HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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hey xxx
basicly im in love with this guy and have been for 2 years now , when we first started speaking to each other on msn we were going 2 meet ( he has camera ) but then we had a bit of a fall out . I couldnt stand speeking to him so i rung him up and he was really happy speeking to me again. Well we have been talking since and he says he really likes me etc etc but the thing is hes 24 im 17 .. he lives in essex i live in luton.. and i dont think tat he really wants a relationhip at the moment but i dont know how long i can wait for him !!
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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you have a lot of choices here...you can either visit him or ask him to visit you in the summer or you can forget about him and move on with your life...theres definetly nothing wrong with the age difference and its better yhat he is older than you cuz hell be more mature.ask him how far he wants this realationship to go.
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okay this is not about me . well i was friends with this girl and shes going out with a kid that shes in love with and he loves her well anyway i heard that he cheated on her and had sex with other girls [ hes only 14 ] . i told the girl and we started talking as friends again but then the other girl that told me about it got mad at me for telling i mean was it wrong to tell her seeing it was her boyfriend? please help bc i try to exp-lain that it was the right thing to do. thanks♥ (link)
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the girl that got mad at you for telling can STAY mad if she wants.if you tried explaining to her that its the right thing to do and she wont listen then she obviously doenst care about you helping your friend so forget about her ...your freind is more important and needs to know the truth...wouldnt it feel awful if your freind knew your boyfreind was cheating on you and didnt tell you to save you from falling in deeper love?you did the right thing and dont apologize to the other girl cuz you did the right thing.good for you
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well theres this girl and she said she wants to kill me. what do i do. im scared he means it. HELPPPP!! we really arent friends but idk if she was jk or is serious. ive heard stoires like this b4 where people dont take it seriously then like, get killed. what do i do? (we are 13) (link)
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LMAO!! dont worry she wouldnt have the guts to do it!honestly.do you think a 13 year old would waste her time killing you when she knows the concenquenses is going to jail!!??!shes only saying this cuz she knows youll get scared and it pleases her to see you terrified.look her in the eyes and say "WOMAN GET A LIFE ALREADY YOU WOULDNT HARM A FLY!!!"
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this summer i want to read a bit more. (about 15+ books.) so far, the only book i have is TWiNS by William Morrow.
anymore books? thxxx much (link)
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HARRY POTTER(ull LOVE it) book 1,2,3,4,5 and 6 by jk rowling and theres this other book called which witch by eva ibbotson
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I've liked this guy for about 10 months and he went out with me for sympathy because he felt sorry for me. Should i just give up and move on or should i keep trying to get him? (link)
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GiVe It Up wOmAn!!!!youre dignity is at risk here!he DOESNT like you!!and if he ever goes out with you its because he feels sorry for you and will probably go brag to his freinds and make you seem more DESPERATE than you already ARE.forget him he aint the last guy on earth.
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ok so theres this guy i really really like and he really likes me too. like every time i we say bye he tells me he loves me and he says the cutest stuff. and everytime i tell him i love him he says no i love you more and adorable stuff like that. so anyways hes friends with my ex that i went out with for 3 months. me and this guy tried to go out but my ex got really pissed off (because i was the one the broke up with him). my ex also hated me then. so i had to break up with this guy that i really really liked. this was about a month ago. now i am friends with my ex again and i still really really like this guy and he really really likes me and we talk every single day on aim or texting or the phone. i was gonna go to overnight camp and i told him that i wanted to be single for that but now im not going anymore because im going to colorado so i think he might ask me out but im really good friends with my ex now and i think my ex actually likes me again because he gets mad every time i talk to the guy i like and i say to my ex.. well why do you care its not like you like me or anything and he said well.. im not sure if i do or not. my ex also calls me every night just to talk.. which i think is a little weird. well if the guy i like does ask me out what should i do because i really wanna go out with him but i dont want him to lose my ex as a friend and i dont wanna lose my ex as a friend either. thanks sorry it was so long (link)
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who the hell is this guy to tell you what to do?um is he your husband?noo....so you can be with whoever you want and your ex cant do anything about it...go to the guy you really like and if your ex gets pissed tell him whats between us is PAST and OVER.you cant stop yourself from liking this dude just to not hurt your ex's feelings?cmon honestly if he liked another girl and you were his ex and all would he leave her for you?????i dont THINK SO!!!
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it was my friends bday today but im not gonna see her until monday so thats when im gonna give her her gift. shes turning 14 and shes also leaving for overnight camp on tuesday does anyone have any ideas of what i could get her???
i was thinking of getting her a gift card or something but idk.
thanks (link)
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aw cmon a giftcard?thats old lol if you like her a lot get her something like perfume or makeup or something if shes an ok freind then i GUESE you can buy her something small like a pink fluffy diary and inside it are picks of all her freinds(you get the piks and let each freind write something like HAPPY BDAY) and you glue them in it
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as you guys all know.
the school year's starting soon.
and i want to be a whole new me ! :)
i want to get highlights.
& have a new found style.
i want to decorate my locker.
