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Hi, I'm a 19/f and I've been with my boyfriend for about three years. Instead of just doing things or getting him gifts only on special occasions, I like to be spontaneous and surprise him on a random day "just cause".
Over the period of these three years, I've done a lot like make him crafty cards, cook for him, and etc, but I feel like I'm running short on ideas!
Keep in mind I am on a budget since most of my money is spent for my college tuition and textbooks. What I'd like to ask is if you all have any good ideas on what I could do to surprise him and remind him of how much I love him that is creative and affordable? My target is to get him something that he'll enjoy and that could possibly be useful (it doesn't have to be romantic), because I've given him a lot of love mementos already.
Here are some of his interests if it helps:
-cars
-computers
-video games
-movies
-food (the guy loves to eat)
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Not sure about this guy but most guys like sports. Maybe you could get him inexpensive tickets to watch his fave team play his fave sport.
I hope this helps.
Karazi Kenzee
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ok this is a stupid thing to say but yeah, i've been under alot of stress here lately for the past year or so now.I've been starting to think about cutting I have once before but dont know if I want to again last time I did my parents found out and said they were going to put me in a hospital if i ever did it again.But I can't think of any other ways to relieve my feelings in a way only I can control. (link)
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Talk to your parents about this or a school guideance counsler.Or if youdon't want your parents to know have a way of getting money on our own tell your parents you have something after school and go to a shrink.
don't cut! and I hope this helps.
Karazi Kenzee
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This boy that I really like broke up with his girlfriend. They've been going out since like 5th grade. When he broke up with her he told her he liked someone else (I know this because I know the girl's friends and they told me). I like him but I know the person he likes is not me. I just know it. I'm just really happy hes single now!!! What do I do??? I'm kinda shy so I dunni, I don't think i could talk to him. (link)
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Mybe the person he likes is you. Don't make the first move and don't try to get with him because if your not the person he likes then he'll break up with you to. If he really likes you and if he has courage then he'll ask you out.
Good luck!
Karazi Kenzee
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i have this boifriend that lives in different part of missouri!!well my cusion lives out there and i see him every weekend!!but he REALLY hot and all these gurls like him!!well he was over his friends house and my boifrinds brother was there and his brother called me and said that my boifrind was askin for lapdances,kissen on all these gurls's neck,and grabbi their boobs!!but my cusion said that i shouldnt trust my boifriends brother cuz hes jealous of me and his relationship and only wants me and him broke up!!should i trust my boifriend and these gurls??even my boifriends mom said i shouldnt trust his brother!!im so0o0o confused!!
xOx cOnFus3d!!
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I don't think you should trust the brother 100% maybe 50%... Maybe. ask your boyfriend about this party and if he thinks you don't know about the party that would be better. So go up to him and say so what did you do at the party. See what he says.
Good luck.
Karazi Kenzee
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ok, so a guy i know and love is stareing at me now that i have boobs... but what if thats all he likes me for? i want to love him , but i dont want him to break my heart. (link)
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Ask him why he stares at you all the time. Alot of guys ghet with a girl because their pretty but then get to know them.
Advice one
If you guys were togther before you got boobs then he should still like you for you. If he decided that he now only likes him because of your physical appearance then he is REALLY!!! shallow and don't get you heart broken even know you love him break his heart.
Advice two
If you guys were not together before you got boobs then I wouldn't stay with him I really wouldn't be with him at all but I'm not you so follow your heart.
Good luck!
Karazi Kenzee
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so theres this guy named brandon at my school. ive liked him ever since september. weve sat next to eachother almost all year in english.he would always flirt with me and stuff but he had a girlfriend & they were togteher for over a year.well last month they broke up. and ever since then weve been hanging out soo much and hes kissed me and hes held my hand and told me he likes me soo much. he even wrote me a song. and he calls me alllll the time. well when were at school he hugs me and puts his arm around me. but he told me he doesnt want a girlfriend. he wont kiss me at school. but outside of school we kiss all the time...we hangout at lunch and stuff but i dont know. my friend (whos also his friend) asked if he liked me he said yea i like her alot. and she said are u gonna ask her out? he said NO! not for school. its like he doesnt want the school to know were together. and everyone is asking me about it theyr like oh are you and brandon going out?? what does all this mean, why wont he ask me out? and hes not the kind of guy to use a girl...hes soo sweet...:| (link)
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Maybe he's embarrassed or prehaps he doesn't want his ex finding out.
