Well, my friends are always asking me for advice, and they say it helps them. So I hope I can help you! When people ask for advice they kinda have an idea of what the answer will be, but they need to make sure! Anyways I relate to so many of the problems, so I can answer things knowing what will come out in the end! I mostly know all about relationship problems...I hope I can help you! Yes, it is true that I am only 15, and I haven't experienced eVeRyThInG so don't expect me to be able to know everything! So, yeah I will tell you straight up how I feel and what I think you should do, so I hope you take my advice! Just holla at your gurl, and leave one in my inbox!
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my friends asked if i wore tampons and i said yea i do i can never feel them..its comfortable to me but she said ima hoe cz its like havin a dick stuck in me for hours at time vs. feeling like im wearing a diaper..im the only one out of my friends that wear tampons everyone wears pads..am i doin somethin worng and how does it make you a hoe ..its not a dick its a tampon!? (link)
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lol, ur right it's not a dick it's a tampon. There isn't nething wrong w/u, there r sO0o0o much more comfortable. Tell ur freinds that they should try it...I bet they will like it 2...hope I have helped u!
>>Becky
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okay today has been 3 weeks since my best friend and i havent talked for..my best guy friend and he happens to be my crush thinks my worst enemy is hott..and wants to date her but thinks he has no chance n i think he deserves better and plus im moving..my life literally stinks and im going through major depression anyone wanna help?? (link)
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Calm down...u and ur friend should make up b4 u move. And tell ur guy best friend that u like him, and just how u feel. Hope i have helped.
*[[BECKY]]*
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This is going to sound really lame. But here we go! Ok I like this guys and we were talking once and he said I was the only girl he wanted to go out with and that made my day cuz I really like him in all. (when we were talking it was yesterday) today at the pep rally I saw him with another girl and he looked like he was flurting with her. What should I do? (link)
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Tell him how u feel, and if he wants 2 be w/u then u guys should go out. If he doesn't want 2 be w/u then u should try 2 move on, even though it will be hard...I know it would be hard. Well, I hope I've helped u!
.::.becky.::.
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I used Nair Facial Hair Remover Cream on my upper lip. It was then swollen and burning. I do not know how to heal it. (link)
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Well u shouldn't use that again, b-c it could have been a reation 2 something in it. U should put some soothing lotion on it. It could go away in a couple of days...hope I have helped.
~Becky~
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does anybody know any excersises to increase the size of your butt? if so thanks. (link)
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Yes I do! Well u know those weight things that u hold in ur hand? Well, put 1 in each hand and twist ur body side 2 side. Do like 15 one week and the next week go 2 20...hope it helps b-c it did 4 me. Newyas it should I saw it on tv and that's how J-Lo got her bootay so big.
-_BECKY_-
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I am starting to have feelings for my best guy friend but I don't want to do anything to hurt our relationship. What do I do? I'm in a weird situatuion now. I haven't told him.
xo0x CoNfUsEd xo0x (link)
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OMG I'M GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING! Well, what I did was sit him down and tell him exactly how I felt. U should do the same, and be like I like u more than a friend, and I just wanted 2 know if u felt the same way. U wait 4 him 2 answer and then, if he says he likes u 2, then go out w/him, but if he says no then say good b-c I just want 2 be friends. But if u do go out w/him, everything will be fine when u break up b-c the guy I was talking about, well I have went out w/him 5 times, but we r like the best of friends!! Hope I have helped u!
xoxo-becky-xoxo
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14/f I wasn't sure what category to put this under. I had this dream about this guy at school that I kind of like. I dreamt that I was pregnant with his baby and we were a couple. I'm only 14, but in my dream I was entirely happy about this. What does this dream mean? (link)
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I'm not sure, but m-b it means u should talk 2 him b-c u must like him a lot. This could also mean that u guys will be 2gether in the furture and u will be happy. I think u should really talk 2 this guy! Hope I have helped.
-!-Becky-!-
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I NEED HELP! My friend is having a party, and I really want 2 go! The bad thing is I thnk there will be beer there...should I still go? (link)
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Well, no offense but if it's ur friend and u think they have beer and u don't want 2 drink then u might be hanging out w/the wrong crowd, but I'm not trying 2 tell u who 2 hang out with. Also, u should go anyways b-c u will still have fun, w/out the beer. Just when some1 offers it say no, and mean it. I hope I have helped u.
LoVe yA,
-bEcKy-
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im kind of going out with a guy now, but how do i kno when the time is right to kiss him first? Does anybody have any good ideas of when and where is the best time? lol Thanks alot!! (link)
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hey,well it's hard 2 say when, let's just say u will know when it's the right time! It's just a feeling that u get and ur like this is it...sounds corny,but seriously that's what happenes. Hope I have helped.
-!-Becky-!-
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I am looking to buy some fun socks, with simple patterns and stipes, mostly black and grey. So far I have found that 1 pair cost 3-7 dollars, even at Target. Does anyone know where I can find really cheap socks? (link)
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y don't u look @ Wal-Mart or K-Mart, they have some pretty cheap socks. Hope I have helped u!
>>*becky*
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okay im a girl and i havent gotten my period since like the middle of august, and theres no way im pregnant ive never done anything with a guy cept making out and that cant make you pregnant, so i have no idea why im not getting my period. i got my first one like around xmas 2002 so culd it just be irregular? what culd make it stop? is there sumthing wrong with me? anyone help me please! im kind of scared! (link)
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hey, u don't need 2 worry every1's period is irregular the 1st couple of years, well m-b not every1, but mine was the 1st year, but everything is ok now. So nothing is worng w/u...IT'S NORMAL! Hope I have helped.