& i want your help. :)
any ideas:
on styles, locker decorations,
nice highlight colors for dark brown hair?
[i'm thinking a bit blonde or red].
helP. :D (link)
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well i have about the same hair color and tried blond and red highlights and trust me red would look a lot better on you....blonde makes you look older while red makes you look younger and cute and about the makeup nowadays too much makeup is considered fake so you can put a lil blush on and lipgloss and if you want to have on eyeshadow i think purple would make your eyes stand out more or light blue
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ok.. my i live with my grandma and she keeps calling me fat and stuff. and i already have a lowe self esteem .. and i ask her not to say anything but she still does.. and she knows that it bothers me.. and i've got to wear i dont' wonna eat.. and don't want anything to do with anybody except my best friend.. when it comes to just being with ppl for long periods of time. and she has really put me into a depression mode.. what do i do? (link)
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im sure she doesnt wanna piss you off and only cares about you and says this cuz she thinks if she does youll intend on losing weight...if you told her that and she dont stop tell your parents to talk to her THEN shell stop
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does being a virgin mean you've never had sex? what about fingering/blowjobs etc does that count, and if youve done one, are u not a virgin anymore? someone please explain.. (link)
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being a virgin means that youve never had sex(when he puts his thing up yours THEN you will no longer be a virgin) but fingering and that other stuff doesnt make you not a virgin
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do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥ (link)
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omg no ofcourse its not....DUH HELL YEAH IT IS because if a 13 year old does this now what is she gonna do later on???
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Ok, so my best friend is with her second boyfriend ever. The first one only lasted a couple weeks and it wasn't really serious. She has been with the one she's with now since December. Well, they are wicked, wicked serious about each other and I've come to accept that and even be happy for her because she's finally happy again. But this has kinda started to get too far. Her boyfriend asked her to marry him when they become of age and she pretty much said yes. I guess I'm kinda concerned that she's throwing her life away over her second boyfriend. But the major problem with me comes from the age. I'm only 14/f, she's same as me, and he's 15/m. It freaks out alotof our friends because true love at this age is so rare. Do I talk to her or just stay out of it? Am I just jealous? (link)
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im pretty sure you wouldnt be jealous of your best freind and want whats best for her.just leave her alone and let her do what she wants,even if she DOES throw her life away on this dude just let her do what she wants.
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if i started to shave my arms, would the hair grow darker and longer?
ps. my arm hairs are black (link)
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it depends on what product you use if you use a razor itll get thicker l8er on but if you wax it it wont
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Ok so im in dance and i have been for 10 years but like i am fat and and like a dance at least 8 hours a week and i was wondering y am i not getting skinnier and i do sit ups to get rid of my fat so what am i don't wrong? (link)
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if you dance and ever happen to stop the muscels your body has turns to FAT and if you happen to eat a lot of junk(especially sodas)you wont lose weight...you have to diet AND exercise
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When I wore my bathingsuit today, I notice you could see some of my pubic hair when my bathingsuit was a little out of place. I have been thinking of shaving it, just like a little, where I need to, but I am scared due do bumps, and a rash or something. Can a razor shave off a long piece of hair? Should I even shave there? (link)
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ofcourse you should shave THERE but not with a razor itll make your hair thicker next time it grows....so WAX IT(hurts a lil but best results)
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when you lose 5-6 pounds you dont really notice it do you?
*i weighed myself today cuz im dieting and trying to lose weight but i noticed i was 5-6 pounds lighter but i dont look it at least i think* so do you think you should see a difference? (link)
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when someone weighs a lot and is really big a couple of pounds lost wont show up on them it wont be obvious that they lost weight its like for example you have $10,000,000 and you lost like 5 to 6 dollars it wont be that big of a deal you know?
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the guy i like likes my best friend who knows i like the guy HELP!!! (link)
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GeT oVeR hIm!!he likes her and you cant change that.hes not the last guy on earth youll meet others.youll only get yourself to heartbreak if you dont get over him.
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what happens to your body if you masterbate and come a lot?
do you get ill or weak?
and do you get white spots on your face? (link)
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yes it affects you later on in a way that your muscels down there get used to too much pleasure so later on when youre married its gonna be hard to please...and no white spots on the face come because you have anemia its lack of vitamins
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I'm not asking this question to be funny or to play stupid, but I'm actually really curious. I've been wondering for a while, when you lose weight, where does it actually go? Does that make sence? Thank you. (link)
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it comes out of the sweat glands as SWEAT
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I'm a married man. I used to have a group of female friends in high school and they recently contacted me. I want to see them, but my wife would probably not want me to. Should I see them secretly, ask my wife and respect her wishes, or tell my wife and do as I please? We are just friends. (link)
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becareful not to offend your wife and definetly do not meet your freinds behind her back cuz if she happens to find out it aint gonna be pretty.be hones tell her that your going to go out with them but if she gets mad i think you shouldnt because it can ruin your marriage and shell get all jealous then you should just forget going out with them if itll anger your wife put yourself in her place how would YOU feel.goood luck
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