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its about my body..
i'm 13/f and i have a really big butt & a d cup bra. i guess i'm not ugly but i dont see myself as beautiful. older guys [14 & 15 year olds] & guys my age only like me for my body & face, and when they talk to me all they look at is my boobs. idk what to do about this..
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you're probably hotter than you think if so many guys stare at you. snap your fingers to get their attention back
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Mmm...maybe you should slap the guys that stare OR you could just get plastic surgery to make it all smaller(or get the silicone implants removed)
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i understand what you mean my friend had the same problem people only liked her for her body it sucks doesnt it? go out with some1 who you *know* that likes you for who you are! hope i helped
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well if they are too busy lookin at your boobs just tell them...umm HELLO i'm up here NOT down there lol and that will get him straight haha and get a man that loves you for you that listens to what you say girl :) good luck
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hey, i'm new to this site, this is the first advice i've given, but i figured i'd give it a shot, i'm a guy and i know all girls have answered this one but i figured i'd try to give u a guy's perspective. not that i'm saying it's ok, but i've got a lot of friends that are girls and they ask me all the time why guys do that, lol i guess cuz we're close like that. i never got it, i mean sounds stupid to get caught like that. i like just havin conversations with girls and u'll meet a guy who will like that with u too. just gotta wait for 'im. as for the others, the girls on here are right-tell 'em off.
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thats when you say- hey guess what? my face is up here.
Im sure they will look up at your face after that.
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Well what you could do is just walk away, tell (unless you don't want to be a tatle teller, and do it youself) or just ignore them. Tell them straight that what if they were girls.
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juzt like go for a guy that isnt like that, and tell all tha other guyz off!!
Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
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Tell them 0ff!!! b like ya... i just want u 2 no my face is up here!! lol!! A lotta guys are shallow!!! Im sure you'll find sum1 who isnt like that s0on!! If you have ne other ?'s Just ask me!! Lots of Luv!! <3<3 x0x
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not all guys are like that. and you need to be more confident about yourself. some girls would kill to have your figure.
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Next time a guy stares freely at your boobs, snap your fingers in his face and tell him he should be talking to your face, not your tits. You've gotta assert yourself, babe. If you don't, they'll just stare at you all they want.
Also, when you get older, guys will be a lot more mature about this kind of thing and they'll actually talk to YOU instead of your body.
Young guys are awful about that. (No offense, guys)
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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