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i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. he comes over almost every day, considering he lives in the neighborhood next to me. every time he comes over, he thinks we always have to do stuff sexually. and the last time i saw him, i asked him if everything has to be about sex and he said yes. should i dump him, talk to him, not see him as much? help! thank u! i rate high =) (link)
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talk to him about it because if you feel uncomfortable you should be able to talk to him since you are dating. and if he feels the same way then dumb him. but first let him explain.
hope it helps
Luv Britt
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I have a friend that never kept in touch of the peopel he knew when he moved. But another person wrote a letter saying all this junk about this one person that moved and how he loved another person. This othere person dosnt talk to me any more. what should i do??? (link)
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if i were you i would try to call. write a letter or email just trying to get back in touch try to find anyway of contact. call explain and say stuff like i miss that we never talk and try calling or email or sumthing once a week. that always worked for the friend i lost touch with. and it worked well.
write back and ask me more
Luv Britt
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My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday but I am 70% sure I can get him back. Is there anything
I can do to get him back? (link)
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if your boyfriend did that i think he probly wants a "friends with benifts realsionship" with you. so he probley wants to be with you without the feelings. watch yourself thats all i can say.
hope it helps
Luv Britt
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i have a big flat nose , how do i make it look sharper and smaller ?? i've heard of clips you can pinch on ur nose bridge and it supposedly helps . does it ? (link)
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if you dont want to get surgery just try shading along the sides with like a bronzer that should help.
hope it helps
Luv Britt
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I have this friend who used to be my best friend ever. We still talk alot and she is still a good friend but we have been spreading apart. We always talk about how we dont hang out enough but every time I try to hang out with her she is out with other friends or wont call me back or just doesnt pick up. Its making me really frustrated because she is awesome but I am to the point where I just want to stop trying because she never trys to hang out with me Im always trying to hang out with her. Should I just give up? And is she just trying to tell me she dosent care anymore?
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no, because there is a chance that they might be just busy. that or they might just want to blow you off. but i had the same problem and we didnt talk for a year. and we started just saying hi and then she asked me if i wanted to go to the movies and it was alot of fun. we cought up alot.so dont worry just dont act obsessed.
hope it helps
luv Britt
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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 13 going on 14 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've already talk to them about it, have you ever got fingered of done ti to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate! (link)
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you ask your parents these kinda things. im 13 and i never ask my parents these kinda things i think you should keep it quiet because i dont really know one person who asks or tells there parents things like this.
hope it helps stay safe!!!
luv Britt
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How do you know when you truely love someone? How can you be sure that you do love them? Please help, thanks. (link)
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its like if you were to go out with someone and that the one you think you love is always on your mind.
hope it helps
Luv Britt
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YA i know this is weird since i have an advice colum (lilcutie1212) But i really dont know what to do. Im in middle school in 8th grade and my boyfriend is in 10th grade I dont see him alot becuase he is like at terravilla and i am at westglades. I love him alot and everything but i dont know if I should trust him like if he would cheat on me. But i dont know what to do because I dont want to dump him because he is the best thing that ever happened to me. I love him sooo much! Please Please Help me! Ok?
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Sry its long! (link)
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well ask him if he wants to go to the mall. or if he is in any sports at school go to his games and meet up afterwards and he will want to hang hopefully. and then everything should happen from there.
hope it helps
luv Britt
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Ok, i like this guy, lets call him Ryan. And im positive that he likes me back. But i get really nervus around him. I'm not shy to call him but i sound all shaky when i talk because of the nervusness. (sp?) Should i ask him if he wants to go to a movie with me and my friend to get to know him better? (link)
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yea ask him but ask him if he wants to bring anybody along so that way you know if he wants to hang just with you or a group.
hope it helps
luv Britt
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Ok i am DAting this guy and i am like the kind of girl who likes to take things slow and build up are relationship first and on or third date hoe is already wanting to kiss me i dont want to hurt his feelings but i do want him do be my boyfriend _HELP_
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tell him that you want to take things slower and if he likes you he will stay with you
hope it helps
luv Britt
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Theres this guy who've i've gotten really close to recently, and i'm kind of starting to like him. hes a 3 years older than me, but we realte to each other so well. i know this sounds cliche, but i reaaaally don't wanna ruin a friendship, since we can talk so easily with each other. should i leave it alone, or drop some hints and see if he catches on? (link)
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drop hints totally,
he should get the point and if he doesnt send and back just take your approach a bit slower and then it should fall into place.
