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Hi,

about me :
1. 5'3
2. 18 at the moment
3. YANKEES!!! ALL THE WAY

I DONT KNOW YOU so i give suggestions
I HOPE YOU RESPECT THAT
If you don't like my advice then don't ask! simple. don't rate bad because i tell you something that you don't wanna hear, i couldn't care less what you rate me, it's not affecting my life at all...
I'll tell it like it is.

advice

Everyone seems to have a problem with age I dont see why its just the some person being born a different time. What do you think?

I agree completely. If people are comfortable being around each other, then nothing else matters.
I think that it makes some people uncomfortable and that's why they make a big deal about it. Also cause they don't understand and they haven't been in a similar situation. I know from experience that age doesn't really come between people.

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I would prefer foreign names like Italian ones or Russian or even Hawaiian..annything unique.

I'm russian, so here are some I think are cute:
(also, to make them sound cuter, lots of names have 'ka' added on to the end.)

Katia or Katinka
Sema (translates to Samantha in English)
Olga
Katerina
Dasha or Dashinka
Irina or Ira
Gala
Luda
Masha or Mashinka
Marusya
Eska or Esinka
Mila or Ludmila
Rima
Sasha or Sashka
Vika (translates to Victoria in English)


If you don't like any of these, here's a great website that I use :
http://www.charodey.com/names.php?p=r

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There was a movie on Lifetime that I watched a really long time ago.


It took place in a small town, and there was something evil that came in and started taking people, and cloning them. The clones were evil, and the only way you could tell if it was really the person you knew, or their eveil clone, was to xray them. Because everything inside them was reversed- heart, liver, etc.


Help?

I'm pretty sure you're talking about the movie "Invasion of the Body Snatchers"

Here's a plot summary:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0077745/plotsummary

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What is your favourite type of pizza?

I work in an italian pizzaria/restaurant, so they make a lot of creations but my favorite would have to be :
chicken with grilled onions

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Hi. I am a sixteen year old girl and a junior in highschool, and I have kidney disease. All of the guys that I like that ask me out, dump me as soon as they find out that I can't do some of the stuff that they can. Also, I have two brothers in Iraq and an ill mother. Whenever a guy finds out any of this he'll avoid me. It makes me mad, but am I being stupid? Is it too much for a guy to handle? The only thing that would directly effect our relationship is that I can't do anything really vigorous. I'm not a sad depressed person either. I'm normal and very happy. Am I being unreasonable to ask for a guy to like me? I would really appreciate your input.

Sweetheart, you're not living up to your potential!!!
Obviously the guys you are dating are completely stupid!! Sorry, but if they can't handle that, they are completely wrong for you & DO NOT DESERVE YOU! You are so much better than them.

It's not unreasonable to ask for a guy to like you, but you need the right kind of guy. He'll come along! You're sixteen, you're still young, you have your whole life to find someone who's right for you. Don't expect to find him now, because most of the boys at 16 are immature, cocky, and too preoccupied with the wrong stuff to notice all the right stuff. Know what I mean?

Don't get angry. Laugh at them! Laugh at the fact that they aren't smart or mature enough because its true! They aren't. Pity them. Honestly, they aren't even worth your time.

Stay strong, and if you need to talk you can message me in my inbox. Good luck!

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does anyone know any good layout sites with cute layouts?

something like createblog and myhotlyts.

here's what i like.

- default layouts
- animal print
- hearts
- stars
- dark colors

thanks in advance!

check these out, they're personal favorites :

http://www.myprocodes.com

http://www.layouts247.net

http://www.layoutjelly.com/

http://www.tropicalavenuelyts.com

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well i am 15 and my gf is 24 and we had sex for 1st time and i used a condom but the 1st time we did it it was for maby 60 sec top and then after a bit we tryed agin and it was for a bit (with a comdom) and then we stoped for like 30 sec and she took the condome off and then she wanted 2 go agin but she didn't want me 2 put a condom on and i asker her like 3 times and she sed its fine i won't get pregnat and she sed that there was only 1 day a month a chick can get pragnat and its rite befor they get there pearoid...but i never busted in her wile the comdom was off but i know quite a bit still got in there and now i am kinda scared...


p.s. the reason we didn't do it for like no time at all and then stoped and then did it agin is beacuz it was bolth of out 1t time and i know i popped her cherry beacuz it blead a bit...

