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Q: well i have like this guy almost about a year and i think he knows all ready. well my friend has him for 6th period and he talks to him for me and its cool but the thing is that i am shy and yesterday my frined ask him if he had a g/f and he said no and then he ask him what will he say if i ask him out and he said i don't know and yesterday i wrote hom a letter and in the letter i ask him out and today i didn't go to school and i was wondering should i give him the letter!?
Yeah give it to him or if you dont want to give it to him then just have your from give it to him in 6th period. Or just have your friend ask him out for you-trix

Q: i don`t want to sound retarded or anything but how in the heck do you delete a question? so it like won`t show up on my column? help would be greatly appreciated.
You dont sound like a retard. You sound clueless but thats okay cuz i always am. Just go to your profile settings and get everything set up how you want and it will say something about deleted questions and click the one you want it to be and if you have anymore questions about the column settings or whatever for your column then go to help and alot of these kind of questions are there to-trix

Q: after i straighten my hair.. blowdry and straighten. its always staticy.. what can i do so it wont static to my face and hands ect.
Use dryer sheets. They work like a charm. Just make sure you dont brush your hair after you rub it on your hair-trix

Q: hey i was wondering, on livejournal how do you make the WHOLE journal automatically 'friends only'. I know how to make each specific entry friends only but how do you make the whole thing friends only? anyone know? thanks
change your settings-trix

Q: hey um im in 7th grade and i have never made out before, the guy that im going out with thinks i have, but i haven't, and hes tried to make his move a couple of times, i've been going behind my parents back, im not aloud to have a boyfriend let alone frech kiss a guy. My parentes are strict, they wont even let him call me, but he does anyway, lol im scared that i'll like screw up and he would think im a bad kisser. I would have no idea what to do, help me out
There is really no way to kissing. Even french kissing. I mean its just pretty sinchy and there is real no tricks to it. Its just you and him and both your tounges! Thats it hun! nothing to it I dont thnk you need to tell your parents about french kissing that is your business so your parents dont need to know about your bf just say he is a good friend thats all ya gotta do-trix

Q: My math teacher is really cool, he is really youn
and he's friends with alot the students. I talk to him alot before class, after class, during advisory, and in class.
The other day I was talking to him before class started and I was wearing semi-new pants. I had the plastic thing that keeps the tag on them,on the side of my thigh really close to my ass. It's really small and clear but he noticed it and took it off for me. I'm wondering if this is innapropriate.
He never really makes me feel uncomfortable but it does seem odd that he noticed something that.
Do you think that this is innapropriate?
You know some people are just like that i happan to catch very small things to sometimes. things out of the ordinary im sure you will to or have sometime in your life and you just dont relize it. I dont think it was to innappriote. if this continues then you may want to tell someone.-trix

Q: ya my friend all of a sudden ignores me and barely talks to me anymore..and she ditched me and ditches me in the halls..and forgets bout me..and we use to be bffs till xmas break..and then she talked behind my back..what should i do..
u just need to talk to her about this. Its hard to go thru this exspeacially when it was with a best friend. just talk to her and see whats going on and if you did anything before you do talk to her think back if you did anything and if u did anything then make sure you concentrate on that and apologrize and see if u can do anything to make it up i hope everything works out!!-trixxie

Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months, and all we have done is make out. I told him before that i want to do more n he says that he feels the same way. But he never has done nething about it. im ready to have sex like i really love him but i dont know waht to do. Please helpp

-- me
Dont have sex anything else but that that is something you think you may be ready for but you arent so i wouold just hold that off until you are older and you are more sure on the relationship after all you are only 14 and still young and you have only been going out 4 months-trix

Q: what types of sex do you think it takes for a person to lose their virginity because people say they have had oral sex but still consider themselves to be a virgn, which doesnt really make alot of sense to me because its like the same thing basically. can you tell me what you think qualifies you to no longer be a virgin??? if u could that would be great... thx
I think it takes when u and a guy.. when the guys the *peter* goes inside you.. down there. I think that is it. And when your cherry is popped thats when you are no longer a virgin-trix