hoep it works out
luv Britt
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im 16 and my bf popped my cherry while fingereing me about 3 days ago and its still bleeding a little is that normal? if so how long does it take for the bleeding usually to stop? (link)
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yea it is totally normal. even though i am a virgin i know. it is probley that it is leaking still. so it should go away soon.
stay safe
luv Britt
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does anybody know where i can find codes to put in my live journal? like ...
love me (link)
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srry no
luv Britt
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Im 13/m and i have feelings for one of my friends the only problem is that im to chicken to do anything because i like being friends and i dont want to ruin anything. Should i ask her out and risk it or play it safe and be content as just friends? (link)
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if i wear you i would ask her out. but dont put it out there hint and then put it out there so she is not in such shock. that way she can get the idea and if she responds back it should be great.
hope it works out tell me what happens!!!
luv Britt
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I really like this boy and he says that he really likes me, however he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to hurt her by dumping her. He is always with me and he tells me that he cares and wants to be with me, but I don't want to get hurt. It hurts me enough to know that he has a girlfriend, I have never loved like this before. Everytime he kisses me I seem to melt. I want him so badly, but what about his gf. he is afraid and so am I? (link)
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i think you have to know when is to far wait till they break up
luv Britt
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What are some good, quick, easy ways to gain self confidence and self esteem? And to be able to be more outgoing? (link)
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ways to help my self esteem is listen to music skeatch and do things to get stuff off my chest. and what helps is i dance like crazy until im out of breath. lol
hope it helps
luv Britt
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(Sorry lame queation everyone hates answering BUT...)Well I just started going out with this guy, "Greg" and I really like him and he really likes me. But the problem is, neither of us are very touchy-feely people, and so my friends are constantly yelling at me for not holding his hand, giving him a kiss, etc. Well I think that I should, so what should i do to just be a little bit more physical, I guess... (link)
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well if he isnt doing anything he probley isnt ready or he might like you for your attitude and personality which is alot better. everything will fall into place after that.
hope it works out.
luv Britt
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Me and my boyfriend always end up in these steamy makeout sessions with either him on top of me or me on top of him... which ever way we end up we're usually rubbing our bodies together and i think you get the point... what would this be considered as? please tell me... and do you guys consider this bad? we're both virgins and we both believe in abstinence... we never "touched" eachother in inappropriate ways either.. except for maybe on the butt a few times.... but that's it! (link)
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well it depends if your in love him but if you belive in abstinence than make sure you dont go to far and make sure when you no to much is enough
hope it works out stay safe.
luve Britt
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hello. i am a girl and 14 years old. i have a boyfriend. he is the sweetest most wonderful person you can ever meet. there is this other boy in school and he told me he liked me. yesterday, i was in school and i said "im bored, i want to makeout" my cousin went over to the boy and told him to go to the restroom when i went. i went to the restroom and he was there. i like him too. so then we kissed. i feel bad about this. i kissed another boy when im going out with another one. i feel so guilty and i dont think it meant anything to him. But i feel like i did something really really bad. i dont know what do to. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend in any way. what should i do? (link)
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well ask yourself who do you like more. if you dont want to hurt your boyfriends feelings stop seeing that one guy. tell him that your have a great boyfriend and he should but out.
hope it works out
Luv Britt
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i worked my but off in math, but i still got a 58% on my test! I try and try so hard, bt i never get my homework. I am not stupid, i get straight a's in every class but math. I used to be fine with math but now i am struggling. What can i do to imporve my grade before report cards?
P.S. extra credit is not allowed (link)
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i had the same problem this year and i didnt know what to do i would studie and studie and studie but nothing ever worked so i talked to the teacher and asked if i could come in after school and i asked if she wouldnt tell any1 and she didnt now im doing great
hope it works out
luv Britt
p.s. if this doesnt work ask me again and ill help you think of diffrent ideas for help. write back thanxs
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