Ok first of all, do you realize how dangerous being w. someone that age is? I know you think it seems cool, but honestly if you were 24, what would you be doing with a 15 year old? This is illegal, and if someone finds out, it's statutory rape. Congratulations.

Second, "she sed that there was only 1 day a month a chick can get pragnat and its rite befor they get there pearoid" .... she lied to you. A female can get pregnant at ANY TIME NO MATTER WHAT. So she doesn't know what she's talking about.

It doesn't matter how long you were in her, if your sperm went in here there is a chance she can get pregnant.

Stop this relationship before you get yourself in trouble. It's not worth it. You'll either get her in jail or you'll become a daddy at 15.

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I believe that your first love will be the most genuine but I might just be saying that because I'm not over my ex. He's the type that acts stupid in public but when it gets to the serious stuff, he's all I could ever dream off. And my best friend thinks that too... She's waited about a year for him and he learned to like her back. I thought I would back off because I already had my chance. It's not working out for me... After we broke up we became really close friends again. We wrestle over candy, we play tricks on each other, and all that and it hurts when he doesn't talk to me but I don't want to tell him that. When we finally had a serious discussion that didn't involve jolly ranchers (lol), I got all angry and jealous and mad when he said that he still loves me but he wants to give my friend a chance. I told him that if I was going to be the junky that he would run to once he's single then I don't want to talk to him anymore. I'm a teenager, I do stupid things. I kept my word for a couple of days then eventually apologized. And now... He's ignoring me. Not exactly ignoring but we don't have the same conversations as before; just short answers that make my heart hurt... I'd like to say that I catch him looking at me but I doubt thats true... I never have the guts to try talk to him since then. I just had to mess things up. So what should I do now? Talk to him? If I did, wouldn't I sound desperate? And what would I say? He's just going to feel the awkward atmosphere and run off to his friends... Should I keep it inside and tell myself it was never meant to be? And I would really love to know what he's thinking whenever he just glances at me, makes a blank face and looks away. I'm sorry if it doesn't add up, just tell me what you don't get because this story is a year long and I left out quite alot of details. I find it kind of funny when I can solve all of my friend's problems but when it comes to mines, I turn to strangers. Thank you for your time *bows*

Hi, first of all I'd just like to say that your story seems so heartfelt that I'll genuinely try to give you the best advice I can...

I know for a fact that if you leave it the way things are now, you are going to regret it. Each day that goes by, you will absolutely regret not keeping a relationship (whether it be friendship or more) going with this boy. So talk to him! Please!!! I know what it's like and I think the biggest mistake that I've made (close situation to yours) is not speak with the person. You don't have to discuss the last thing you said to him, you can just text him something that's joking around. "Hey stranger" or something that'll lighten the mood.

You wouldn't sound desperate this way. The only reason it should be awkward is if YOU MAKE IT AWKWARD. Just imagine the roles reversed, if he didn't make it awkward around you would you feel nervous around him? NO! You know, most people can't be friends after they break up, so since you've gotten over that awkward post breakup stage, you can get over something like this. So basically, you need to be yourself and strive to keep things a constant joke. This will keep you guys from drifting apart.

As for your friend, that's his decission. You cannot make him choose you, but I'm sure he'll realize what he wants, just as long as you keep at it! Don't let it go, trust me, you'll be sorry if you do.

I wish you luck and I hope I helped!
Message my inbox if you think I can help you anymore!

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I'm doing a project for my boyfriend who is about to buy an 82' Mustang GT. I need a really good picture of the old style mustang symbol with the red/white/blue stripes behind it. I've tried google and can't get anything really good that's big enough to see it without distorting if it's zoomed. So if you have a mustang with this symbol on it or if you can find one please send me the link! I'll be painting it so I need a front on view of it.

Thanks!!

I think this is what you're talking about....


black version:
http://media.photobucket.com/image/mustang%20logo/90mustang_bucket/mustang_logo.jpg?o=3

grey version:
http://whitetrashdesign.ca/images/2006_Ford_Mustang_V6_Pony_1600x1200_02.jpg

others:

http://media.photobucket.com/image/mustang%20logo/ghnosi/Mustang.jpg?o=13

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a lot of my friends are smoking. i know its a bad thing to do...yet i still want to try it. can i have your opinion with an explanation to back it up please?

