Hi I'm Jeannie.I would love to help you with any questions you may have, so feel free to ask, no question I would ever consider stupid or embarassing so don't worry. Also, I am a college student, and I have been through a few things, so if you would like my opinion just ask, if not then please specify. And remember that you are beautiful no matter what you feel or what you are going through. :)
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The Favorite" by Kathy White, is it a play? (link)
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Actually, the playwrights from the Walden Theatre Conservatory, all got together to write a book together. Each one wrote something different, like teenage love, losing a loved one or something serious like cutting yourself. It is just a bunch of different monologues put together, so it can be considered a play. But if you need this for school or something, I would check with your teacher, b/c I needed a monologue from a published play and my teacher let me do the Favorite by Kathy White. SO ask your teacher, b/c I would say that yes it is a play.
Good luck with everything, sorry about the confusion. :)
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I'm really interested in my friend who we'll call J. I've know him for a couple months now, but we only talk in school. He seems interested in me as well. Another friend of mine, who we'll call B, told me not long ago she's starting to like him. She got him to join drama with us, and at drama she hangs all over him. I'm not like that, it's just not me.
He's very smart, and no offense to her, but she's not the brightest bulb. It's a rollercoaster of emotions going from confidence to discouragement. I need some help to say the least.
Help me? (link)
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Well everyone has moments where they feel discouraged or not good enough. But if B wants to hang all over him, then let her, b/c eventually he will see through it and itll get old. But if you stay true to yourself, most guys do value that. And show him that you are comfortable in your own skin, and that will make him like you more. Also if he doesn't know you like him which I'm assuming he already does, you should just tell him. The only way I can help you is to say I lived it, I had a friend like that, and I stayedtrue to myself and it has made me so happy. I am proud of the person that I am. I have met a couple nice guys who like me b/c I am myself, I don't try to be something I'm not. And I'm proud of you that don't act like something your not. The only way I can help you is to just be yourself, have fun and get to know him, b/c I do believe that things happen for a reason, and if it is meant to be, itll happen. I promise. Just wait and see :)
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okay me and my boyfriend made 5months this monday, and its been pretty qood, like monday he and i was happy that it's been 5months and at the end of the day at school monday he was like "5months baby" and all over me, but our relationship is kinda weird, like i love him and he loves me, but there's days where our love is strong and there's days our love isn't strong and i kinda hate it, because it hurts mee alot, like i dont know what to do, i try to be all over him, but no pushy thouqh, but its whatever too him. And when we have days like these i hate it, and it really hurts me, can you hellp please because i have no idea what to do. (link)
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Well congrats on your five month anniversary. Thats great! I understand where you are coming from with love fading in and out. That is normal because you guys will have moments when its completely passionate and then times where its just whatever, and yea it does hurt. But what you should do is first talk to him about it, maybe if he sees that it hurts you he will look for ways to avoid the hurtful days. Also a lot of it is the commonality. Like, do you guys have stuff in common, because if not then the relationship will just fizzle unfortunately. All realtionships require work. Thats what you should do, is you give a little he gives a little, and if it just seems like one of you is more into it then the other, then it probably wont work. Next time you feel this way, think of something you both have in common, then go do it, like say it is bikeriding, if you guys start to have a whatever moment, go for a bike ride and just talk. It'll be fun, active and it just might fix those awkward moments.
I hope I helped you figure this out a little bit, and good luck with everything, give it a chance, after all you made five months, congratualtions!
:) Jeannie
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How do I talk to my parents about sex and purity? Whenever I bring somthing up with my dad he gets mad at me and with my mom it just gets akward. What can I do? I want to stay pure till marrige, Im thinking about getting a purity ring just as a reminder whenever it starts to go to far with a boy. How can I bring up a conversation with my parents. I have a little sister(11) if that helps at all. Thanks in advance! (link)
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First of all I wanted to say Congratulations on making the decision to stay pure until marriage. I actually do wear a purity ring, and I just told my parents that I wanted one. If your parents make it impossible to talk too, then talk to another trusted adult, maybe an aunt or even your pastor.
