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Q: Hi can ayone help me? My problem is that I want to becaome a Goth.. however I am also considering a career in acting/as an actress or working with horses (going to an agricultural college) Can I do both?? I have NEVER seen a goth working with horses??? So if I worked with horses would becoming a Goth/gothic be a problem?Also about the acting....do you know of any famous actors/actresses who are gots/gothic?? Could i still be a Goth if I was an actress? PLEASE CAN ANYBODY HELP!!!!!
What kind of jobs can Goths get ussually?? What sort of careers do they go into??
Also I failed my GCSEs (with G grades) am i clever enough to become a Goth? Don't you have to know stuff like painting,writing poetry etc ..to be a Goth? I don't have a clue about any of these things....so how could I become a Goth?? Also don't you need to know school subjects such as.....history,religion, etc?????
PLEASE CAN ANYONE OUT THERE OFFER ME ANY ADVICE???????? :mellow:
I'm sorry this is such a unusual topic/conversation by the way...but If anyone can help I will be eternally grateful.I live in England
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you dont and shouldnt try to become gothic and you dont have to try to be clever enough. goths can work with horses. goths can be actors. spiderman 3 is emo. my brother says gothic but its not gothic at all thats emo. actuall goths not wanabes. you dont HAVE to know all that to be gothic. gothic is a religion and a belief you dont change to become one people will think your a joke so take it seriously just dont try to become gothic.
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Q: Would a giirls mullet suiit me thiis is me
>> http://coookiieloove.piczo.com
Thxx Muchh =D
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i think id look good so yes
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Q: okay so i really want to go to bamboozle may 6th.
ive been looking for tickets on ebay because
ticketmaster is sold out.
i found these cheap tickets but the seller is gonna e-mail me them and i just print them.
im new to this.
is this legit or a fraud?
should i buy the tickets?
p.s. if anyone has 2 or 3 tickets they are willing to sell, contact me.
ask for my aim.
PLEASE RESPOND, I ONLY HAVE 3 DAYS LEFT:(
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if someone emails ticket to you and YOU print them out or anyone other than the ticket people prints them out its fraud or fake whatever you call it youll get kicked out. dont buy the tickets
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Q: I can't take it anymore. you might think i'm just a child saying i hate my mom, but i've seriously proven the fact true. I can't stand her. She's so strict and the biggest hypocrite ever! always compares me to kids with no life that are goody two shoes, and when i compare myself to someone she says "i dont care about other kids, stop comparing yourself because it doesn't mean shit to me". She hates all of my friends. and always thinks she has to be right even if it has nothing to do with her. she's like "Ooh your friends have bad grades I bet, they're probably taking drugs" or "you're not allowed to hang out with that group of friends, they're a bad influence." I fucking hate her. I have no freedom, less than i did in like 8th grade! If I open the door, everyone freaks out. I'm seriously not aloud to walk outside. I'm not even aloud to skateboard anywhere anymore, and i love skateboarding so much. She gets mad at me and yells when i try to teach her something always saying that i snap at her. I HATE WHEN SHE SAYS THAT. I'm gonna go fucking insane. This is why I always have to lie to her, and be sneaky. Although its bad now because she's caught on to it. She never forgives me for a mistake, and brings it up anytime i do something wrong. She throws a fit for the stupidest things. I've wanted to commit suicide because of her, and I'm scared I just wish she died or was out of my life for good. I wish she could fucking leave me alone!!! She thinks people who cut themselves are the biggest messed up freaks in the world and that kids with divorced parents MUST be druggies. Another reason for her to hate my friends. I mean, I had a not as extreme, but similar point of view of cutters, until I was one of them. I know what it's like, and the reason is because of her. I can't take her yelling, all those sleepless nights where i just fucking cried. okay well I don't even know what to say, because this isn't even a question and I'm starting to sound like a little emo fuck. which I most definitely am not.. just help me.