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I'm not sure how many of you will remember but I am the girl who talks to her boyfriend on the phone, and I was afraid that I was caught because we were talking dirty on the phone. The link is [ http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=300878 ], incase anybody else wants to answer, but anyway, I am thinking that my mom may not know because she said that nobody thinks I am doing anything, and tonight, I was just talking to him, and she came up in my room, and said, "I came to ask if the conversations up here are clean" And I said yes and asked her why, and she said, "your sister told me to come and ask because I asked her." Ok, that makes me think that only my little sister may know, but I need other opinions on it, because I just need help here, could somebody please just lay out their opinion?
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Confront your 'lil sis and ask her if she has been listening in on your phone calls. If she says no she could be lying or ur mom might have a hint. If she says yes then tell ur mom and get the spotlight off you at least for a little while.
Karazi Kenzee
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I'm 13f and my second grade teacher, who I really really liked got charged with sexual abuse. I don't want to believe it but at the same time I know it's true. I even know the guy who was abused. It's always desturbing when it's someone you know and trust, but I don't understand why I'm so confused about this. (link)
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I think it's like a sub-consience state of denial. You know it's true but your sub-consience mind is so unhappy with this news that it refuses to believe the news.
Karazi Kenzee
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ok, so i imed this guy i liked 2 days ago, and he was talking a lot and asking me stuff..and he usually never does this so i was excited. And i wanted to ask him to this dance for friday..my friend talked to him at lunch and asked him if he wud say yes if i aksed him and she sed that he sed "prolly yes", and that he seemed enthusiastic about it. So then today, i imed him and he didnt say word...and then put an away up.. Should i not ask him, and do you think that he doesnt like me? Thanks. (link)
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Maybe he just got shy. If he does that again just leave him a message asking him to he dance (unless you want to ask him anothr way) and either stay on or leave an away message and check it.... often. If you don't get an answer from him then. Ask him in school the next day and say so what's the answer to my question yes or no. If he has no idea then just blurt out, not loud, Will you go to the dance with me? Make sure you guys are alone so he won't be embarrassed at all.
Good luck!!
Karazi Kenzee
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Im 13f and my family sucks. I have a spepcial ed brother and my parents think im a waist, but that's not true they just dont understand why i do things even though i do. I never talk to them and when i don't they get pissed off at me. I try so hard to makes things work between us, but they always seem to drag it back to my brother, but he's not the problem. I love my brother with all my heart, but the thing that scares me is that i sometimes flat out hate my parents. I know they try to help[ by sending me to shrink after shrink but what they dont understand is that nobody can fix this other than us. Another thing is my parents sometimes lie to the shrinks and i dont want to say anything cuz i don't want to get hit. My parents have "hit" me before, but it didnt really hurt and they have really bad tempers. I want to tell them this, but I don't want them to get pissed off. PLEASE HELP.
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Tell your parents that you want to talk to the shrink alone and tell him or her this. Tell the shrink about the fact that your parent's lie about some things and if they have lied already tell the shrink which stuff is true and which stuff is false. I really hope this hellps.
Karazi Kenzee
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What foods should you eat before exercising (sports that include running)? Also, what can you do to minimize cramps?!