The ring is a good reminder that sex comes after marriage, and I am not going to lie to you, it is hard. It is tempting to give in to sex, but the ring is a constant reminder to me, to stop and remember that my promise to God comes before my own feelings. It is a big step, but well worth it. And especially since you have a little sister, your ring will be a good influence on her to wait until she is married.
And if you say to your parents that you are old enough and mature enough to discuss sex they very well may listen, especially if you say that you want to wait until you are married. They may be acting weird b/c they realize that you are growing up. Explain to them how you feel about it and that you want to talk about sex.
Sex convos are always awkward with parents, I'm sorry it is true, just talk to your mom and say it feels awkward but it is necessary and that you feel like you can't talk to your dad b/c he gets mad. Let her in maybe she needs to know how you feel.
Good luck with everything, and congrats on your decision. It really is a good one.
:) Jeannie
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Kay, so I need a female, 2 min. dramatic monologe (link)
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if you look on Neil SImon's monologue website there is usually a bunch of funny and serious monologues to choose from. The one I competed with from last year was called "The Favorite" by Kathy White, the book is called " Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night". Another one from there would be "Picking Scabs."
Another good one is from the play "Have you heard?" and the monologue is said by Cleo. She talks about her boyfriend dying in a car accident.
Another good serious monologue that is kinda long so you would have to cut it would be "Mom the Mercer and Me, from the play "The American Car, the American Dream."
Best of luck to you, and if you need anymore ideas let me know.
If you don't like Neil Simon, then type in Miscellaneous Monologues, usually a bunch of stuff comes up.
:) Enjoy!
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Okay so pretty much me and my ex broke up 4 months ago but this is the only guy I have ever considered being in love with and Im not one to take that kinda stuff lightly you know? I seriously love this kid and I know that will never change even when I move on. Well after the break up I had to stop talking to him because it hurt to be around him. So after a while me and another one of my ex's started talking again and now we make-out when we hang out. The thing is I do not have those kinda feelings for him anymore and I feel horrible because I know im leading him on. I seriously feel empty of any feelings towards people right now. Especially him. SO how can I tell him that I cant talk to him anymore because I can't handle it right now. It seriously kills me that I have done this plus im still no were near being over my most recent ex. I feel horrible but I know i need to end this before it gets any worse.... Help anyone?
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You need to tell him. You may have already been leading him on, but the longer you go without saying anything the harder things will be and the more damage will be caused.
Next time you see him, tell him exactly how you feel. Will this anger and hurt him, honestly yeah it might, but the truth does hurt and honesty is the best policy. I think you should sit him down and say to him about how you are not over your ex, and still love him (the recent ex). Make sure he knows,and also build him up, tell him what a great guy he is so you don't crush his self esteem. Let him know that none of it is his fault and leave it at that. You may lose his friendship right now, just know that before anything else happens, to just be honest with yourself and him, b/c if you aren't, things will come crashing down around you. Believe me.
Good luck with everything, and it is never too late to make it right.
All the best, :)
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Ok so here it is... So I was dating this guys named Kenny right and like he was amazing to me and everything and like I loved to be around him and just spend time with him. (ok to fill you in He has a kid a little baby girl with another girl) ok so anyway like the saturday before we were talking and things got serious and he asked me some weird questions like is it wrong to break up with someone for no reason and stuff like that then I started to freak out thinking he was going to break up with me because I come up with this whole scenario that is Ex wanted to get back together with him and it just so happened to be true and then he told me all this stuff that he loved here still because she was his first love but he will always hate her for breaking his heart so bad and then like ever since then I felt distant from him and I was scared then he called me that Monday night and said that he didn't think we were on the same page and yeah like so he broke up with me and I don't even see where he got that from because I though that we were happy together and don't know like after he broke up with me I knew that he was going to get back together with is Ex and he did and one of my friends was talking to him and his excuse for breaking my heart was that she is his babies mama and that he still loved her.... so here is the thing like I am mad that he would do that to me and I feel betrayed because I trusted him so much and that I already have trust issues and that I had done things with him that I have never don't with anyone else ever in my life and I feel ashamed that I ever even considered giving it up to him if you know what I mean... and yeah he just broke my heart... ok but here is the really big deal... I am mad at him but I don't hate him.. and I probably should but I don't and you know I don't even want my friends mad at him and I still wanna be friends with him because I would rather just be friends than not have him in my life at all....