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im younger than you and i go through this everyday to. that sounds like my mom i hate her soo much. ive been a goody goody a no life a cutter a suicideal person a druggie. me and my mom yell and cuss so much to eachother all day. ive tried everything i could think of to change it. my friend stopped me from suicide by stopping the bleeding then holding me down from my gun and yelling at me but its tough love. my bff is a guy he said if i killed myself hed kill himself with his death wish to be buried by me not even his family. i cry myself to sleep every single night. ive been asking alot of questions on here about my mom too. your not alone. some answers are. wear all black~chains~lots of jewelry~heavy makeup. youd get your mom to shut up for a sec so you can get words in. you might get a therapist. i got both. ~or~ go goody goody wear all prep and act so fuckin proud of it. youd get your mom to shut up for a sec so you can get words in. you might get a therapist. i got both. go extreme. id help. my mom cant take a hint at all but she did. ~or~ two answers i got from others write a letter or tell her calmly neither worked at all for me i doubt they will but try everything. ~and~ for druggies, freaks,no life,sneakier,deep cutter, suicideal person tell her that if she doesnt leave you alone more youd end up like that ~hope i helped~ at least at all ~im still workin on my mom/life but its gettin better all this is comeing from a shy gothic punky girl in seventh grade ive been trough it all cry yourself to sleep every night it helps alot
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Q: It's passed 3 AM, I'm really stressed out over my classes and can't fall asleep. I've been up all nightworking on this stupid assignment (I'm a senior in college)-- I'm too burned out to keep working on it, but I'm too awake to just go to sleep and work on it tomorrow (the actual deadline, holy crap...but I'm going to turn it in a day late). I procrastinated a bit much, and am now paying the price. Excuse the rambling, I'm burned out and can hardly think straight... BUT-
what do you do in similar situations where you're way too burned out from studying, but still can't go to bed? Any tips on relaxing and just going to sleep? Oh, i know the whole Time Management thing, and getting things done on time before they stress you out too much. But besides that (since it's too late now)..any other ideas?
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i can only sleep if i cry myself to sleep. i usually am asleep around 4-5am and wake up at 6;30 or dont sleep. just lay there and cry yourself to sleep. or just work and dont sleep. or just relax i dono if others can do that but i usually dont get much sleep at all but in fine
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Q: ok i have this good friend whos depressed sad but she always says "shes fine" and act normal around everyone and i know that shes not okay even though she denies that shes sad. but she pretty much admit it when we talk online.but she doesnt know why she cant cry even though shes really sad what do you guys think the she cant cry? and what do you think she should do? and how to release your tears? thank you so much and im sorry because of my english is bad im from japan
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i say its fine. no1 has seen me cry for a very long time. since my attempt i cry over the phone to my bff. thats all. since ive been going threw alot more than most people. but i now have meltdowns and cry myself to sleep everynight i couldnt cry at all befor my attempt but now i do but not infront of anyone. i deny it to and say in fine. but my friend found an icon f.i.n.e fucked up insecure nuronic and emotional. im in with all the goths im gothic since i became deppressed. although i am suicidal cutter and gunner, deppressed and denys all tears. my friends are the only ones i dont kill myself for. the first time i tried my bff came over right away bc i was on the phone with him and i had another meltdown. he came over and saw me bleeding almost to death and stopped it to save my life. i just turned 13 and that all happend at 12. is she wearing darks and death jewelry. check her wrists. most cutters start at the wrist to almost elbow. if you love her tell her you love her and would miss her. is she tough if she is use tough love if not be sweet. im tough i hate it when ppl are like all mushy. she is ok. although im the quiet shy girl but a super freak around my friends. to release your tears you have to find you life out for yourself and you need friends more than ever to live seriosly. i really hope i helped
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Q: THere is a trend out there I guess its spelled emo. Anyways my son has been talking about it for two years but never really acted on it. Two days ago he started dressing im all black and yesterday he puts on eyeliner. I love my son very much, he has always MARCHED TO HIS OWN DRUM AND IVE ALWAYS SUPPORTED HIM. HE IS MOSTLY ANTISOCIAL AND LOVES MUSIC AND THE COMPUTER...HIS NEW FOUND LOVE IS THE CURE. I JUST WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT BEING EMO. NOT TO DOWN HIM BUT TO SUPPORT HIM.....PLEASE HELP
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i wish you were my mom. my moms against everything i wear my music friends and even my personality i hate her. now i do anything possible to make her mad shes made my life so bad all these years. if he likes emo thats good hes finding who he is. being emo is emotional. dont change what you usually do. i have some emo friends but im gothic-scene mainly gothic. he might just like the people clothes nail poilsh makeup and music. noting at all is wrong with any kinds of music. i love 'the used' 'evanescence' '3 days grace' tell him about thoes bands. emos like black emo cut hair, tight jeans, screamo rock punk emo depressed kinds of music. black or white nail polish. mascara eyeliner any makeup. although everyones different i just asked my friend this question hes emo since he was 10 hes 14. hope we helped
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Q: If you have black hair, are you considered a brunette, or just a black-haired person? I have some people telling me that they are in fact brunette, and others tell me otherwise.
