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me & my boyfriend
My boyfriend & I never spend any alone time, just the 2 of us. I guess it's mostly my fault, because it just freaks me out a little being alone with him, I don't know why. Anyways, I would like to go down the shore with him, along with my older brother & his friends. Everyone there is really responsible & my mom is not letting me. She doesn't think its right for me to go down the shore with a boy! I don't get, I'm going to be with my own brother and older, responsible people! What could happen & whats the problem??
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maybe she doesnt trust you or something.. shes just looking out for you though.. she doesn't want anything to happen and maybe she doesnt trust that your brother will really pay much attention to you because his friend is going too.. i dunno but if your afraid to be around him then maybe its best he doesnt go with u! -- the only thing i can tell you is that its okay to be alone with him sometimes.. every guy and girl in a relationship needs to be alone SOMETIMES and you know.. its going to be okay because if he does something that you really dont want to do or makes you feel uncomfortable all you have to do is tell him and hopefully he'll be man enough and repsect that and stop.. otherwise you should probably dump him and he doesnt stop!-- just let your mom know that you are responsible enough to be with him at the shore and suck up to her =) lol thats what i'd do..
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What COULD happen? Well everything. But your mom is still being a little out of line here. You shouldn't freak out being alone with your guy. Just relax. This depends how old you are. If you're 13 and he's 18,then hell no, I wouldn't let you go anywhere with this guy. Ask her why she's not letting you go down to the shore with him. Tell her you've always been responsible(which you have been, right?)and that she can trust you. Remind her that your bro will be along and that everything will be ok. If she still doesn't let you go,then your mom has Bitch Syndrome.
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hmmm how old r u....well i noe tht parents kan be ^&*$$####$@ but honeslty u do have to respect ur parents commands...ur mom probally is juss an overprotective person...she loves u and she doesnt want u to get hurt (from wht i have no earthly idea) but i also have to ask,...how long have u been noeing him....? meaybe if ur mom got to noe him a lil better ,....maybe u could go together,...and maybe ur bro isnt that responsible or ur mom noes that he might let yall get away with stuff
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Your moms not stupid. She knows many things can happen when your alone on the shore with a boy ;)... even if your not the type to do those things...they can still happen. I say get your older brother involved.. let him tell her that he will keep his eye on you 2 .. and assure your mom nothing will happen....after a while of convincing .. it should work. If it doesnt then bring another friend along.. but warn the friend ahead of time that at some point you would like to be alone with your boyfriend and she can go look for seashells or something.... (im sure you can come up with something for her to do while your with you man) And if that doesn't work then do something else with your guy... go to the movies alone with him.. not much can happen in the movies... riiight;)
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xoxo hope i helped
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i think you should tell your mom some reasons like:
i will be very responisble
my brother will be there
he is very responisble
if i do something wrong my brother is there
*-i hope i could help-*
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