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hmm im not sure what to be for halloween.
i'm 13, so i don't want something too revealing, but not all covered up, you know? i really have no ideas all the ones i saw in catalogs and stuff i'm not interested in. and dontt tell me to make my own, i have no idea how to make anything halfway decent.
k thanks

this may sound kinda cheesy but you should so be a go go dancer lol..they have the most cutest lil outfit to wear its like a kinda short dress thats realli colorful nd these white platform boots nd i think they come with a white hair band..if you wanna check out the costume u can look at a halloween store like Halloween Express

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ok im 13 and cacussion(dont think i spelled that right),and my boyfriend derrick is 14 and african american.ok my dad is so raciest and my mom isnt.like i had to tell my boyfriend that i wasnt alowed to date.so when we hold hands or something we have to stop so my dad dose not see.i babysitt his little sister and we like watch movies while his sisster is asleep and we hold hands an sit close but if i hear my dad coming we have to seperate really fast!!!im getting really tiered of it and its pissing me off.breaking up with him is not an option so what do i do???

okie first nd foremost im not gonna say break up with him coz it seems like you all realli like eachother i had the same problem but my ex-boyfriends parents just didnt like me..well im asian and my ex boyfriend was white nd i've known him forever nd you know his parents were realli nice with me but i think 2 summers ago wen we started dating his mom didnt like me..his dad was okie with it but we didnt let n e thing come between us coz we knew we liked eachother alot so we didnt let his mom come between us i know that your story is sorta differnt from mine but i just think you should just keep your head u nd dont let n e one tell you differently if you realli like him you would be with him no matter wat happens even if your parents tell u not to dont listen to them its your heart not theres

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hey i always hear men and stuff always talking about hott girls they had sex with and stuff and how they were shaven and everything...well do junior high boys and around that age really care if a girl shaves down there? because i know people my age are having sex now.

in junior high?..well i know that some of my guy friends are like that too but yeah i dont know my opinion is that i think people that are in junior high are a tad bit young to have sex i mean dont get me wrong its there choice so wat ever floats there boat..lol..i know that to some guys it does matter coz you know they dont want it to be prickly or like ticklish lol but then some people like it shaved nd some people dont it just depends on the guy

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Well, I've asked many questions about masturbation, and people say 'it's healthy'. Then why do I feel so ashamed? My hormones are taking over my life, and I'm stuck in between telling my mom and either masturbating or not, or not telling my mom and masturbating or not. I know it's a very personal decision but I'm not swayed easily by a couple of 'it's healthy' or 'don't do it' or 'tell your mom and she'll tell you not to', ya know? I just need it flat out - what should I do?


Thankyou in advance!

okie to tell you i think masturbation is just fine i think everyone does it..i mean come on do u know anyone who doesnt masturbate?..well if i were you i would be a lil embarrassed to tell my mom that i masturbate so if i were you i wouldnt tell her at all nd dont be so ashamed of masturbating everyone does it every once in a while nd of course your hormones are taking over your life you a growing teenager (hopefully you are a teenager)..your hormones are gonna make you do somethings you dont wanna do but just think of this "live everyday like its your last" nd in some ways hormones can be very good =]

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Okay so lets say you wanna start making out with this guy and so on...but how do you get to that point? Like ill start it but how do u get his attention to make him want to kiss you? Like its not just some random guy i mean ive had sex with him so its not like a first time or anything...

okie first thing i wanna ask is..if you've had sex with him then wats the problem of getting him to makeout with you?..lol..nd well i guess if you wanted to makeout just u know sorta come on to him like actg i guess seductress type like dont act like a complete whore but act mysterious nd well yeah i hope you get the point..lol

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i saw on a preview of a movie called "40 year old virgin" and he says "you best have a big trunk because i'm bout to put my bike in it" if a guy did that to you girls, what would yall do? because someone said that to my friend and she wanted to know what she should do!

if anyone ever did that to me i would laugh so hard but it just depends on if they meant it if they meant i would go "get away from me u big freaking nasty" or if it was a joke i would laugh my head off..lol

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wats cow tipping???

IT IS SO MUCH FUN!! lol its when you go to a cow field and while the cows are sleeping you try to push the cow over, now u may think its silly but the cows cant get up by themselves so the farmer has to come get them..lol

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I know girls will judge another girl on their clothing, but do guys care if your not wearing abercrombie or hollister? (I know I sound very shallow thinking all guys judge on stupid things but its been bothering me) It just doesnt seem right that guys dont need to wear amercrombie but girls seem almost required to or they're pushed out. Another question, do guys prefer strait hair over curly? thanks in advance, I'll rate for anyone who can give me a decent answer.

okay well i hardly wear abercrombie or hollister the only time i wear abercrombie is either when i wear my old abercrombie shirt to go 4 wheeling,and when i wear hollister its always my friends..lol..but my boyfriend hes a sweetheart i lub him so much he doesnt matter what i wear or wat hair color or if my hair color is straight or curly so guys shouldnt worry about that stuff coz if they do then thats just gay

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well i want a thong really badly but the last time i asked my mom when i could get one she said when i was 15! i think it's really unfair, i could have got one with my friend in fl but i know if my mom found out that i did she would have freaked! my friend got five behind her mom's back but i couldn't should i buy some or should i ask her again?
signed
helpless

okay well how olf are u? well i started wearing thongs when i was about..12 (im 13) so i would just sneak a few or you know wat? you can buy one that comes with a bra thats what i do and now i have like 10 pairs so try that lol

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Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?

