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raciest dad and my boy friend!!
ok im 13 and cacussion(dont think i spelled that right),and my boyfriend derrick is 14 and african american.ok my dad is so raciest and my mom isnt.like i had to tell my boyfriend that i wasnt alowed to date.so when we hold hands or something we have to stop so my dad dose not see.i babysitt his little sister and we like watch movies while his sisster is asleep and we hold hands an sit close but if i hear my dad coming we have to seperate really fast!!!im getting really tiered of it and its pissing me off.breaking up with him is not an option so what do i do???
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o.k. this afro- american boy sounds like a REALLY nice guy..he doesn't pressue you, he's not a bad influence...he's just simply a GREAT guy..right? but the only problem is his skin color....wow! o.k. tell your dad how much this boy means to you. don't laugh while explaining it be serious..straight up!!!! then see what your dad says if he still does'nt like him then tell your mom to try and persuade him to like him...if he still does NOT like your boyfriend then that's just too bad. tell your dad that he's a great guy tell him that it's not his skin color that attracted you it was his personality and sense of humor that opened up your eyes.your dad will just end up having to deal with it!!!! i mean like it's not like your doing anything bad right? good luck i hope evrything works out and you could be comfortable around your father when your with your b.f. if you still have any questions feel free to ask me ANYTHING, ,,,,, [don't hesitate]
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Okay you REALLY need to talk to your dad. I would probably write a note its a lot easier. But dads are ALWAYS going to be protective ... so he's gonna just find one thing not to approve of them && in your case its race. But just tell him how you feel and you feel as though you really like him. Tell him to imagine him in your shoes. And ask him what would he do if his mother was raciest and he was dating a african american girl.
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xoxo melissa
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I think you should talk to your dad privatly, or even write a note for him to read so he'll have no choice but to listen to what you're saying. Explain to him that the world has changed, and the person you're dating is actually a good person, cause obviously you really like him. Explain to your dad that your beliefs are different and that you really like him, and for your dad to at least give him a try. Then maybe get your mom to talk to your dad, too.
Good luck with this!
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okie first nd foremost im not gonna say break up with him coz it seems like you all realli like eachother i had the same problem but my ex-boyfriends parents just didnt like me..well im asian and my ex boyfriend was white nd i've known him forever nd you know his parents were realli nice with me but i think 2 summers ago wen we started dating his mom didnt like me..his dad was okie with it but we didnt let n e thing come between us coz we knew we liked eachother alot so we didnt let his mom come between us i know that your story is sorta differnt from mine but i just think you should just keep your head u nd dont let n e one tell you differently if you realli like him you would be with him no matter wat happens even if your parents tell u not to dont listen to them its your heart not theres
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