is this a bad thing am I making a bad choice?? (link)
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First off, I am sorry things didn't work out for you and Kenny. But maybe it is for the best. And no, it is not wrong to hate him, what you feel is your business really and theres no wrong way to love or hate someone. You have a reason to be mad b/c he did break your heart, but hating can be alittle extreme. Its good that you still want him in your life it shows you have strong character and are able to get back up on your feet when pushed down. Thats good. And talk to your friends, tell them your hurt things didn't work out with Kenny, but you don't want them to hate him for it.
And I'll tell you the truth, you can't help who you fall in love with, and although he wasn't right for you you will find someone else. So he wasn't right for you, just be optimistic about it and thank your lucky stars b/c dating a guy that already has a kid can be kind of stressful and with him still loving her, you know there would always be drama involved.
But good luck with everything, you are on the right path, keep your head up high and never stop believing in love.
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I am a 17 year old female, out of high school, young mother working at walmart. He is a 19 year old " cowboy type " works at his dads trailor parks all the time. I have strech marks from being pregnant unforantly. We were going to have sex with we have many times before and he wanted me to take my shirt off and i wasn't comfortable with that not yet anyways. well we just sat there and didnt talk he fell asleep. I woke him up and told him to get dressed and i took him home. he left his wallet in my car ( the only reason he called me that night) i gave him the wallet the next day after seeing 3 pictures of girls in his wallet. Once he told me about one picture and told me it was a old friend of his. that day we talked maybe once after dropping it off. then the next day i didnt talk to him until 8 o'clock on my lunch break and i stopped at his house and we talked a little he said he was gonna call me after work and he hasn't called. am i wasting my time with this?? I have a friend whos like my best friend and i sort of have feelings for but its just a "crush" and i can cope with it i mean i really really love my boyfriend a ton.
thanks in advance for your opinions on my situation sorry so long. (link)
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Honestly if what he is doing is upsetting you, like with the pictures of girls in his wallet or not calling you back, then you need to talk to him about it. I don't think you should just dump him. I mean he may not know that something is bothering you unless you speak up and say something. So just talk to him when you both have time. And about not wanting to take your shirt off, no one can force you to do something you aren't comfortable with. Explain to him about how the stretch marks bother you. The longer things go left unsaid the more harder and strained the relationship will feel. Maybe its time for you guys to have a talk, b/c relationships take work, and you guys love eachother so it is def. worth keeping and working out.
Good luck with everything, and congratulations on your child. :)
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Well, I usually don't like to complain, but maybe someone wants to listen and possibly help. I'm 16 and I'm just going through a semi depressive state at the moment. I feel moderately insecure; it's like I always have to prove myself to myself, because I want to be someone but I have no idea who I am supposed to be. I always hear that one has to "be themselves" but being myself has gotten me into this strange state in my adolescence and if I don't do something different, how will I ever leave this state? And because I constantly want to change something about myself, I kind of feel like a poser/wannabe type person. I'm not sure if others see me this way though because mostly I stay out of people's way. I'm pretty friendly actually. My best friend is a great person, but she is a bit disconnected from my struggle. She has a lot on her own plate to deal with. Other than her, my only other friends attend a different school. I see them every so often, but they all have their own lives and over the years, we've developed different interests, ideas, and points of views.
