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Hey, Im from Connecticut and I LOVE giving advice... and Im always here for you if you need to ask me anything... i can answer all types of Questions.. don't be shy (i have had my fair share of embarassing ?'s.. so u can't say anything i prob. haven't heard ;)...)lol.. Anyways..

^ Thats just so you know a little more about me.. so you can know the personality behind the advice that I give ;).. If you want to know more about me or if you need any advice you can im me or leave one in my inbox ;)

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Okay, I'm having trouble with my column. I put in an HTML code for an add on design, and ever since then it won't let me edit a single thing. I can't even erase the code I PUT in!! Not a single thing will change!! Can someone tell me why this is?? If you wanna check it out.. my column is "Mackenzie". Also, not only will it not let me edit, some of my codes don't work anymore, and my 'conversation box' (?) is gone also! Can someone please tell me what I can do about this! It'd be MORE than appreciated!!

Contact the Head of this site.. thats all i can think of... sorry... hope i helped...

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I had sex about 6 days ago, and i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period sometime this week, or at the end of the month! WHat do i do if i dont have my period, i wouldnt kno what to do because i dont talk to my parents about this stuff..pleez help me!!!

Take a pregnancy test....If that turns out positive(as in yes) then you have your options

Adoption
Keeping the baby
Abortion

Signs of pregnancy are nausea,fatigue,uncomfortablness,cravings etc.

^Just to let you know if you don't have a test

Good Luck..:) if you need anymore advice just im me or leave one in my inbox


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today after goin out to the mall n movies.. i realized i liked this one kid "casey" alottt.. it waz tha first time ive seen him since school ended.. because days when i go out he doesnt.. and when i dont go out he does. but i saw him today n ran up to him because we are like best friends. we started talkin n all dat stuff. he would always call me alot. and i found out he liked me but supposedly he doesnt anymore. but wheneva someone asks him about me he says "i dont like her anymore" but he has a huge smile on his face. we flirt alot but do u think he likes me or is it just a best friends thing?

Well.. the reason hes saying that stuff could be because...he hasn't seen you since school ended... GIRL CALL HIM UP AND MAKE PLANS!!!!:) lol..If your flirting then it could def. turn into something... friends make the best boyfriends.. I think he still likes you but you need to reignite the flame between you to. Go see a movie as just friends(for now) and do other stuff.. bowl etc. you could bring other friends (but i suggest not bringing girls who are also interested in him ...lol just tellin you from my past experiences ;)..)


Well I hope i helped...


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My boyfriend & I never spend any alone time, just the 2 of us. I guess it's mostly my fault, because it just freaks me out a little being alone with him, I don't know why. Anyways, I would like to go down the shore with him, along with my older brother & his friends. Everyone there is really responsible & my mom is not letting me. She doesn't think its right for me to go down the shore with a boy! I don't get, I'm going to be with my own brother and older, responsible people! What could happen & whats the problem??

Your moms not stupid. She knows many things can happen when your alone on the shore with a boy ;)... even if your not the type to do those things...they can still happen. I say get your older brother involved.. let him tell her that he will keep his eye on you 2 .. and assure your mom nothing will happen....after a while of convincing .. it should work. If it doesnt then bring another friend along.. but warn the friend ahead of time that at some point you would like to be alone with your boyfriend and she can go look for seashells or something.... (im sure you can come up with something for her to do while your with you man) And if that doesn't work then do something else with your guy... go to the movies alone with him.. not much can happen in the movies... riiight;)


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wut do i do?!?!?! i have a huge pimple!! how can i get rid of it soon!?!?! ah!! help!!

Don't sweat it.. its just a pimple.. everyone gets them.. but if you want a quick fix put some make up on it..or use clearasil or oxy.. toothpaste will only take away the redness and you need the white kind. Good Luck.. and remember no one will get grossed out by a pimple.. everyones got 'em

hope i helped


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hey i have a friend who is sooooooo obsessed with her boyfriend and she is on the phone with him all the time and it gets sooo annoying but i love her too much to tell her that! and like what should i say to her and plus he is pretty ugly!! ick he is gross!
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Well you don't have to tell her its annoying or anything but... you could maybe tell her that Since they have been dating you feel sort of left out like she isn't making time for you anymore and when you call you can never get through because shes always on the phone w/him... If she takes it offensively and gets mad at you then just let her be.. becuse when this guy turns around and breaks her heart.. your the shoulder she'll be lookin to cry on..

Hope I helped...