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You shouldn't eat before exercising/sports. You know that wait one hour before swimming rule well the same goes for any sport. I don't know how to minimize cramps but heres what you can do when you get them:
1.Put your hands on top of your head
2.breath in through your nose and out through your mouth
3.Put your hands in the air, like your raising your hand except put them both up
I hope this helps
Karazi Kenzee
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alright, so there is this guy that my bf is not-quite-but-sorta friends with. nick, the dude, is trying really hard to get in our realtionship. he's always asking questions and saying things that he has no right to say. he asked my bf if we had sex in his truck. i honestly don't think its nick's business what my bf and i do or do not do. what can i do to get this guy to get the hint that no one likes him and he is not wanted anywhere near me. thanks in advance.
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Tell him VERY FIRMLY that you don't like when he asks you those questions, and/or you could tell an adult you trust that he is harassing you because he is asking kind of embarrassing questions.
Karazi Kenzee
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my dad is always so mean and curses alot he is an alchoholic what can i do to make him be a normal dad? (link)
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Talk to him tell him that you don't like when he drinks talk to him may be about rehab. Talk to your mom also she could help convince him to go to rehab.
Karazi Kenzee
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I'm going on holiday with my friend in the summer and I am a very picky eater!!! I have given her a basic list of what I really don't like and like, totally won't eat, but Iunno, there's obviously going to be other stuff they feed me that I don't like. So I'm gonna take a bit of food in my suitcase just in case. I've already thought of cereal bars and crisps but is there anything else I could take? Ignore the fact that I'm a picky eater, just say anything you can think of. If it's a good idea but I don't like the food then I'll still rate high because you tried. (link)
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You could take apples and these mini boxes of cereal. They come like six in a pack. You could take saltines or some kind of crackers and/or maybe cookies. Have fun!!
Karazi Kenzee
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I can never eat breakfast- one because I'm a bit lazy because I'm tired and two because I'm not a big fan of it, but I know it's unhealthy not to eat it and I know you can gain weight from not eating it because then you pig out at lunch and the rest of the day. Any suggestions [besides fruit] and please note that I'm on a tight scheduale and don't have alot of time to eat or prepare it [no cereal suggestions, please] (link)
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To start this is not cereal its a cereal bar. They are like cereal except you hold them in one hand general mills makes them or try pop tarts they are always good.
Karazi Kenzee
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I have my period about every 2 1/5 to 3 weeks.. then, when I do have it.. I have it for 2 days then I stop that night then I have it for one day then I stop that next day then have it for 2 more days.. is somthing wrong with me.. :-x
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No I think that is just how your body is.
Karazi Kenzee
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One of my teachers is always making fun of the students. I know it is just in good fun but 2 girls started crying over this. Should i tell someone or just let him go on making fun of everyone?
Please i need help!
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Talk to your teachers after class tell them that your friends didn't like it and would they please stop.
Karazi Kenzee
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i joined lacrosse and my legs hurt really bad from running.. how can i make it feel better?? and do you have any lacrosse tips? (link)
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Stretch after practice and the pain will go away I think the same thing happened to me with track at the beggining of the season.
Karazi Kenzee
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I was having a semi-asthma attack on the phone with my boyfriend, and if you've ever had an asthma attack you aren't able to talk without hurting yourself. My boyfriend was asking over and over if I could breathe, well obviously not? I wouldn't answer because it hurt for me to talk and I finally answered with "No!" Then he takes it all defensivly and was like "Sorry! I was just trying to help, but you keep shutting me out." I wasn't shutting him out was I? I was just trying to be able to breathe... Any Advice? (link)
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Tell him that you were having an asthma attack. Say that your sorry you kinda yelld at him but thats all you could manage.
Karazi Kenzee
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Okay... I hate my life and everything right now. All my friends are in fights with eachother and me! And their is a nasty roomer going around my school that im not a virgen any more which i still am! And b/c of this roomer my 3 month boyfriend broke up with me. Im 13 by the way! So i dont know what to do! None of my friends will talk to me,eachother ugHHH! There are nasty roomers going around with them too. Everyone is making fun of me and my friends. Please Help Me! I Will Rate & Give Feed Back too =) (link)
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Try to talk to your friends and explain to them that you ARE a virgin. Tell your ex this too. I hope this will help.
Karazi Kenzee
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