Thanks.
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if you have black hair its called black hair. just like blonde hair itd be blonde and red hair red and brunette hair brunette. its called black hair. your welcome
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Q: My grade will be testing ALL week and we can't bring a backpack to school. I'm going to get my period soon but i'm not sure what day. Ware could I keep a pad ware it won't be noticable since I can't bring a backpack? I don't want to waiste them on days I wont have my period.
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Q: omg my guinea piggie ran under a shallow table & everytime i move the table he moves with it! i tried luring him out with food & all but he is very angry with me .. how do i get him out???????
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get two people to lift up the table and have two people ready for him to come running
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Q: Okay well today i got my braces tightened/ajusted.... and they gave me the elastic (rubberband) things.... and i have no clue what they are supposed to do to your teeth... Can someone explain to me what they are supposed to do...??
Thanks!
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their to make your top and bottom teeth more even~you put them in the very back from the back tooth to the other tooth on the top with a lil pole thing i guess~i swallowed alot till i could get them on~hope i helped
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Q: I have brocken my sidekick 3 and i have insurance so t-mobile sent me a new one. I now have both. I need to send the old one in by tomorrow. I have all of my old pictures on my old phone.on my old phone, i could have 200 oictures and i could group them into different files. Now, i can only have 20 pictures, and only one file! Do you have any idea how i can gan more space for more pictures and get my groups back? Also, how can i get my pictures from one phone to another? All of my information transfered itself, exept for my pictures. When i had a sidekick 2 and broke it, and got another one the pictures transfered themselves. Thanx so much!
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you could download it to the computer first then your other phone~or~if you have bluetooth you could send them from phone to phone for free~or~for like about $1 id cost to send everything through text~and~to get more space on new phones well in cingular(i have cingular)theirs always alot of stuff to advertise and instructions in it~i deleted that and i got room for 47 more songs dono how much space itd be for pics but it could help~load your phone on the computer then put everything in groups~thats all i know of for now hope i helped~for switching i suggest bluetooth if you have it
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Q: ** this could go under a number of different categories...** and uhh... sorry its so long.
so well, basically, my life sucks.
and theres not really anything i can do about it.
my family is dysfunctional,
my friendships are falling apart,
the onlything good in my life is a guy who i fell in love with 3 years ago. however, he moved 2000 miles away. and i rarely get to see him (obviously) or talk to him like i would like.
im ready to end everything.
ive been a cutter for like 2 years now.
and my life is getting worse every day.
what should i do? besides go see a counselor; surround myself with people who care and who would take my mind off of it; and talk to a trusted adult; see a doctor; etc. is there anything i can do?
im female and almost 16 if that really matters. doubt it does.
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thats my life and im only 13 3 months ago. just try to stop cutting. it took me forever. stopping cutting is the hardest ever i no. just think how much people your hurting. when i was i thought absolutly nobody. but so many people in my life now died mainly from cancer and suicide. my cousins who died from cancer loved their life and they died they loved everyone and everything in it. but my other cousins and friends who died from suicide hated life killed theirself and hurt everyone. because they didnt care. stop cutting even if its hard i no it is but life will get better alot of people told me that and i got so mad i thought they had no idea but i do ive done it all and been through it all. i rated everyone one who told me that but now it starting to get better life still sucks but i found 3 people who care for me. i rated ones to everyone who said go to a counselor. i say dont go to a counselor their just annoying and i hated it sooo much i just left walked home. what you can do is scream the livin daylight out. right a journal. scream with music i like evanescence. the song tourniquet is about cutting i was listening to it when i started i thought shes just singing because shes depressed. but shes singin because she was cutting and bleeding to death and praying to god. a line is my god my tourniquet return to me salvation. a line is i tried to kill the pain but only brought more. dieing praying bleeding and sreaming. i noticed that and i started trying to stop. because at that time i cut deep and i regreted it soooo much. i even posted the question on here search for tourniquet or cutting in the search questions it will help the answers i got. people will miss you if you die the next day people you didnt even really know or thought cared. let it all out scream along with evanescence. draw death i saw how bad it was after(stupid i no but it really helped). cry your eyes out till you cry no more. im gothic even and people cared for me i thought everyone hated me and all goths but its no true. hope i helped
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Q: Hi all, this is yg. I consider this a question, I am also kind of looking for opinions. I am asking here instead of the mod forum because I'd like answers from those who are mods, and those who may not be yet. There is no right or wrong answer, so please, honest opinions only.