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Thanks for answering my question earlier, out of all the responses I got yours was probably the most helpful, this whole thing has so many weird problems that I couldnt include in my question though that I'd love to IM you sometime, just to have someone whose non-objectionable that can give me more advice, I'm not sure how to Im you though, I have msn and aol instant messenger on my comp but i'd need your sn.

Thanx :)...my aim is on my column .. but its oSoInLoveWithYou

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all my friends have a bf...when ever they talk about him i feel realyl lonely bcuz i dont have a bf...what can i do to feel not so left out?

Well talk about a boy your interested in.. Or when they talk about there boyfriends just say.. I know how you feel about them but When you talk about them i feel left out.. or hang out with other girls who dont have b/fs.. or get a bunch of your friends 2gether and do sumthing like an Amusement Park
Movies
Bowling
Swimming
Sleep Over

and just talk about other things... Don't let not having a b/f stop you from having fun and talking to ur girls cuz they have b/fs... cuz eventually you will have one and one of them won't and they'll see how it is.



Hope I helped...

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if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds

Well theres a difference between you not liking him and not knowing him.. if you don't like him. then just say "look.. i know you like me but its never going to work out between us.. were just not meant for eachother and we have nothing in common" If you don't know him then say " Your a really sweet guy but we don't know eachother well enough to date and i would just like to stay friends"

That way if you don't know him then you can get to know him and maybe you would like who he is!:)

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i sweat a lot when ever i am working out. so in team practice it gets a little annoying and embarsing...what do i do?

Try getting Anti-Persperant(sp).. but who knows you might have a gland problem if its really bad and then theres meds you can take for that.. or you can see a doctor.

hope i helped

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what is wrong with being a lesbian i mean everyone is always making a big deal what is it?

Nothing is wrong w/being a lesbian... its a personal thing and if someone wants to be a lesbian then its there choice, they shouldn't be ridiculed for it. Its just what your attracted to

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My boyfriends friends don't approve of me.. and he has only been ahnging out with the 2 that do this summer so far.. but now hes hanging out with the other ones again.. and there the reason we broke up the other times... I mean.. i know i have no control over who he hangs with but would it be wrong of me to maybe ask him in the nicest way possible to not spend time with them so much?? I don't want him to dump me again because of them!!!:(

I sort of have the same problem. Some of my b/fs friends don't like me...but now that its summer he doesn't hang around them too much. but even when he does.. we have grown so close that it doesn't bother him anymore what his friends say. So i say if you and your b/f have a close relationship...and you love him and he loves you then not to worry about it. If his friends start dissing you then he should either have enough courage to stand up to them or just forget what they say and forget them. Your his girlfriend.. and if you trust him and he loves you and your relationship is a good one.. then just let him hang out with them.. maybe you all could even hang out so you can all become friends. That way theres no more negativity...


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This year while I was vacationing in a place I regularly visit I met a girl. The night after I met her I drank way to much and ended up losing my virginity with her. I was really beating myself up over it the next morning, but it turned out that we hooked up for the entire time I was vacationing, however we never slept together again. The problem is, she doesn't know she was my first. She actually thinks she was my 3rd. Now im beating myself up for lying to her, but Im afraid that if I tell her now things could get awkward and I may not ever see her again. I feel horrible about lying, but if things got weird between me and her and I lost contact with her I would probably fall over and just never get up. I'm not sure whether to tell her, and if I do, I'm not sure how or when. I am extrememly thankful for any help someone can give me.

Honesty is the best policy.. if you want this relationship to go anywhere, then you def. need to tell her the truth. Tell her your sorry that you lied but you were nervous ebcause you really liked her and you didnt want her to think that you were a loser because "all your friends have done it" for example. The longer you wait.. the worse it will be..Chances are she won't mind.... Maybe if she told you shes done it... and you come foward and say it was your first then she might tell you it was her first too. Who knows? I know you may regret it.. but talk to her about that to.. Just say "I know that we did it.. but Im not really ready to do it again.."(for example) thats only if your not.. well goodluck


hope i helped...


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Good Luck! I hope she understands and everything works out for you!!!


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i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
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Don't do anything unless you want to... I understand that you think hes the one and you want to please him... but what happens if hes not.. then what would you do?,especially if you don't like them and you only got them for him. Be happy with your body... and your b/f should be to. And if you decide not to and you tell him and that makes him angry then maybe hes not the one.Plus your only 18.. you have so much more time before the future really happens and takes place. Plus theres alot of risks with that and if your happy with them.. then just be yourself with the boobs that you have. You were made the way you were made and no one should tell you to change that unless you absolutely want to.. So if YOU want to get implants.. so be it.. but make sure the choice is completely yours .. NOT his.He should love you and accept you.. no matter what your bra size is.

