about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

anyone know how to make xanga layouts?

http://www.blogring.net/index.php?showtopic=3258

that site has the layout sheet on it. if you need anything else about help with a layout drop it in my inbox and i will gladdly help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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so i likke dis girl and i know dat she likes me but she won't addmit it till i ask her out and i'm not dat good at asking ppl out and i like know what she likes bout me cause she tells me online and yeah what do i do

if you like her then ask her out.. some people are shy like that and cant express there feelings tords someone to there face and have to do it in another. what she is doing is online. so if you like ehr just do it. you know the answer so do it. it doesnt really matter how you ask it but just ask it.
*~Stephanie~*

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whats high mainntence or whatever? i duno how to spell it lol.

high maintence means someone who doesnt really care about the price of anything all they care about is that it is cute and comfy.. basically people who have high standards. for example if someone is high maintence they sure as hell will NEVER take a bus anywhere they think that that is people there standards and wouldnt be caught died on one. it isnt usually the popular snobby people but it is sometimes. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey..this s kind of disgusting but here it goes well my left breast has been very itchy lately like the tip is itchy is that normal? do you have any ideas to stop it kthanks

it is totally normal. you breast are growing and it itching tells you that it is growing. some people there breast cause them pain when it happens but everyone is different so yes it is normal so dont worry. i think you should try putting some lotion on it to stop it from itchin.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so im going to meet my boy friend of about two months at my friends house tomorrow...its kind of a long distance relationship and im kind of nervous about wut i should do...shoud i make the first move or wait on him? last time he didnt do anything so im kinda worried it will happen again...and by anything i mean kissing so dont worry im not sexually active...so should i make the frist move or wait and if i should what should i do to make the first move?

omg i just went through that with my boyfriend when we meet up (because it is long distance to) we barely did anything as in he didnt even hold my hand at the mall we kiss but only twice.. what i think you should do is tonight is talk to your boyfriend about him and if eh doesnt make a first move then you make the move. i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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so i have a birthmark on my penis, and its not huge or anything, but its noticeable. would girls get freaked out if they saw it? and how would you go about removing one at a doctor or something?

thanks

i know if you have something like that you can have plastic surgery on it and get it removed but you know it is BIRTH MARK and if a girl doesnt like the idea then she really doesnt love you. i mean come on if you really like or love someone then lil stuff like that shouldnt matter.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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What happened to best_love_poems.com??? where'd it go???

i dont know i was just tryin to go on that site but i hope it gets back up. i really like that site.
*Stephanie~*

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16/m

its not my first time going out with a girl and what ever but this girl that im curantly with is somehting... shes kinda different

i like her but im to scared to tell her that and i dunno why. today we were walkin and she put her hand around my waist and i put my hand around hers, her hand kept "slipin" and it felt like she was feelin up on my ass (several times)

i dunno why but i just dont have enough nerve to do anything,such as kiss her or what ever I DONT KNOW WHY!!

do you guys think i hsould just try to kiss her and see what happens? does the hand sliping part means she likes me? shes just different from any other girl ive met in ways that i cant even explain.

well it seems like she wants you to make a move but she doesnt want to make it first.. some girls r like that they know how to make the moves but they dont want to make them first. i am like that i make my boyfriend make the moves on me. my advice to you is go ahead and kiss her i mean she is your girlfriend and from what she is doing it doesnt seem that she will reject it.

*~Stephanie~*

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Sometimes i get a white/clear discharge in my underwear, well more like everyday. is this a sign of a Std?

i think that is perfectly normal. i dont think you can say you have STD from discharge because that is normal to have discharge everyday. the white stuff your talking about is just discharge and there is nothin to worry about.
*~Stephanie~*

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about 2 weeks ago i was fooling around with my bf and some sexual things happend. we didnt have sex but he came, and it might be possible that it got "down there " sort of. My period has been 2 weeks last but it was late when i was fooling arounf with my bf. do you think its possible thtat i am pregnent without even having sex because some way some how like if it was on his fingers or something that i could be pregent? or is my period just really late. I havent had any signs of hurting boobs or anything like that.. so im just wondering. because ive been worried. thank you. =]

first, if you have had your period for less then 2 years it will be IRREGULAR it wont come when it is supposed to. if his dick didnt go in you then you should be fine.. if he was jacking of then fingured you and he had a lil bit of sperm on his figures there is like a 5% chance of you gettin pregnant because sperm dies fast. stress also makes your period come late. so relax take a deep breath and calm down , everything is going to be ok, it wont eb the end of the world. if you are still scared in about another week take a pregnancy test just to make you feel better and for you to noe that you are or arent pregnant for sure. i hope everything works out for you.
*~Stephanie~*

