So, ok im f/14. IM SORRY THIS IS LONG
My boyfriend and i have been together for a year, and nine months.
Recently i have become extremely annoyed by him. We used to be able to talk for an hour or more on the phone and now i dont want to even pic up the phone and call him. but when i do, we have nothing to talk about. He talks about movies and video games i've nevr heard of, and he's not into anything i am.
We are both in our schools orchestra(acctually we are the only ones in our grade) We never were taught to the best we could be, because we were only 2 people. Next year in high school we will be with the other grades of orchestra, and i (although i have been busy this summer, and havent had time) try to practice and get better, he just says it deserves to get bad, and its the teachers fault.
We argue about alot, we have different views on almost everything. LIke he complains that his family is broke and might loose their house, but they own TONS of video games and movies, i say why dont you sell some of them, and he says no, would you rather have a family thats happy, or one thats bored?
BUT YOU WONT BE ABLE TO BE TOGETHER IF YOU LOOSE YOUR HOUSE!
He doesnt make sense in the way he thinks, and i've just lost the want of him. He tells me how much he wants me, and stuff (like.. sexual stuff)
And i dont care anymore.
I think i might like another guy, but even if i dont, i still dont really want to be with the guy im with now. But he says imthe only reason he has to live, and if i break up with him, i dont want him to commit suicide!
Please tell me what to do! and how to break up with him gently (and ways to help me get enough courage to break up with him)
Thank you SOOO much!!!
its pretty clear that you have out grown him and you two have grown apart.and when it comes to you ywo breaking up ask your self. is it fair to him to lead him on and you dont feel the same way about him as he feels about him. or if your not 100% shure that you wanna break up woth him. tell him you need a break and that you just need some space to think. if you have thought things through and if you 100% want to break up with him just explain to him clearly why you are breaking up with him. be as nice as possible. tell him you can still be freiends and every thing if you want. tell him that the right girl is out there for him and that person just isn,t you. since you are worried that he may commit sucide.
hope every thing works out for the best
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so i had sex with this guy anthony but it was less than a minute literally he didnt come or anything like that but he wasnt wearing a condom.. then i had sex with this guy eric we used a condom he has a alot of precum but he didnt come we stopped before that cause it wasnt really workin but he stuck it in with out a condom but i just moved up and down like twice then i stop cuz i was scared to get pregnant.. now my boobs are big they hurt and my aunt had a dream i was knocked up now all these weird things are happening like shit i see on tv im really freaking out all these people are pregnant and im just trippin... what do you think? i had sex with eric like a week ago so if i was it would probably be anthony's right i had sex with anthony like 3 weeks ago so do you think im just trippin is it too soon to tell if i am cause im suposed to get my period soon.
dont worry too much just wait and see if you get your period and if you dont there is a chance you really could be. and if you are it could be either one of them. but like i said dont worry to much now. just wait and see
hope every thing works for the best
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if i feel a lump thats not tender are sensitive in one chord of my testical, is that a sign of cancer. is it normal?
it may be it may not be who really knows??? try not to panic but what you need to do is go to the doctor and get that checked
hope every thing works out for the best
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15/f
There are these two guys, whom i am kinda close with. I don't understand why they keep going back to this other girl who is fake and rude, but gorgeous. They seem to rather talk to her then me. There's nothing wrong me, I'm pretty and everything too. But they seem to go to her always because shes really pretty (lots of makeup). It hurts me because I'm bring a good friend and shes not, yet shes still getting the attention. What can I do to be the one they choose to go to instead of her? I understand that i am strictly on a friend's basis, and she is probably on a relationship basis. I dont know, any advice?
the thing is the probly only see you as a friend. and you have to ask yourself is that such a bad thing??? look how they act. but then agian. they probly act like that when it comes to her because she wears all that mackup....maybe she (easyidk) you never know what it is they may like about her. maybe thats not it either. maybe its something about her that they only see... u never know.
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15/f
Everybody has their own privacy limits.