Still, I yearning for someone to rescue me from this monotonous way of life that I've developed. So, at the start of this school year I decided I should go on a hunt for a crush because he might make life fun again. Well I found him and all, and we were getting along great, but then I blew it due to my awkwardness/insecurities. I pretty much scared him away. I'd be scared of me too. Now I like this new guy, but am deathly scared to interact with him for fear of scaring him as I did with the previous dude. But we have a lot in common, me and this guy, and I know that if we just talked normally, he'd possibly want to be my friend. He definitely knows who I am and all, but I refuse to be the one to start talking first.
I do have good intentions and am extremely intelligent(sorry if I'm boasting here) but I am not too good at making connections with people. I do love people though! And I love life and even death. But, aghhh who can I connect with? My brother and I can go on all night discussing theories of the universe and existence, but I want someone my own age. Maybe I'm just selfish and I need to get a life, but is it too much to ask for? No one that I know really knows how I'm feeling because I don't like to annoy people with my petty problems, but I wish I had someone to talk to, instead of spending my weekends in my room comparing my life to Radiohead songs all day. Can someone, especially the adults, shed some words of wisdom or something, ANYTHING, that might help?! Thanks guys :) (link)
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Honestly the only person who can save you from your monotonous way of life is yourself. When you are down and feel like your 50 feet under thats when you find who you are. When you are depressed and upset and don't know who to lean on to help you, you learn of your inner strength. What the heck does that mean? It means that when say something doesn't go right and you feel like a mess, you look for reasons to live and be happy. You basically find what makes you happy,for instance, whether it be a sport like surfing, that works for me b/c it is such a rush and when I am on a wave I feel like I am on top of the world. Another thing is acting, I love putting myself into other peoples shoes, b/c I feel like I can be anyone I want to be. Does that make sense? I understand where you are coming from, it is hard when people say just be yourself, its like um...mkay how? I understand that, and to tell you the truth, I don't fully know who I am yet, but I am becoming more and more comfortable in my own skin everyday. I did that by making my own decisions and basing my life on what I want from it. If I go to parties I don't feel the need to drink just b/c everyone else is, I know alcohol doesn't work for me, and thats okay.
And I highly doubt you will annoy ppl with your problems, I love listening to people so if you would ever like to talk aboutlife or highschool or even religion, write back to me with your email, and we can keep in touch about things. I honestly don't mind listening at all. I promise.
And as for the religion thing, God is what keeps me in balance.He truly is what keeps me alive, He is the one that has pulled me from my depression and pain. I cannot make you believe something that you may not feel, which is why you need to talk to your mother about your faith and religion. I am sure she'll listen and help you find a better way of understanding. Thats the thing about faith is that we don't always understand it and that makes it hard to believe at times, but it is okay if we fail every now and again, b/c we are human and entitled to mistakes, and God does understand that.
And if you don't want to eat meat, then don't eat meat. Talk to your parents about it, and develop a healthy eating plan that doesn't involve meat.
Everything will work out for the best, as they say, this too shall pass.
Good luck with everything and if you want to talk, just let me know :)
~Jeannie
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Do you think it is okay for your first kiss to be with a random stranger ? wether your at a party or maybe a gathering. I want my first kiss but im debating on wether i want it with a random hott guy so theres no strings attached or someone I know and like. But would a stranger be not a good thing? (link)
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Honestly you should just wait for the right time and the right place. b/c when it is right youll feelit, so rather then debating who to kiss, let it come to you, b/c by waiting and not anticipating it, it is so much more special.