Q: my best friend told me it wuold last till the end and well now we aint so close as we use too we had this gay fight and it was my fault and i almost gave up on everything but then we came friends again and i dont know if she really forgives me but i had to ask so ya well thanx for the last advice i tell you how it turns out well love manders...........
wait what? your best friend is mad at you? Well just talk to your best friend that is all you can do and hopefully everything will work out just dont give up because best friends dont come around very often and are hard to make-trix

Q: ok so i was best friends with my neighbor steve from first grade until about sixth when he moved to a different neighborhood. during his move and after, we kind of grew apart and now i want to ask him to this big dance my school is throwing in may and i want to be his friend again because he's moving back into my neighborhood. i never see him in school and we're both in the eighth grade. how can i start talking to him again and get to know him enough again by late in may? please help me!
Yeah send him a white one and just write ben thinking about ya lately. Its not to out there but your also letting him know you are thinking about him like say id like to hang out sometime catch up on good times! im sure he will understand if you 2 were friends before hand i know i would and im sure anybody would actually-trixxie

Q: On Friday I will be going to a (non-formal) dance i want to know what to wear and how do do my hair and make-up. I need to look hot cuz my crush is going to be there and I'm trying to get him from another girl. I'm 4'6 and have sholder length brown hair and brown eyes. THANX IN ADVANCED!!!
Just wear cute jeans flared dark jeans and a cute top.. like pink maybe something shimmery that sticks out. Put your hair half up half done and the part thats in the pony tail put it in a messy bun and straighten the bottom!! that'll look really cute. And for you makeup put black eyeliner on the bottom and top of your lid. or you could put black eyeliner on and white on top and put sparkles on it. Its looks so pretty!! -trixxy

Q: What is a g-string?
its a thong but only it has a string all the way around it.. im sure you could find one at victoria's secret-trixxy

Q: me and my gf have been goin steady for 3 years. im ready for the next level and she always talks about it. WHAT DO I DO?!
If you are ready then you are ready go for it. I dont know what the next level is for you guys but make sure its safe!! And dont be rushful make sure you both are ready and if you actually get to that point then your mind changes let her know. if he mind changes respect her-trixxie

Q: hey, does anyone know how to get E flat tuning on an acoustic guitar? On the guitar tab it says "E flat tuning" but i'm not sure how to tune it. thanks a bunch xxo -*jeanine
if you have AIM then IM this person AlK3sK8rPuNk625 his name is antoine just let him know that i gave you that sn.. hope he helps-trixxie

Q: What is that old background site? That i could get a cooler background on mine. And not the backgrounds from this site. Thanks much.
www.trickletrunk.com ... thats a really awesome site!! go there!-trixxie

Q: Well, at the end of the school year, we are having a little "formal" to send off the 8th graders into highschool. My problem is what am I going to wear? Im pretty sure the dress style is formal, but I need help picking my dress/gown/skirt/whatever. Any ideas? Thanks
Herbergers, Forever 21, Mandys, Gadzooks, or Wet Seal anywhere in the mall works sweetly-trixxie!!

Q: i like this girl but i dont know if she is going out with any one and if shes not then how do i ask her out
well if you are to shy to do it in person then just do it thru a letter, note, IM, email, or thru a friend. there are alot of ways. just first find out if she is going out w/anyone and ask around and you should be golden.-trixxy

Q: Hey i need some info on teen pregnancy like web sites or hot lines i could call..or even to chat with someone who has been through it !! help me please!
well you could call or go to plan parenthood. or type in teen pregnancy at ask jeeves... thats what i did and i got alot of stuff.. so check up there-trix

Q: ok there is this guy i really like and apparently he likes me too but he wont go out with me because he doesnt like my friends..... i dont know what to do because i cant get over him but at the same time i wouldnt be able to hang out with him and my friends at the together
If he doesnt like your friends meet his friends and when you guys hang out hang out with his friends or just you 2 alone and ask him 2 give your friends another chance-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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