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Ok i personally love the SURF look.. even tho i havent surfed yet ((gr)) but i love the look. I like to shop at Pacsun and stuff but can anyone give me like steps to a true surf look.. like hair, makeup (if any), clothes from head to toe in detail. Thanks, i appreciate the help.. and can anyway give me any other good stores surf style besides PacSun.. thx and this qu. is for people who would know.. please dont leave an answer saying i have no clue or surfers suck or something mean like that.

Some good stores to buy surfing things are:

IslandH20
Blue Planet Surf Gear
Pacific Wave
Robin Hood WaterSports
West Coast Surf Shop
PacSun lol(durr)

If none of those stores are near you then you can always go and buy stuff from online..
I think thatmost surfers wear tropical flower patterns and sometimes the girls have braids in there hair... and make-up..most of them go for the natural look... or if you want you can get some hair product that give your hair a wet shine.. for that right out of the ocean look..


hope I helped..

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Last night.. i was with my boyfriend... and we were in the moment. I let him finger me and then we had sex. I am only 14 and it was my first time. I wasn't really ready, but I was just so much into the moment. What should I do?

He didn't pressure me into it. I just let him do it. He has asked me in the past if it would be alright for him to finger me. I told him I would let him when the time was right.

Do I talk to him about last night.. or should I just let it be and not let it happen again?

Def. talk to him about it.. otherwise how will he know if you liked it or not. Just be honest with him, tell him you weren't ready and if and when you are.. you will let him know. 14 is young.. and you were just caught up in the moment but at least you know what you feel and if you don't want to do it again then trust me.. DON'T DO IT.. you'll end up regretting it in the future.. If you guy doesnt understand then leave him.. you need a respectful guy..

hope i helped..

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Good Luck w/everything

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ok i have been seeing this kid for like a month and im really starting to like him alot... but we are just "dating" and now his ex is like trying to jump back in... which i think shes a total bitch and he knows i do... is this just jealousy im feeling or is there something i can do. i hope she doesnt steal him... .

nicole

Nicole
If this guy really likes you then he shouldn't let his exes ways influence him.. if he does then hes not worth your time.. now is he??? But there are ways to make it clear to her that you 2 are an item and not them... hold his hand in public (alot while shes around) Hugg alot in front of her.. kiss in front of her.. and if she trys giving you attitude then tell it like it is.. and let her know that he is your man and she can just forget it. Dont be afraid to speak up or else you will let him get away. Also talk to this guy and ask him if he could maybe tell her and make it clear to her that hes with you and that there not going to "happen" so she can stop trying...



Hope I helped..


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does anyone know any good clothes stores with cheap clothes? i'm not saying cheap cheap but cheaper than abercrombie type cheap. help asap! i rate REALLY good!

Well since not all of us are high-class and can't afford expensive clothes but we still want to look good.. we often run into this problem..

Here are a lis of stores that i think you can get high-class quality for low low prices..

Walmart
K-mart
TJ Maxx
JC Penny
Ames
Marshalls
any of those are good... and they have cool styles.. if you need more advice leave one in my inbox or im me ;)

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Okay, well I liked this boy from last yr ( i'm over him though), but I was always curious about him. Last year, he was an assshole to me like saying "piss off" on IM but at school, he's all flirty with me, staring at me, gives me looks (good), smirks at me or whatever, what does this mean?

Lilly

Hes playin w/your mind. Hes probably into you now that he knows your not into him anymore. Don't give him looks back cuz you'll fall into his trap... instead get your mind on a new guy and forget him.. a few smiles can't make up for his jerky ways...And the only reason he would stay stuff mean to you on AIM is because he doesn't have the balls to say it to your face... go get a new guy and shut that one behind the door and lock it ;)


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i really have gas problems and im not trying to be funni or anything i kno its gross! but it's knda serious! please if you have any info please rite back... im to embaressed to go to the doctor!

Well if you have gas problems, try Gas-X ... and if that doesn't help,then try checking what you eat.. do you eat alot of beans, certain vegetables.. sometimes milk if your not very tolerant of it...if its not any of that.. then you need to see a doctor.. because it could be something serious and it might only be fixed by a doctors perscription!

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