It is okay to kiss a random stranger for your first kiss, but itll mean so much more if it is with someone you have gotten to know and like, someone who knows you and will be gentle. It really is your choice, but don't rush it, b/c the best things in life come with some kind of delay. :)
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so in going to my first concert next week and i'm excited and nervous at the same time. It's like, a hardcore, emo concert. what should i expect? and should i wear a hoodie? it is going to be really hot? its in new york (link)
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I am not quite sure about the weather as I do not live in New York. But you can expect to be deaf, lol, concerts are really loud, they will getcha pumpin I promise. Anyways, they are so much fun, you can wear a hoodie def. and just have fun, but it can really cramped so if you are closterphobic, be really careful.
Have fun and rock on!! :) lol.
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okay...so I am seventeen years old, and i have a little problem...
I think that i have an issue with the men in my life. See, i've never really had a father figure because my dad doesnt care really what i do. he has lived in the same house as me for my whole life, but he shows no interest in my life whatsoever. he doesnt even know my birthday, how old i am, or what grade i am in. I've always wanted to be like my friends and be a daddy's little girl, but no matter how hard i try, he still doesnt care. i've told him i love him so many times but he'll just hang up the phone or walk away.
i dont think i've done anything to disappoint him, i've always been a good kid, never in trouble...so why doesn't he love me?
but that's not really the main issue, i've come to realize now after seventeen years that he is never going to love me like i want him to.
But, i think that this is affecting my relationships with boyfriends. See, right now i have a pretty good boyfriend. and he treats me right, he says he loves me, and i really care about him too. A lot. but he lives about two hours away and we see each other on the weekends if we're lucky. I really want to be with him, but when i'm at school and other guys show an interest in me, i just can't seem to tell them i have a boyfriend or that i can't be involved with them. like right now, there's a boy who really likes me that goes to my school and he wants to date me, and i could possibly like him, but i think the reason i talk to him is because he's showing an interest in me, and i think i need that constantly...and i know it's horrible. i've never cheated on my boyfriend, but i have a feeling that its a possibility if i dont get a handle on this. thats why i'm asking for your help...
i feel like such a bad person.
but i really need to find a way to deal with this before i hurt my boyfriend.
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You are not a bad person I promise. WHat you are feeling is completely normal. By the way I am really sorry about your dad. I think the reason you can't tell other guys you have a b/f is b/c when they show an interest in you it fills that "void". The void that your dad really can't seem to feel. Like you said I love you to him and he walks away, but you love to hear other guys say it. Maybe b/c your dad is kind of absent in your life and you want to feel cared about and love so you see it in other guys, if that makes any sense. I think what you need to do, is talk to your father first off about how you feel about him not loving you, which I am sure he does, and second if you do really care about your boyfriend, then say to these other guys that you do have a b/f but you would like to get to know them. If you feel like you aren't seeing your b/f and just don't care then maybe breakit off.
Honestly It is all your choice, I am just providing different soultions to try and help you out of this situation.
Best of luck :)
and I am sure your father loves you, even though he may not say it.
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Ok so im 20/f. I still have feelings for my ex. We broke up like 2 yrs ago and I have a new gf who Ive been with for a while and she has a new gf. We are all friends and everything but for some reason I still have this crush on my ex.
The other day I confessed it to her. I told her about my crush and my feelings for her and everything and we really havent talked since then bc I told her on aim and right after i told her i had to go bc I was at work. I tried msgin her yesterday but she was at work and kinda givin like one word answers so I didnt wanna bother her. I kinda wanna msg her today but like I never used to msg her before i told her so I dont wanna liek weird her out or anything. But I kinda wanna know what she thinks. im not tryin to be with her or anything thats not why I told her. I told her just to get it off my chest basically. I just dont know what I should do and if I do message her I dont know what to say. And I dont wanna be annoying or anything. Any advice?? (link)
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honestly if you don't find out youll never know. So yeah you should talk to her today, try one more time, say is this a good time and if she says no then let come to you but if she says yeah, try it one more time and see what happens.
