just wondering if you would like to go out" dont run of or start crying that looks uncool lol just be you.

luv roxie hope ive helped

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yesterday was the talent show at our school, and me, and my xbestfriend were both in it, but not together. she went before me, and i was right after her. when i got up on stage i saw her hug the boy i like. i almost choked on a high note. he's not my boyfriend but im still REALLY jealous and REALLY worried he's gonna start liking her. is this normal and what should i do?

Yes its normal your just a bit jealous! Thats to be expected, get over it find your self a boyfriend and then you will feel happyer and more relaxed.

luv roxie

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Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
i rate high!

Guys are idiots lol, if they do something with a girl it boosts there ego, most guys make it up to make him seem big and like hes everything. Guys think that just because a girl had sex they can be called sluts because men rule the world and there very preduced agains women!

luv roxie

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Hey. My best friend has been ignoring me lately and I don't know what I should do. On her website she shows who shes talking to and shes talking to alot of people and being all happy. But when we talk its just not the same and she barely says anything, if anything at all. Please help!

Ask her what you have done wrong what can make her ignore you like she has been doing. Say you cant help her unless she tells you what is going on.

luv roxie

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I am 15/f and I am iching and burning down there and it hurts like heck and I dont know what it is...I have recently had sex like almost a month ago and I am scared that I may have something...could anyone tell me what this could be? If so thanks I need to know a/s/a/p...I'm scared that this could be something bad...please help me I will rate high ...thanks

You could have a sti, go see the doctor about it.

luv roxie

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I have been going out with my boyfriend now for 3 monthes. I am 14 years old. Last night, we went to a house party. Ther was this game were we had to give head. I didn't want to give his bestfriend head, but all the girls were doing it. The game was called "rainbow."
I feel so guilty, and gross, what can i do to feel better?

There isnt anything really that you can do to make you feel better, You shouldnt have really done what you were asked to do if your boyfriend was there and he might feel a bit uncomfortable about it. The best thing you can do is say our sorry.

luv roxie

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When I'm out buying blank CDs to burn on my CD burner, is there any real difference between plain ol' blank CDs and those "music" CDs? I mean, they have "Music" on the labels and they're more expensive, but I was wondering if that was all just marketing or if music CDs were really different.

There is nothing different about them both. They both do the same thing

luv roxie

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13/f
Ok well I was talking on the phone to my bf last night, and I was on the internet. There was a banner-ads at the top of the page, and because I was bored I read it to him. It said "find out how well you kiss by taking this quiz". And he asked me what I was reading, and I told him it was a banner-ad thing. He then replied "I wonder how well I can kiss". I then just said "um, ok".

My question is- do you think he wants to kiss me? I want to kiss him, but I don't know if the feeling is mutual! We are going on a date tonight, and I want to know if he might kiss me.
Thanks I RATE 5's!!

yes he will probley kiss you, Just be natural in his own time he will kiss you, i be he is as nevous as you are. go for it!

luv roxie

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ok well theres this guy and i think he is really cute and he likes me alot. well ive known him fot half of my life and hes like a brother to me. he keeps on askin me if i would go out with him and then i dont wamt to say no but i do and at the same time i want to say yes to him. i dont no what i should do plz HELP me

i will rate 5's to any 1 who awenswers

You should say yes, if you have known him all your life then he obiously means more to you that anyother lad. You can trust him because of the fact you have known him for ages. Try going out and see if it works if it does good on you if it doesnt then you can still be best friends cant you.
good luck

luv roxie

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ok what exactly are guys looking for? i go to a private school and theres like 100 people in my grade... its pretty even (guys vs girls) and ive never been asked out. people always tell me im pretty and funny and i dont get it. im thinking that its just that the guys at private schools are retarded because a lot of really pretty popular girls dont get asked out.. but yea... so what are guys looking for? i rate 5s

Mabe no one can see how special you are, be a bit more out going go out with some of your mates and a couple of boys and there bound to fall for you dont worry.

luv roxie

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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...

No of course thats normal you just havent found anyone special enough dont worry about it.

luv roxie

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me and my bf broke up last month. and i still really like him, he says he doesnt like me and when i try to get him to like me by like being all like touchy feely with him he is like stop i dont wanna like you again. but i want him to like me agin i cant find some1 i like just as much. we still talk on the phone for hours and we still hang out but what do i do?? i cant get over him but i dont really want to. how can i get him to like me again?

Mabe he doesnt want to go out with you, and he might just see you as a friend dont be so touch feely he might not like it. just be you

luv roxie

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there is this guy i kinda like him well i was with him the other day and he told me that he liked me and i dunno if i sohuld belive him cause he might be using me and i dunno if i should believe him or not. what do i do??

Yes i think you should believe him most guys dont dare say anything like that most guys arnt that sensative about the whole situation of boy likes girl and girl likes boy. Go for it!!!

luv roxie

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hey, i just had an idea to make my friend a cd. One with cheerful songs so when she's feeling sad it will make her feel better. Does anyone know some good songs that will put her in a good mood?
Thanks!

There is loads:
try down loading some funny ones that will make her laugh britney spears,michelle branch, girls aloud depends what type of songs shes into. I bet when she sees you anyway she will be happy.

luv roxie

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okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks

Just be sensative, kissing, touching her hand dont go to far because she might think your been a bit obsesive.

luv roxie

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My boyfriend of over a year used to treat me really bad, he'd ignore me and barely talk to me in school, but when id threaten to break up with him he'd be like do it do it and i would and he'd be the one gettin mad.. i dont understand how he'll let me do that and he wont care but after he gets mad becuase i did it. A girl wrote i love you on his hand and he acted like it was nothing but he wont let me write something on his hand. I do get jealous fast and he knows it, and i feel like he takes advantage of it. What should i do to make him appreciate me and make him say sweet things like he used to. I tell him to just break up with me if he doesnt care but he doesnt b/c he says he cares. I wish he would show it more ut how?

I dont think you need him! you could do better than him i bet your beautiful and could have any lad. Break up with him! tell him that he treats you like shit and your so nice to him and get nothing in return.

luv roxie

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