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my school came up with a new dress code and it completely sucks. parents and students were kicked out of open house and kids were suspended on the first day of school!!! for example our neckline son our shirts have to make a srait line above our armpits which is REALLY high and our shirts have to come down past our belts and our pants can't touch the floor. what are some good things i can say to the administration to get them to change these outrageous rules? (*we don't have uniforms)

we you can do is get a petetion and make like the whole school do it and if they dont listen to you then you guys should plan out a day where EVERYONE breaks the rules and all off you gusy should talk to your familys about the dress code and maybe even your parents will join you on it and help the rules change.. because if you fight it by yourself it WONT work they wont listen to one person you need at least 100 people to make this work.. hope this helps you out and DONT EVER GIVE UP ON WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT.. good luck
*~Stephanie~*

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Where can i punblish my poems online that doesn't cost me money? dont say xanga or any online journals
thanks

http://www.best-love-poems.com/
that place you can put ur poems on there for free. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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me n my boyfriend want to take a shower together.. but we dont know what we should do... does anyone have any cool ideas of what to do in the shower???? Thanks i rate 5's
~*wet - n - wild*~

you can make otu with him.. do a lil dance on him liek move your ass on his dick and back it up WITHOUT lettin him put it in like basically tease him...lol.. or if you want you guys can have sex in the shower. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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How Many Guys Does A Girl Have To Have Sex Wih To Be A Slut??

ThnxLove

i personally dont have a number but i think of it as a girl who has had multi sex partners and goes out for a guy for his looks and to have sex with him. like she will go through 5 and more guys every month.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey, you answered one of my questions on my advice thing. i just wanted to tell you that i read it and it really helped me. thank you so much for your advice

your very welcome..if you every need anything else just drop it in my inbox and i will gladly help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Yesterday was my birthday, and i went over my boyfriend's house. He gave me a card and a braclet that i loved. Everything was going great until we started to get into a little fight about something stupid. I didn't know he would get so upset over it. He acted like everything was fine for the rest of the night. He told me that since i wasn't leaving for a while, he was going to pretend that everything was fine. We've been going out for almost 5 months now, and we broke up a few times during that. We get into the stupidest fights, say mean things to eachother, then come running back to eachother eventually. I hate breaking up, and i always get to upset over it. But i love when we get back together. I really love him more than basically anything. We both go threw stages of breaking up. I know all of his stages, he gets mad then breaks up with me, and then later on he calls acting like a moron saying all of these hateful words and things he doesn't mean. Pretending that he doesn't like me anymore. But then either a few hours, or days later, he calls me and says that he loves me and that hes sorry and stuff like that. Then we tell eachother nice things, and he wants to go back out with me. Right now, i am really upset over this and i was crying alot before. I talk to my mom about everything, she helps me through it all. But sometimes i just like to talk to people and get their advice. I hope everything works out. But i get so attatched to certain people. And it's so hard for me to get over them. So whoever is reading this, please help me with what i should do. Thank you so much.


Brooke
AGE - 15

i personally think you should move on to a guy who will ALWAYS treat you right. you need to find yourself a MAN not a BOY who calls you names and says mean thinks to you. you need a guy who will treat you like a princess and treats you like your the most important thing in the world to him. a guy who will always be there to make you laugh at your worse and to always have your back.as hard as it will be you need a new boyfriend. there are A LOT of guys out there. you just have to find the right one. i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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does anyone know where i could put one of my poems online? ill rate 5's!

http://www.best-love-poems.com/

you submitt them there.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am currently in my first "serious" relationship with this guy. My previous ones were just what I call meaningless flings where there was only a physical attraction. This guy is different though. I really love him, which I never though I'd say about anyone. We talked for a while before we started dating, and realized that we had a lot in common. When we talk to each other, I am beginning to notice possibly bipolar tendencies. He can be very depressed and suicidal at times. I've dealt with depression and suicidal thoughts for a long time, so I do not want to leave him at this time, yet it makes me feel shittier than usual.... Know that some aspects of this situation have been deleted due to the context rules of Advicenators.

Any advice?

DONT LEAVE HIM! he needs soemoen to talk to right now. he needs YOU to listen to him and at least try helping him out with it all. you need to get him through this. hope this helps you out.
*~stephanie~*

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what do you think i should do about it though.....cuz when we were togtehr we use to always say i lvoe you to each other and i still do love him...should i just come out telling him i miss him and see wut happens from there

het hun. i dont really understand what your are talking about.. i will answer it as much as i can with the imformation you have given me right now. if this is with you boyfriend then you need to sit down with him and tell him how you feel. if he doesnt feel the same way he really isnt worth it. if he doesnt like you the way you like him then you need to move on because it is like liking soemthing that isnt there or that doesnt liek you back, that is a waste of time.. if you keep your feelings to yourself and not tell him it will hurt you and it will be painful.. letting it all out will be the best idea. i hope this helps you out. if you need anything else just drop it in my inbox and i will be glad to help you out some more.
*~Stephanie~*

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if you and your ex are arguing and he comes out saying take a fucking hint i do care about you



does dat mean wut it says dat he acres or does dat mean there might be another chnace

it sounds like whatever you are going through that even though you to arent together that her still loves you a lil at least and cares about and wants you to know how he feels. i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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