Good luck, I hope everything works out for you :)
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well,..i spent some time with my ex-boyfriend on saturday..*sighs* well he just up & left me last year without warning& moved in with his wife& kid in las vegas(they were separated for the 5 years we were together)..well, it was very hard for me..well I didn't know how to act around him i was very nervous and didn't know how to act like myself..he stepped outside twisce while i was with him this weekend to call his wife and that just made me feel really bad, bad for her and bad for me.You must know that i was with him for 5 years, he was still technically married but they lived in separate states and he never wore his wedding ring. Now with all that has happend i still have this glimmer of hope. I still love him soo much and now i feel horrible in side..kind of like empty and what the hell is wrong with me..what am i to him..why did he want to see me? what am I to him? i want to ask him but i'm afraid that it's going to cause un-easiness for both of us..HE TOLD ME IF I COULD WAIT HE KNOWS WE HAVE A FUTURE..if he loved his wife would he have seen me,would he have said what he said to me.. i can't help but wonder, he says he doesn't love her hes just with her for his son, but i don't know if he's just saying that cuz he doesn't want to hurt me? i don't know..he also told me to let him know when..also he wanted me to go to this family get together with him (the wife wasn't going to go) becasue his family really likes me, and they have told me that they like me for him better than her because she's violent to her son..comments like that make me wonder, and i have hope that he still wants to be with me that he's just with her for the kid but ..i don't know what do you think?do you think he still cares for me?...i don't know how i feel..i want to call him and talk about this a little bit but i don't know if i should wait for him to call me.what do you think about all this?
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Honestly I can say about 100 things and probably none of them would be accurate. Although it may be hard and uneasy, you really need to talk to him, if you want the truth, talk to him, b/c he is the only 1 that knows what he is feeling. I really hope everything works out for you, and I am sorry to say this but talk is cheap, he may be just saying those things or he really may mean it, thats why you need to talk to him about it.
Good luck, all the best :)
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15/f
I'm really, really worried.
I know I'm only 15, but a few weeks ago I noticed that my left breast was persistently hurting and aching, and that the area around the outside of my breast and my armpit seemed thicker than usual, and slightly swollen.
The pain went away after about five days, but during the last week it's come back. At the moment, the whole breast feels very tender and painful, and at times it feels like there's stabbing pains in it. Also, the outer side and armpit of the breast is still slightly swollen.
It's really worrying me. I even got my mum to check if she could feel anything, but she said she couldn't.
Does this sound like cancer?
What should I do?
x
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Honestly I am not a doctor so I can't tell you exactly what it is. But if this is still going on for a while you really should see a doctor. Better safe then sorry, and just in case it is something I would get it checked out. I don't think it is cancer, but I would see a doc. just in case.
Good luck, all the best :)
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okay. so I have this abnormally large unhealthy obsession with the jonas brothers. like massive! like every other word in my vocabulary is jonas related. and well I have a couple of friends that like them, then a couple that don't. well I talk a lot about the jonas brothers I can't help it. and my friends are telling me to shutup cause im annoying and stuff lately I've just been feeling like an outkast like I don't fit in anywhere. can someone please help me! thanks in advance (link)
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It's okay to be a big fan of the Jonas brothers but it is also unhealthy to revolve your life around them. Okay so next time you go to talk about them, be consious and catch yourself, start talking about something else. It is okay to mention something every now and then but all the time can be really annoying, I used to talk about the Joker all the time thats how I know. Anyways, keep being a fan of them thats okay, just think about things b4 you say them and give other people a chance to share their interests with you, otherwise you will isolate yourself from your friends, making you feel like an outcast.
Good luck with everything, and joe is really cute :) lol.