-*-Becky-*-
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Okay...I feel really stupid for asking but most of my friends have kissed someone before. I havent. I havent even held hands with a boy. Im really really shy tho. I could hold hands and kiss boys because lots of boys like me...but Im waaay too shy and i dont know how to kiss!! and most of the guys i like kno i havent kissed no 1 before. ive had offers lol and i can anytime..but im too shy and i think i will do something wrong. i mean how do u know if they just want 2 kiss for like a sec or make out for like 15 secs? help me plz.. (link)
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Well, I was scared my 1st time 2, I guess it just has 2 be w/the right guy. Mine was w/my true love, but I'm getting off track. U should just wait 2 kiss until u r ready, don't think just b-c ur friends have that means u have 2. Once u start kissing "the one" u will know what 2 do so don't stress over that. I have lots of friends that havent had their 1st kiss yet, and they r ok. So, u shouldnt worry, just wait 4 the right time...hope I have helped!
*~bEcKy~*
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i have pretty much felt like this my whole life...
i feel like whenever i do something people are watching me and talking shit about me or gunna laugh at me or something, i mean i realize that they dont really do that, they probably dont even notice me, but i dont like getting up in class to go sharpen my pencil cause im scared or embarresed or something that people will watch me and just stare at me the whole time or the teacher will yell at me for getting up...and today i was to embarresed or scared to go get ketchup and put it on my plate cause i was thinking that people might laugh and me and be like omg look at her shes using ketchup or something...i know it really weird..
i mean im not a shy person cause ill talk to a lot of people but its things like that..whats wrong with me? (link)
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hey,u probably just "think" something is worng w/u, like u will trip and fall or sumthing, but really and truly that won't happen. U shouldnt be embarrased! Just b4 u get 2 sharpen ur pencil, ask ur teacher and u wont get into trouble. Hope I have helped.
-bEcKy-
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i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks. (link)
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hey, it's ok 2 mix i am half asian and half white, but i have dated all black guys, but i kinda prefer black guys, so yea i think it's fine!
*~bEcKy~*
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hey please help! im really upset now! okay well ive had 7 boyfriends and one of them im going out with right now. well.. i love him the most out of all of the boys ive went out with! and today after school he came up to me and was like so your not gonna say ( just playin around ) i was like hi ! lol and he was like so ur not gonna give me a hug? i gave him a hug then we said our byes and then we went to our busses. well i was waiten for my bus and i looked and he was walken with 2 other girls and he hugged one of them and ive seen him with her at the ymca before with her and im really upset! what do i do??!! (link)
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Well, u need 2 talk 2 ur bf, and tell him how u feel. If he is seeing that other girl, or just being 2 friendly, then break up w/him. I know it will probably be hard, but u wouldn't want 2 go out w/some1 that isn't loyal 2 u. I hope I have helped!
~*~Becky~*~
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Okay I have this friend and she has been my friend for about a year. Anyway she is like always bugging me she never shuts up and she always bugs me and my boyfriend. She is always trying to get us to do things, and she makes us on the sims 2 and made me get pregnant on the game and him have an affair with the maid. I mean she is a really good friend but she is always like butting in to our relationship and it gets on me and my boyfriends nerves. I just wish that she could but out of me and my boyfriends relationship. My boyfriend thinks that she likes to try to make us do stuff because she can't get a boyfriend.
Please Help Me
(*)Haleigh Ann(*) (link)
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OMG, I hate when that happens. Well, u should talk 2 ur friend, and be like could we be alone, not 2 be mean but we really need 2 talk about something important. Something like that, but make sure after ur little time alone that u go back 2 talk w/ur friend, or she could get mad and think u r mad @ her. Then she might think u spend 2 much time w/ur bf...blah blah blah. Yea well, u could also try 2 hook ur friend up w/some1. Also, u could just tell her straight up that she is spending 2 much time w/u and ur bf, and that u 2 just want 2 be alone! I hope I have helped.
-becKy-
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I'm a pretty good student, usually do all my homework and don't cheat or anything. Most of the time, people are always asking to copy my homework and since I'm nice and want to make friends, I let them. I can't say I don't have it when its out on my desk and anyone can see it. I always get scared the teacher is going to see I'm letting someone copy and I'll get in trouble! What should I say next time it happens? I don't want to come off as mean or anything, but I'm sick of working for my grades when someone can just copy and get it easy! (link)
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well, that happens 2 me all the time, but sometimes I am the one that is doing the coping! So, I know how both ppl feel. The 1 that does the work and let ppl copy is like hurry hurry here comes the teacher...hope I don't get in trouble...stuff like that. The other is thinking..omg I luv her/him, they r a life savor! So, I think u should say ok, but when I say teacher I need it back...FAST...b-c I don't want 2 get in trouble. Well, I hope I have helped!
-bEcKy-
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My boyfriend told me he didn't love me but he likes me alot. He doesn't know that I love him and he keeps trying to get me to tell him but I wont, I think he's guessed. I just want to cry, I knew he didn't love me but when he told me it just made everything 10 times worse. I really love him, what shall I do? (link)
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Hey, well that's a tough one b-c the same thing has happened 2 me b4. U should sit him down and talk 2 him, tell him how u really feel. Once he knows u will feel so much better, and as long as he knows u love him then everything will be okay. Neways, he likes u a lot so that should count 4 something, he might not know what luv is yet. well, I hope I have helped u!
LoVe yA,
-bEcKy-
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