Thanks-

okay im going to stay neutral on this because i do agree with you but then i dont so first off i am going to say i agree with you because it is such a young age to be doinga bout this and girls or boys are growing up so fast and keep thinking "hey i need this boyfriend/girlfriend" but then i disagree coz its there choice because its what they think if they are ready then they are ready

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Anyone whos really good with xangas, cood yu please gimme yur sn? I can put in layouts and music nd stuff, but i have some questions. Please leave yur sn, im not some weirdo stalker, i just need some help

okay..i'm really good using xanga..lol..heres my s/n xXditzyazn10Xx

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well this is kinda hard butt.. well im only 13 and i hang out with a group of all different ages from 11 to 16 and i am the only one who is a virgen! i dont kno what to do alott of them lost their virgenity either when they were 10 or 13 and i dont kno wat to do because i like abcople of my friuends in this grouip as like a boyfreiend and they like me back but i donno wat to because theyr all like sex isa a good thing and its ok to do when ur littlew if u have a condoma dn im afraid they are gonna want me to do stuffwith them that iv nevber donte and i am so0o confuseed please help!

i rate well =] hailey*

well first off if they pressure you to do anything do not do it!! but if you want to u can but anyway if you are the only virgin be happy about it because u have something they dont have you have the ablility to say no to something they didnt say no to..i mean if they say they did want to do it i bet 75% of the people in your group just wanted to be cool so just think about that

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i just got my period and i was wondering what kind of tampons are best

well it really depends which one is more comfortable their are the cardboard applicators..(which are uncomfortable to me) or the plastic ones (comfy)but i say u should try the plastic ones coz they are easier..so try that

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how come people call girls sluts if they kiss guys (like me...but i havent done it in over a month)
a slut is someone who has sex w/a bunch of guys!! so how come IM gettin called a slut!?
but im not the only one...some other people i know are getting called sluts too. and its not fair! i dont have sex! how am i a slut? i just dont get girls at all...even tho i am a girl! i just dont get why they do things like this

the reason they do that is because there eaither just jealous of you or they just wanna start nasty rumors..if you're not a slut dont even worry about it because u know its not true

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well the other day when my friend slept over it was time to put our pj's on and i usually go into the bathroom to get changed and my friend just started to take it all of in front of me and i got nervous so i went to the bathroom.....does that mean anything?? like did she want to see me naked or somthing?? because she is usually a private person about that stuff

signed confused?

i rate 5's for GOOD answers

PS im a girl

no..lol..i do that all the time its not like shes turning lesbian..she probably just wants to change and get it ova with instead of walking..so dont think of it as a nasty thing..me and my friends do it all the time

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I am going into 7th grade and I have really small feet ( around size 3)!!!! I like skate shoes and I want white and pink ones. School starts in like around 3 weeks and I need them by then! my price range is up to about $50. I have looked everywhere!! Do u have any suggestons?

well i asked my friend and they do not have your size and the smallest size as an 8 or a 7 or maybe a 6 and u can get them at pacsun for like more than 50..try jc penneys they have vans and they have like..brown and pink and white and blue..and black and pink..but maybe check the internet for some for $50

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awhile back i gave my boyfriend head, and i only did it once, but im deathly afraid i have an std. i dont want to tell my parents anything. he told me he didnt cum but im scared. i go to bed crying often because of it. do i have an std?
thanks.

well if it was a while back i think you'd be okay

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ok well i have stared my period once and that was 3 months a go i have not had sex soo i am not pregnet! it worries me! i havent told my mom that i haent started in 3 months! because she know i have origanly started! is my body going haywire or somthing? and i gett alot of discharge still!

Haywired Body??

well if you first started then its okay because its your first mine didnt come for like about 2 months when you have your period for a year its gets every month

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Is 13 old enough to wear makeup? I mean like light makeup, not really heavy makeup cuz I'm 13 and I want to, but I'm not sure if it would look weird on a 13-year-old?

yeah..its perfectly fine i wear makeup and im 13 i've been wearing make-up since..i was 11 and if its light then thats good ^_^

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whats a way to get your hair really shiney and not look at fried?like what products can you use?

thanks ill rate high for real answers.

use that Garnier Fructis Sleek and Shine sysyem which means like the shampoo,conditioner,the weightless anti-frizz serum, and the leave in conditioner those work really good i use all of those products and it makes my hair like really soft and shiny

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