EDIT : I figured you weren't talking about cigarettes, but it's actually pretty much the same with weed and everything else.... once you start one thing, all the rest come along with it, know what I mean? It's kind of like a package deal.




Hi,
Since you want an opinion, I'll just tell you what happened to me, and you can base it off that.

All my friends smoke, with the exception of maybe 2 or 3. They all started when they were 13 and 14, and now are hooked. Not to mention that almost all of the smoking progressed to other stupid habits. They regret it every single day because they are dependent on something that costs them a lot of money. And now when they try to quit, they cant and become miserable.

I wanted to try smoking when I was 15. I stopped myself even though my friends were CONSTANTLY pressuring me. But I told them I thought it was disgusting and pointless, not to mention a waste of time and life. They ALL agree now.

I don't have to worry about paying for cigarettes, having an addiction, having bad breath and gross teeth, and smelling like it all the time. It's normal to be curious, but the feeling goes away after a while. Now I'm completely disgusted by the whole idea of having smoke come out of your mouth. In my opinion, it's just pointless and for people who have nothing better to do.

Also, if you're gonna do something, make sure you have a good reason to back it up with. Don't do something cause your friends want you too, you'll end up regretting it.

Good luck.

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I am a 22 year old woman dating a 39 year old man. We've been together for almost 2 years now. I love him very much and he loves me.

Can our relationship last despite our age difference?

I have seen (throughout my whole life) SO MANY people, with huge age differences, fall in love. And not only that, they last.

As you said, you are with this man, you love him, and obviously you're going to have stuff in common with him. You don't love him because the two of you are different and have no common ground, but because there is a common factor involved. Therefore the whole "a man his age and a woman your age will be in different stages" is completely irrelevant because you both found similarities in each other already. It's not like you're a 16 year old who is mistaking lust for love. Luckily, you already found love, age shouldn't change that.

My parents (24 year age difference) are still happily married. They said that once they both became comfortable with the age difference, there was nothing that could separate them.

If you believe this man is special, don't let age change your mind.

I wish you luck!

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Do you usually use Maxi Pads or Tampons? And do you know any kinds that work good?

Personally, I've been using Tampons for the past 4-5 years, and the only brand I feel comfortable with is Tampax Pearl

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My 16th birthday is coming up and my friends and family keep asking what I want. I have no idea what I want, plus I really don't like letting people buy me stuff. Any ideas for gifts I could ask for? Theres a ring that I want but it's too expensive. Here's the website. http://www.valou3cap.com/

Gift Cards! That should do the trick!
I dont know if you've heard of it, but there's this gift card called 'Simon' and basically you can use it anywhere that takes a Visa credit card. So basically your family can put money on it and you can spend it anywhere.

If not, then you can always let them know about the ring and have them chip in all together like the person below me said. That's also a good idea.

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What does it mean to be called a "Smurf?"

Example: My friend was driving down the road and some kid shouted out "smurf!" to her...and I was thinking wth is a smurf??

here's the many different definitions of smurf. it depends on how you use it really.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=smurf

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ok so this one time i called this guy i like and blocked the number with *67
and ive been texting him, and i never got a text back from him so im like whatever ill leave him alone
well i just texted him asking when we are hanging out. cause its been a while
and i realized that i never deleted the *67 from his number.
so my question is, is he getting my texts still?
or does it like not go cause its on *67
and if he gets it does it say its from me? or is it like unknown

you can't text a person on *67
it only works when you call a person.

So most likely when you text him, he's not getting the message, cause the number is invalid.

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Does anyone know where I can find a song simular to My Heart Belongs to You by Hayley Westenra? If you haven't heard of the song here it is..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SKzHfz9a_Gw&feature=PlayList&p=DED90BFE75F0B1D7&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=26


I'm looking for a slow, touchy song perferably love songs.

Thanks

Have you listened to her other songs? Like Dark Waltz, Across the Universe of Time, and Vivo Per Lei (with andrea bocelli) ? They're personal favorites besides My Heart Belongs to You.

Her sister sings, so maybe you'd enjoy some of those songs too.

