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Q: I know that as you read this you'd probably think that I'm weird but this problem is costing me valuable hours of sleep and i feel that if this continues my health will be in jeopardy.I'm having problems with forgetting something. I recently watched an anime series called ~ef~ a tale of memories. I dont normally watch these kinds of anime but i found myself finishing the whole series. Now the problem comes in.These past few weeks scenes from the anime just keep getting into my mind and i can't seem to shrug them off. Every time I remember that anime I feel uneasy. Its like theres a nagging feeling at the back of my head which then moves to my chest. Remembering makes me very uneasy to the point that I cant get enough sleep for weeks now. I'm really troubled by this as I know that watching anime is not supposed to cause this, but what and why is this happening to me? I really hope that someone can help me on this as I feel that anymore of this will cause some serious damage to my health.

Thank you for listening...
Well what is bothering you I cant really understand. What were the scenes exactly you can send what they are to me in private if you like.

send them to fastball3232@aim.com =]

Q: I was wondering if I could make a suggestion for a friend in need. She has terminal cancer and the doctor says there is no hope for her. Her and her husband have lost everything they own. He can not work for having to stay with her 24/7. She loves having family and friends over and the place they live in now they can't do that. She loves having her watnots out and love seeing them. I wish I could give her a wish of having a place of their own and being able to have all of her favorite things that she loves out to look at in her last days. Wish that you could do something for her.
This is so sweet. I'm so sorry for your friend and I wish she would be able to spend time with her loved ones and enjoy her last days.

Q: I have an annoying friend and she always talks about her self. I like her because we are besties, but she only talks about HER and what she will be doing and who she talked to and blah blah blah... Everytime I talk about me or anything other than her she changes the subject or doesn't listen to me. She also would ditch me to sit at the back of the class or with cooler people, and she doesn't care if i end up sitting by myself. Please help me, I don't know how to let her know she is making me angrier every day. What should I say to her?

PS. I have tried talking to her about it but she refused to listen and wouldn't take in what I was saying.
Obviously if she has done all those things like ignore you and only talk about herself then you shouldn't be her friend anymore, I had the same exact problem I was sorta like the extra that she would talk to when her "real" friends weren't their. When her other friends were around it was like I was invisible and she didn't care. when she was around them she never treated me like a real person. It was only about her all the time. I moved on and actually met a real friend who treated me like an equal. I think you should do the same it seems to me from what you have said that she thinks its all about her all the time and it doesn't matter what you think only her. Personally I would try the silent treatment and see her reaction, thats how you can tell how she really feels. (if you don't understand what I am talking about than just try it and you will understand ) I hope this helps.
-jelliibeann13

Q: My best friend is moving away. I tell her everything and she's always the one I go to if I'm sad or angry. Basically, she's pretty much a sister to me. But now she's moving =(
I've moved hundreds of times before...but this is weird because now someone's moving away from me instead of the other way around. And it's just different ya know? I'm perfectly fine usually moving away because there's the possibility of a new beginning. But when she moves away, I'm still stuck here...without her.
Does anybody have any tips on how to cope when a friend moves away? I just don't know what to do.
I know how you feel when a friend moves away. It really depends on how far away they are moving, Im guessing its far away so then just talk to them on the phone send messages on e-mail, you can write letters to. when a friend moves away its always good to staying touch don't ever let distance ruin a great friendship. Sometimes you may be able to visit each other too.
-jelliibeann13 (i hope you and your friend can stay in touch)

Q: I have been looking for a website where kids or teens can date online besides espin.com plz help!!!!


grasias****
-cooki39-
Well there are places like teenspot. Hope this helps

-jelliibeann13

Q: Well my grandma lives out of state so she e-mails me to see how i am doing. Well at the end of the school year she asked me how my last set of grades were because recently i told her i would probably finish with straight A's but i ended up finishing with all A's and a B. So when she asked me how i did she was saying how proud she would be if i got straight A's so i told her i did. And now she said she is going to send me big gift. idk what to do!!!! Please help!!!
-NayNayBby
Well just come out and tell you got a B. Not everyone can be perfect, I'm sure she will understand. Just be honest with her. Things will get worse and worse if you lie. She will understand that you were very close and I'm sure she will be just as proud of you.

Good luck,

-Jelliibeann13

Q: I have an Asus laptop, which I've hd for about a year and a half.
It works great, but like 10 minutes ago in the bottom left corner(of the base) it makes this weird crackling sound, and then it crashes.
It goes to a blue screen where it says that this could be caused by a hardware problem.
I installed two sims expansion games three days ago, and then it worked great. So I don't think it's that.
Is there any way I could fix it? My laptop is pretty important to me, and it has a lot of stuff on it that I need.
If it's likely that the repair shop will tell me to get a new one, please tell me, and I won't botehr paying loads of money to be told that I need a new laptop.

Thanks!
Well it seems to me that theirs just a glitch in it. If you take it back to the store they will probably give you a completely new laptop, but they might be able to get the things you have saved on it. You really cant fix it yourself. Maybe you can just try to delete everything off of it, like the things you have downloaded or installed.

Good luck and hope your laptop start working again. =]

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I'm 15 I love to help people. (if I didn't I wouldn't be here) You can ask me anything I would love to answer.

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