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worried about boyfriend


Question Posted Sunday August 1 2004, 10:55 pm

My 15 yr old boyfriend is on vacation with his friend. Every time we talk he's always busy and says for me to call him back. He's also being a little rude to me and acting like we're not even going out. I'm trying to play off as a vacation thing. He's trying to have fun, maybe flirt a bit, etc. Do you think he's acting this way just because he's away, with his friend, wanting to talk to girls..like its some sort of 'phase' right now? I know when he comes back it'll be different and he'll be back to his old self though.

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keeeri answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:39 am:
hey maybe try to not call him for a while and see if he calls you..ad if he doesnt then wait until he gets hoe and try to talk to him about it..rate me if helped 8-)

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xxoBriannax answered Monday August 2 2004, 4:11 am:
Hmm, maybe hes acting like that because he just wants to have fun with his friend there, he met some girls, or he just might not like you? hope it works out with you guys.. good luck!!



-xxoBrianna

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kevin1986 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 11:43 pm:
He's acting this way because he's about to break up with you. This is very blunt,but it's the truth. He's trying to cushion the blow by blowing you off and hoping you'll end it instead because he doesn't have the guts to. If you think he's flirting with other girls,why do you want that dude anyway? You know he'll be different when he comes back? Well,how? What really makes you think he'll change? I say talk to him about what's up and see where you are from there.

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MarissaD90 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 11:28 pm:
hey,
it maybe a thing he hase. no boy wants to talk to his girlfriend while being on vacation with the guys. he maye want them to think hes cool cause he told you to call him back. if it wherre me i would stop calling him. he mite just call u

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CoLeMaRiE answered Sunday August 1 2004, 11:07 pm:
yeah well if hes actin like that around his
friend(s) and cant be nice to u at the same time its only gonna get worse...and u dont wanna be hurt...if he cares about u he wouldnt act that way... talk to him and tell him how u feel

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Courtney answered Sunday August 1 2004, 11:01 pm:
I think you should make it clear to your boyfriend about your concern and if he can't except it, well that's his problem . He should always be able to understand you because, it's basically what's best for the relationship and all. If he can't except that, well forget about him . It's alright if he looks at girls just as long as he doesn't touch and if your instincts tell u that he's lyeing, then trust them . I'm sure you're young and they're plenty of guys out there besides him . lIVE IT UP A LITTLE .

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soljette answered Sunday August 1 2004, 11:00 pm:
guys tend to act differently when theyre with other guy friends. but who knows why hes really acting that way. you should ask him, because it isnt right for him to be rude to you and to think its okay just because hes on vacation

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Hotblonde123 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 10:59 pm:
I think that u should bring it to his attention... But my boyfriend does it all the time...its not that he is tryin to act that way its just he is on vaca and havin fun with his friend....u should set a time to call him everyday....talk bout ten mins and then dont call the rest of the day.....Hope i helped....Please rate

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CheerMMS24 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 10:59 pm:
He's probably just acting like that around his friend. Guys do that a lot. Im sure he won't act like this when he gets back! <3 hope this helps, if not, drop one in my inbox! xoxo .x-me-x.

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LilMia811 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 10:58 pm:
well maybe you should talk to him about how hes acting. maybe he is tryna throw signs at you that he doesnt wanna be 2gether anymore and wants to talk to other girls. or maybe it is just a phase, who knows? you'll never know til you ask him what is going on.

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xoxoGlamGlamxoxo answered Sunday August 1 2004, 10:57 pm:
it might have to do with his friends bein around him, guys try to act all tough and stuff when they are around their friends...your rite about how he will be back to himself when he gets back...just keep an eye on him and know what he is doin for now :)

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