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I feel lke an outkast
okay. so I have this abnormally large unhealthy obsession with the jonas brothers. like massive! like every other word in my vocabulary is jonas related. and well I have a couple of friends that like them, then a couple that don't. well I talk a lot about the jonas brothers I can't help it. and my friends are telling me to shutup cause im annoying and stuff lately I've just been feeling like an outkast like I don't fit in anywhere. can someone please help me! thanks in advance
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Trust me, I know people just like you.
Now I'm not going to tell you to try and go into Jonas rehabilitation or anything lol. But all I can tell you is to "love" the Jonas brothers on your OWN time. But when you get around your friends, be yourself but not so much a Jonas fanatic. Meaning, when your around your friends talk like a decent person, and when your by yourself than express yourself. And if you can't do this than be yourself regardless of what your friends say, and if they cant accept you than there not your real friends, find someone who will like you regardless of what you like. And if they want to talk to you, than they'll come to you, like I expect. Because deep down they'll wonder, "whatever happened to her?" and that shows that they do want to hang around with you when they see you hanging with new people. and not them
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Oh, I know that feeling. I am a huuuuuuuge NY Islanders hockey fan. Just an extremely big fan. I can't even tell you how much I love them lol. I used to talk about them all of the time. Obsessively. Whether it was to someone who actually cared or not, I'd just keep nagging about how much I loved the Islanders and how they played. But then I grew to realize that when you talk obsessively about one thing over and over, it gets to be repetitive and annoying. So whenever I had that urge to just say something, anything, about hockey or the Islanders, I'd literally have to stop myself and be like, "Jackie, do not say it!"
Whenever you feel that urge to say something about the Jonas Brothers, just tell yourself to shush and talk about something else. Bite your tongue if you need to ! You'll stop eventually, just like I did. And even though I'm not talking 24/7 about my obsession, that doesn't mean I'm not thinking about it.
You can still talk about them, you just need to take it to a minimum. Try and come up with a list of topics that you can talk about with people. Then when you are just about to bring up the Jonas Brothers, remember the list you made of things to chat about.
Hope this helped !
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It's okay to be a big fan of the Jonas brothers but it is also unhealthy to revolve your life around them. Okay so next time you go to talk about them, be consious and catch yourself, start talking about something else. It is okay to mention something every now and then but all the time can be really annoying, I used to talk about the Joker all the time thats how I know. Anyways, keep being a fan of them thats okay, just think about things b4 you say them and give other people a chance to share their interests with you, otherwise you will isolate yourself from your friends, making you feel like an outcast.
Good luck with everything, and joe is really cute :) lol.
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