In the last month and a half this question, or a version of this question has come up and it bothers me. 'How can I hide that I have been on advicenators?' I assume it was meant from parents.
I would like to know if others have this problem.
Do you have to hide that you use the site?
If so why?
What do you think would make it acceptable to your parents?
Would you be embarrassed for your parents to see the site?
If so is it because of questions asked?
Questions you've asked? Or just the questions in general?
Answers given?
YOUR answers given, or just everyones answers?
Has anyone, besides myself, (who talked to both my kids about it), Talked to their parents about BECOMING an advicenator?
I think it is a great way to initiate conversation
about topics you may be embarrassed to discuss with a parent about yourself. I wonder if anyone has done that?
I think I have plagued you with enough questions for now. Thank you! :)yg
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id be embarassed
i delete it in the history
im always grounded for everything i do
i ask alot of personal questions on herei would never show my mom shed get me a therepist and tell everyone we do not get along anymore at all she tells me how much she hates my friends music personality clothes everything
id be embarrassed to look on here with them because shed make fun of everything seriosly and shed know my questions
she just hates everything about me
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Q: ok i know this question is thrown out a lot..but i really need a good site.. i need a site that has GOOD aim profiles, other than xanga, buddy4u and qm.yourmemory or w/e that site is. thankss =]
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piczo.com
myspace.com
buddyprofile.com
facebook.com
hope i helped
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Q: My room is super bland. the walls are all painted white and i need something to make my room more interesting. plz help!
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pick you two favorite colors or just colors youd want in your room. then with one paint the walls solid that color. then the other color use that and white or black and get like pokadots or striped patterned material. use it over your window and dresser. get bead curtains with thoes colors and pattern. get a rug with the colors and pattern. then put up alot of pictures you took or of people and posters of bands. thats what i just did for my room. hope i helped it ends up lookin great.
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Q: I'm a 16/m and I have never had a girlfriend. I used to be kinda fat in middle school, but i have lost alot of weight and am in great shape. I would say im good-looking, and have a lot of friends who are girls, but it seems like no girls think im boyfriend material. maybe its just that i cant tell if a girl likes me or not. so what should i do?
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just flirt~girls dont like guys who show no interest and dont even try~try to be funny and flirt~maybe to your friends that are girls first they know you~then to girls you like~or just ask to your friends that are girls what girls look for in a guy~i dono im not 16~but i hope i helped
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Q: im moving in a few months and i wanted to get ready to decide how i want to decorate. I looked at Pbteen and a few other sites but i didnt really see anything that caught my eye. I was wondering if anyone decorated there room and it came out really great. I want everything to be a certain color so everything will match. I also tried wake up frankie. Help would be great thanks
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im redoing my room now so far i love it. i have dark purple walls. black and white pokadotted curtains, pokadotted bedspread, bead curtains with a pokadotted pattern on it, and pokadotted material i put over my dresser. evanescence posters and pictures of stuff. it sounds like alot of pokadots but it doesnt look it i love it so far. just pick your two favorite colors and paint your walls one and the other put with white in a pokadotted pattern. i love it.
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Q: y cant penguins fly cause they have wings and stuff
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their too fat so they couldnt stay in the sky
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Q: Are pixie sticks good physically to your body?
It tastes so good but I wonder of it's bad because I feel like it's kinda the same as eating a bowl of just sugar.
Thanks and when you answer can you tell me if you're a professional or not so I can know for sure?
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its flavored and dyed sugar
pour out the pixie stick and you could dip strawberries in the pixie stuff then itd be healthier its yummy
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-i dont change for people -my only fear is being hated again -i am extremely hyper at times and adicted to coffee -i curse way to much -i have a bad temper -in love with taking pictures -has had a very emotional life -im NOT emo or gothic but thats what everyone wont stfu with -i think of guys as better friends -id be gone without my friends -my old friends have put me threw way to much -i used to be one of the popular people but now i cant stand them but still talk -i love guitars -my favorite music is taken away forever -ill answer any question honestly just dont hate me for bein brutally honest
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Gender: Female Location: under your bed Occupation: starter in photography and still in schoo Age: 13 Member Since: February 8, 2007 Answers: 140 Last Update: February 6, 2008 Visitors: 7781
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