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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!




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Can u get pregnet by havin oral Sex?? Also will it hurt the 1st time u have oral sex?? I RATE

can you get pregnant from oral sex?!?! are you serious? does it hurt?!?! how old are you? if you dont know the answer then maybe you shouldnt be wanting to do it.

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My 15 yr old boyfriend is on vacation with his friend. Every time we talk he's always busy and says for me to call him back. He's also being a little rude to me and acting like we're not even going out. I'm trying to play off as a vacation thing. He's trying to have fun, maybe flirt a bit, etc. Do you think he's acting this way just because he's away, with his friend, wanting to talk to girls..like its some sort of 'phase' right now? I know when he comes back it'll be different and he'll be back to his old self though.

well maybe you should talk to him about how hes acting. maybe he is tryna throw signs at you that he doesnt wanna be 2gether anymore and wants to talk to other girls. or maybe it is just a phase, who knows? you'll never know til you ask him what is going on.

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Im looking to lose some weight. I work out to those workout video things..but i get real thirsty. How much water should i drink without gaining all the stuff i burned back again? I appreciate all help..i`ll rate! Thanks

-melissa-

atleast 64 oz

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Ok i went over to my friends house the other day and her neighbor who i go to high school with is really hot. Well we invited him over to go swimming and just hang out and watch movies. well he was there from 6:00 p.m. till 1:00a.m. The whole time he called me snuggle buggle and we shared our food together and he would get on the bed and put his arm around me and i layed on his back. We just sat there and cuddled. He would say how he wished he could find a girlfriend but come on he is totally hott. Do you think that he likes me or is he just a big flirt.

who knows? ask him what he wants.

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My friends cousin is so hott and i really like him but sadly he has a girlfriend. I am really happy for them but i wish that there was some way i had a chance. We get along and everything what can i do to maybe someday have a chance with him?

well maybe if he breaks up with her one day you will. but you shouldnt spend your life waiting for this guy. he is not the only one in the world.

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imma 14 year old girl..Soo..i guess i need advice on this one. I met this guy at camp..and after meeting up a little while after camp we started to like each other. i mean he's a great guy..nice, funny, and mighty fine!! only problem is..he lives like 20-25 min. away on like a highway..and he's so shy so i donno if anything will happen. soo jump on it, or wait it out?

you can try things out and see if they work out. good luck!

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is a 7 inch boner a little big for a 14 year old, if it is, do i need help?

nope... you have the littles weiner in the history of mankind

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sum guy led me on and i liked him for 2 yrs but hes a big ass flirt n he changed a lot i cant talk to him i love him um how do i get over him? PLEASE HELP ME ILL JUST GIVE OUT 5S ILL DO WHATEVER IM IN SERIOUS PAIN I SERIOUSLY CONSIDER CUTTING MYSELF BUT IM TOO SCARED SO IK I WONT PLEASEEEEEE HELP


thanx

well dont go cutting yourself over this guy thast not gonna solve anything. just calm down. go out and do something good for you. but trust me you will get over this guy. these things just take time.

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Whats strap-ons?

something taht you stap on to your face and hunp people like dogs

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Hey my friend is spending the night in a couple days and i was wondering what is some fun stuff we can do so we won't get bored fast??any movies or games u would reccomend?????help plz i rate!!!

prank call people

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Heyz ne1 know ne sites like http://hellz-angelz.cjb.net/ and http://www.quotemania.2ya.com/

u know like how they have quotez and stuff and like any sites that help u come up with sns and stuff... iz there ne other sites like that? plz tell me cuz i like those kinds of sites!
thx!!! later!!

no but i'm sure your dog does... ask your dog

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when u have sex and ur hymen rips does it hert??

is that wat the painfull part of sex is??

yeah, and the fact that your putting something that is bigger than your hole (hopefully) in there... the shit hurts

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i'm 13/f and i have a really big butt & a d cup bra. i guess i'm not ugly but i dont see myself as beautiful. older guys [14 & 15 year olds] & guys my age only like me for my body & face, and when they talk to me all they look at is my boobs. idk what to do about this..

not all guys are like that. and you need to be more confident about yourself. some girls would kill to have your figure.

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ok i wrote before about a guy i was dating and we were great friends and suddenly he became distant and stopped talking to me. btw i'm 22 and he's 32. i know i need to talk to him about this, but its been a while and im not sure how to do it. i know ppl tell me call him or talk to him in person...but its been a while and im not sure if thats the best way. is an email an ok way to make my feelings known? i was just thinking it may seem like less of an attack and he wouldnt have to answer me on the spot. so would pouring my heart out in an email do any good? i want to be careful since i will be seeing him around at picnics and things. im so confused! any advice is appreciated!!

go ahead email his heart lol :)

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ok well i like this grl but she has a b/f and she told me she likes me and thinks im hott and theres anthoer grl who likes me and i kinda like her to but when i try to ask her out she has a b/f she cant keep one for longer then 2 weeks 3 weeks tops wat should i do wait or just forget them both HELP ME PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!

forget them both. they are both whores if they are liking you and have bouyfriends. and if they do it to thier bouyfriend they will do it to you. so forget them

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What is a uti? and how do you know if you have one? write me back..

urinary track infection... it usually burns when you pee

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I am in love wit my teacher...I mean wanna F him all the time what should i do..I mean we already did it.

what? are you crazy? do you know how much trouble your teacher can get in? and what values do you have? fuckin yuor teacher? what did you fuck him for an A or something? you are a nasty ass hoe.

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have u ever shoplifted something small and not gotten caught? jw
thanx

yeah but dont do that shit cuz if you get caught you are gonna feel really stupid

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hey.. i gott this friend:we'll call her marge lol.. that iv'e had since kindergarden. and then i have this other friend: we'll call her ernest, that iv'e had since 1rst grade. i know them both so good that like there my sisters.. but now they are ditching me for each other one even promised to hang out with me on my birthday...but ditched me for ernest. even tho they talk about each other. ..what the hell am i supposed to dO?? i really hope you'll help me!!

fuck them... they wanna dis you like that after all these years...that obviously means they dont care about you or the times you had together... so fuck them

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im a boy and my like best friend thats a gurl i like her and she tell me who she likes a stuff. i jus wanna tell her to f them all and come with me but iv told her i liked her and she jus wants to b friends wat should i do cause it kinda hurt, and she asks me wat she should dop bout it.

you have to accept the fact that she just wants to be friends.

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