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relationships....
i am 15/f i am still a virgin and i plan to be until i find the love of my life that i know for sure im goin to marry. or i might just wait till marraige.. i just feel it's the right thing to do ..im not all religiousy (if thats a word) but i do believe in God.
okay so i never had a boyfriend well 2 one in 1st grade and i hated him (long story short: only went out because i needed a pack of post-its that he had) and the other guy was a player and i wasn't experience and wasn't ready to be.. i didnt even kiss him.. i never had a serious relationship basically.
so yea i am an attractive girl and guys ask for my numba i usually blow them off and i meet new guys and eveything and there are a few i like...but everytime i like i guy i always have to picture being married to him and having kids and just living the dream that i want with a nice man that i'll love...(i dont really go out wit boys because im scared of a broken heart also). is that a good thing thinkin about my future with a boy???? i know sometimes that i wont really end up with them but it's just a habit i have. any of you relate?
also i've been talkin with this boy from my school and i really really like him i just hope he feels the same about me. he talks to me in school and today was the first time we spoke on the phone. we talked for a hour and a half.. (hes one of those boys that are hard to understand)but i want to have a relationship with him. i want it to be the perfect relationship..but i know i have to go through the bad to get to the good the only thing is that i think imma be shy with him and that we wont be how i want it to be...does anybody have any advice they can give me or any opinions to what i said??? thanx for readin
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Okay i def. say go for this boy you like now! I used to be scared of a broken heart too , but I have gotten over that stage. Your going to get hurt with everyone eventually ... But maybe just hint it to him that you like him or find out who he likes. Now if you lived in Ohio(like mee :]), people have this term as a freezer ,, people that dont do stuff. Pretty much all of us dont want to be a 'freezer' so we all have kissed. But just start with a peck seriously. But wait for a special guy, and for the right time. If someones pressuring you to do something ... DONT DO IT , you have no need to do if it doesnt feel right. Uhmm ... and I also dont want to bring your hopes down but, our teacher(shes around 32 and shes like normal && we talk to her about stuff) she told us that no one our age gets married anymore ... like no one stays together that long, because the divorce rate increased a lot or something. But just talk to this boy .. if you want help on figuring out if he likes you .. just ask me :]
xoxo melissa <3
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