My mom and my dad both sneak on my computer and look at what i do!
So does my brother.
My youtube account has this really big love speach and i poured my heart out in it. I like to keep myself annoymous and i dont like anyone to know who i am. My parents looked at my whole youtube account and theyre always asking me if they an use my computer.
I have no problem with that, but its not like i do anything bad.
Its just like your parents looking at your diary you know?
It feels really uncomfortable.
I have a boyfriend named dannis (well call him that for now)
They dont allow me to have a boyfriend (which brings me to my next subject)
I dont see what the big deal in having a boyfriend is, i really dont. We love eachother, and there is nothing wrong with that.
And trust me, before i start a relationship i make sure we are both ready.
I am also a good girl, i dont do anything stupid, and i pick the right guys.
And my parents know it.
They invade my privacy BEYOND REASON.
I understand some small things, but this is going way WAY too far.
They asked to check their email and i come in and their looking at my youtube account??!
Not only did they lie, but they are invading my pricacy.
I feel so hurt and betrayed.
I hate lying to my parents and thats what i had to do.
Otherwise, they wont let me see my boyfriend anymore.
Love really REALLY hurts.
I dont want oppinions, or facts.
I need advice.
Please.
girl i know exacly what you are talking about my mother did the samething to me she would read my e-mails my diary my text messages and every thing this lady was so crazy that she went through my phone bill and asked me who every body was..... but any way one day i sat her down and had a talk with her. i told her exacly how i felt and every thing. i asked her. how would she feel if she was my age and her mother was going through her things. just talk to them and really express how you feel. whats the worst that can happen??? just stay calm and handle it and a mature way. dont get smart or loud because that wont change anything.
hope every thing works out
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I have been trying to kill myself sense I was ten. It never worked out right, either there was some-one to stop me or they found me before I could finish. I really don't want to live any more. But I don't seem to have the strength to go on. I don't want to feel this way any more. It scares me and each thought is stronger than the last. I want these feelings to go away. What can I do? Nothing ever seems to help me. I feel that my only option is to kill my self. I still WANT to live though! I'm scared that I might take this to far. Please help me, I don't think I can hold on much longer!
think about it since you have tried to do that at 10 havent you had some good times??? some time when you were really truly happy??? a time you couldn't enjoy if you were dead??? because once you do something like that you cant change your mind, you cant go back. what ever your going through it cant be that bad. what could it possibly be that its worth ending your life??? you need to talk to some one. weather it is a family member, a close friend, a neighbor, a teacher that you can trust. any body. you have to tell people what is bothering you. you cant hold it in because that may be what is causeing you to feel this way. just talk to some body. who even you feel comfortable talking to. one day your going to look back on all of the good times that you have had over the years and know you couldn't have had them if you were dead. no matter what you may be going through now its going to get better and hopefully you wont feel this way any more. and let me tell you this killing your self is just takeing the easy way out. your being a coward. your leting your enimies win. and i know thats not what you want is it??? be strong. i know you can be. just hang in there and remember every thing happens for a reason. you may not see it now but trust me one day you will. nobody said life is would be easy. but life is what you make it
please dont do any thing crazy because remember you cant change your mind and i know you have alot of people who really love and care for you. please do me a fovor and talk to them and if you feel that you cant you can e mail me.
if you need to talk to someone. and you cant find any one and you feelin like your ready to drop out of the race. you can always talk to me at babyiyitee@hotmail.com
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my boobs look pointy...
i always have to wear a bra or a tight tank top to make them look normal.
they're pointy because i'm a 34 B and i have big, puffy nipples...
and they sag a little and point outward a little..
they're so ugly!.
besides surgery, do you know any way i can fix this problem? is there anything i can take to make my boobs grow? or is there an exercise that can pull them into an adequate position?
you probly are at that age when every thing is changeing and looks kinda wierd they wont be like that for ever trust me. until then learn to love your self (along with your pointy boobs) every thing is going to work out 4 the best trust me
i hope i helped you
-babyiyitee
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