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You see, i have this friend witch at the beginning we werent really friends. But then her and her bestest friend had a small argument, so they werent talking to each other. Thats when my friend and I "were" very close. But now they arent mad at each other anymore and i am glad about that and at the same time I feel used because my friend is talkning to her and not really to me, WHAT SHOULD I DO? should I just let it go or do something about it? (link)
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Well if you think that she is worth being friends with then talk to her about it. But if you don't think it is worth it then just walk away. I am sorry you feel hurt, but you should probably say something, otherwise it may happen again
Best of luck! Good day :)
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im an 18 year old female. well within the past three years i've known these two boys, one is 16 and one is 17. i'm not like best friends with them, they were just, friends you know? they're known to always have the party at their house. i use to go over there ALLL the time, this summer i was over there a lot too. i was always the one to go talk to their mom and dad. they have been through problems though, the dad is pretty much an alcholoic and has been through alot and the mom tries to keep everything under control, but it's just not possible. well for some reason i stopped going over there a few months ago and just today i got a text saying that their mom died. i was just in shock and my heart completely dropped. i feel so, weird? it's unexplainable. even though i haven't talked to those two boys, or the parents for a couple months i just feel horrible. i guess she had surgery a few weeks ago and something went wrong last night. there is nothing i can do, i go to college but i commute and the two boys are still in high school. one is in 10th grade, the other in 11th. they're popular so they have a lot of friends but i don't know what to do. it's not like i was super close with her but i talked to her all the time. i've just been having this really weird feeling, and i dont know what to do... (link)
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Honestly I understand kind of where you are coming from. I am so sorry about their mother. Whether you were close or not when you lose someone it is so hard. I understand. The best thing you can do is just keep in touch with the boys and be there for them. Just reach out to them b/c it sounds like they really need a friend with everything that is going on. So just be there and be the best friend that you can possibly be. And I will keep the family in my prayers. That is so sad, I am really sorry.
Honestly you can't really force somthing like that out of your mind, just let it out, cry if you need too, just let the pain out, b/c then you can move on and accept death. It is what is, and unfortunately it happens, I'm sorry I know it is hard to fathom, but in inevitible.
Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Jeannie :)
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I'm catholic, I even attended a catholic school [K-2grade] I'm 13 now and I don't really believe in God. Actually I'm not that sure anymore. I would like to believe in him but I just don't. So I was wondering if there is like any proof in God. Like how do people know he did exist. Because right now I'm on the lines of believing in evolution because its the only one they have actual proof on and it makes sense. Also, I'd like to add how none of the stories are actually possibe. Like the story about that guy getting swallowed by the whale its impossibe, which leads me to believe God doesn't exist and he's jus a bunch of stories and myths.
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Hmm...well do you believe in Jesus? B/c there is pictures of him and stories??
Okay about God, I am Catholic too, I did go to Catholic school K-8th Grade. I do believe in God. I know I can't see Him, and yeah there may be no "proof", but thats what makes it so amazing. You cannot have faith with your eyes, thats what is impossible. What you believe in totally is your choice, but he does exist, I promise, I have people ask me all the time how I know hes there. I can't pull out an old photo and show you, but my proof is the proof in my heart. I mean I can talk to him and be so happy. I truly know in my heart that he does exist. And I also believe b/c I know whatever kind of day I am having I know He will pull me from my hurt and depression. ANd I know that with everything that exists in the world there must be a stronger power that put it all here. You can read this and call me a total whackjob, but I will still wake up tommorrow believeing and praising HIm, and that my friend is faith. The ability to put all our trust in something even though we cannot see it, the ability to love so deeply with our hearts that nothing can change the feeling within your soul.
I hope I made some sense to you, but I love talking about faith, so if you would like to talk to me more bout God, please feel free too.
~Jeannie :)
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Me and my boyfriend will be dating for 2 years in about a month and I'm needing ideas on what to get him. I've already got him a ring for his birthday. & he's like f a skater you could say but is extremely sweet and apreciates the little things. oh and I can't spend like over $30 probably. So any sugestions would be great. thanks. (link)
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I think you should make a picture album of him and you. Like put pics together of the 2 of you, and on the page next to it put lyrics to like your favorite songs or songs that remind you guys of each other.
oh and congrats on 2 years, thats awesome!!!
Good luck let me know if you want more ideas, :)
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