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what if your completely in love. well what you think is love... why should age matter... i dont think its grose to be with somone that 14 or 15 when there 18... but i really dont know.. damn i wish i wasnt so confused...

Hi
First of all, when you become 30 and he's 34, it WONT MATTER!! and sometimes this thing happens. As far as I'm concerned age DOESN'T MATTER! I have experienced liking guys that are twice my age, and sometimes it works out and other times it doesnt.
As of right now, it may seem like a huge age difference, but when you're older it wont be.
And whoever is saying its "gross" just doesn't understand and is immature.
I hope this helped.

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So there's this guy. I'm a 14 year old girl right now, going on 15, and he's 33, going on 34. I'm very mature for my age, mentally and physically, so naturally, I tend to like older men. Well, when I met him, I thought he was a really nice guy. We hung out, and in the course of a year, I began developing feelings for him. We hang out a lot. I've known his parents since I was small, and he comes from a very nice family. I kept having dreams of him, and cannot stop thinking of him, so soon I was going crazy. Just a week ago, I couldn't take it anymore so I nearly exploded with emotions, and blabbed out that I liked him. He took it very well, and I was surprised because he said that right now he likes me as a friend, but if I was 18 or 19, he would seriously like me as a girlfriend. He explained that obviously he cannot say he liked me back considering I'm only 15, but he would wait and see if I still had these feelings in a year, and he'd keep checking up on me and when I hit 18 or 19 he said that we'd definitely talk. I really like him, and I feel that he likes me back. He's very sweet, kind, a great listener, and fun to be around. I'm just a bit worried, because of the age difference, if it ever did work out, I'd probably lose him and be widowed. If you truly love someone, I've heard these marriages work. Can I get past the age difference if I truly love him?

At the moment, dont worry yourself about marriage and such. That's in the future, and if you spend all your time thinking about it, you wont notice everything that's going on around you now.

I understand the age difference, I'm in the same situation with a guy 16 years older than me, so I know what you're dealing with, except I'm older than you. IF you truly love him, you can get past the age difference. Nothing will matter, not even age. However, he's right, see if you feel the same way in a year or two. Seeing as he's a nice, decent guy, he won't let anything happen until you're 18, which is appropriate, so in the mean time, see if you like anyone else as much as him.

As he said, he'll be there when you turn 18, so just enjoy today. Also, don't let people tell you that the age difference is a reason it wont work out because my father is 22 years older than my mother and they've been together my whole life and before that. Ofcourse, not all relationships work out, but it doesn't mean that it will or wont for you.

You'll get past this.

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im 13 years old and i really desperate too have sex ,i dont no what to do or how too conrol it i dont want to get my question deleted but i masturbate to a lot of porn

It's normal to want to have sex, especially at 13, cause thats when puberty hits. It will take some time, but you'll learn to control your urges much better, and you wont want to have sex as much.
There's nothing that you can really do about it except try to stay away from sexual things. Like if you watch a movie, stay away from the ones with sex scenes.
As for masturbating, I dont know if that's helping or not, but I'd stay away from it too, because it'll only make you want to have sex more.

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*sigh* i've been trying to get used to tampons for about 3 years now... and everytime i try, it never works out. ive only had it actually in 1 time, and that time was terrible because i insterted it wayy to far in and i had to get my mom to pull it out because it hurt soo badly. everyother time i tried, it only went in 1 inch. i cant get it to go in farther than 1 inch. i've tried lots of things. i'm using playtex slender regulars. i've tried putting petroleum jelly on it, so that way it slides better. i've tried squatting down, standing up, laying on my back. but nothing seems to work. everytime i get it in up to an inch, it starts hurting like hell. i told my bff and she said there's a barrier there and it needs to loosen up. HELLPP.... i dont know what to do anymore??

I think you're not relaxing your muscles enough, I could be wrong ofcourse, but thats what it seems like.
Tampons aren't meant to hurt you and if it does, there are two reasons.
1. you didn't insert it all the way (because once it's all the way up, you shouldn't feel any discomfort AT ALL)
or
2. you're not relaxing when putting in it.

I can't think of anyother reason that this would happen, but i know from experience that if you dont relax IT WILL HURT BAD.
Hope you work this out!

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